Question for Aquamales: Platonic vs. Romantic

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by riobi on Saturday, June 15, 2013 and has 3 replies.

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@riobi
13 Years

Hi guys! I'm a newbie here 🙂
Just a question for all aquamales out there:
In what ways do you act differently with a girl who's just a friend vs. a girl who you like more than a friend?
Thanks in advance! Cheers! 🙂

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

If I like them more than a friend I'd want to spend more time with them. With me it'll be very 1 on 1 no group settings or anything like that. Perhaps little sentimental gifts here and there that something you've told me about yourself before. I'd want to please you, buy you a coffee in the morning, take you our for food, watch a movie, dancing etc. Asking questions might be one, albeit maybe some personal questions for curiosity sake or I'd share something that I consider private.

Shit I don't know hey. Might be the way I look at you and being physically closer to you. Although I try to be conscious of it I don't think my intentions have ever been mistaken for 'friendly' gestures.

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@riobi
13 Years

aquasnoz thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🙂 the 1-on-1 time together is probably the biggest difference. for the "pleasing you" part, i still can't tell the difference because a lot of aquamales i know always make it a point to please people close to them, friend and more-than-friend alike. same with the staring and physical closeness.. i also can't differentiate.

BalmyTigress, yes what you said is so true, that's why I am asking this question because I think I am misinterpreting those friendly gestures myself.. lol 😄