Supportive aqua

Hey Aqua friend. Hope you are well.!! I don't really know what my question is, but I can use an ear or a few words.

My Aqua is very supportive of my decisions. He always wants me to do my best, supports me to take risks and better myself. He's amazing.

I just got offered a job opportunity in another country. It's pretty great, prestige, status moola-- it's just halfway across the world. Away from him 😢

If it were me (I'm an Aquarius female) and it was my guy I cared for deeply, I would want them to go. I would never want them to turn away from a dream, because of me. I would be so happy for them. I would not feel right if they stayed, almost like they gave up something because of me... And now I had an obligation, a commitment... And that would impact my freedom (I always want to feel like a bird, not a caged one...).

I can't speak for your experience, but I just put myself in the situation for a moment. I always want people to follow through with their dreams, if the relationship is strong, it will continue. It just may not look the same.

I didn't phrase the second part right about it impacting me and my freedom- meaning that if someone gave up a dream of theirs, for me- that just scares the crap out of me. Emotionally I wouldn't know what to do with that.. So it isn't meant to say that it is a selfish thing, it's more of a fear thing.

It was a tough decision. I was going crazy because I don't think I can live without him long term.

My Aqua told me to go. He wants me to go and try for the position. He tells me about the potential this would bring me, and he has every belief that I will come back to him in some day if I get this job.

"Do what you need to do, and I have to do what I have to. We will be together somewhere down the road" (it's a song by Barry Mannilow.)

I'm going this Sunday and coming back Friday (lucked out on an airline ticket) . We're at the testing phase at this point.

He had tears in his eyes and I've never heard his voice sound that sad.

If he said stay, I would. But he'd never say it.

Part of me wants to eff up on purpose

Posted by pennystealing123
My Aqua told me to go. He wants me to go and try for the position. He tells me about the potential this would bring me, and he has every belief that I will come back to him in some day if I get this job.

He's telling you to go because he deeply cares and doesn't want you to hold back on his account. He seems to have faith in you and your relationship so as hard as it might be he wants you to pursue the opportunity.

Posted by pennystealing123
Part of me wants to eff up on purpose

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Even if he may be feeling torn inside he'd feel worse if you missed up this opportunity on his accord. Have faith that in the end everything will eventually work out.

Best wishes to you. 🙂

Thank you metalaquamonkey

E He means it. We won't tell you something that we dont feel happy with.