Old school Chivalry

When a new guest of the family was interested in knowing someone they spent time and energy into making an effort to hangout and do things to impress the family. Now Family members who were raised in that generation no longer abide by that, let alone people in today's society. Is it a classic generational thing where we adapt to different era's to tailor to what's happening in the today and now? I don't get it, what must a person do nowadays to earn the trust? Ex. my parents seem to denounce the fact that I'm trying to let them in on my life's events such as who I meet, who I plan on staying in my life awhile, and my constant switch of majors lol. Can we bring back the chivalry, can we sow what we want to reap in the next booming generation, after all change starts with you.

Wow. I read what you wrote and I must say that the old adage of 'writing the way you speak' is an acceptible way to write is valid; until now.

My dear what are you trying to ask us? Is chivalry different between generations or is your understanding different of other's understanding of chivalry?

FYI chivalry is "old school" there is no other. So 'old school' Chivarly does not exist. There is either Chivalrous behavior or there is not.

Chivalry or Chivalric code was founded in the Middle ages.

Lol you sound like my virgo dad 🙂 he does this also, maybe I spoke too fast without clarity. Is chivalry dead was what I was asking basically. My parents are old school but I'm not understanding why most things are being noted acceptable that during my upbringing weren't. My younger sister is allowed to have a phone in high school, spend so much money on designer brand clothing etc. I couldn't do that and she's more not loose but acceptable in terms of dating and stuff. This guy I met we talk hangout he's a good guy but nothing he does is acceptable to her. He was raised in an old school fashion also, so he knows how this process goes and he's patient. Me on the other hand I was once involved in a bad relationship and he was disrespectful to my parents, however they still invite him over occasionally. I don't understand are the ages changing does manners and such not matter anymore. There's very few people making time nowadays to still abide by morals and then there's the other half up to no good, disrespectful guys/girls jumping in and out of failed relationships. I consider myself honoring my parents but nothing seems good enough.

Well your the first born. Does that answer you question?

You are the pioneer for your parents. You do it first they learn; your sister comes along in your wake and gets a pass.

Welcome to the first born club. We're getting jackets made.

It's not fair though 😭 , I am an excellent role model haha I almost typed rebel. I am trying to establish trust and all but I don't see any reason for them not to not trust me. Yes that one is sure getting a pass with a lot :p.