Seeking insight!!!!: Male Aquarius Sun/Sag Moon and Female Leo Sun/Moon

So i'm in a pickle here, feeling a bit lost in my thoughts about the budding beginnings of a relationship I've found myself stepping into. I'm crazy about this guy, the Aquarian Sun/Sag Moon with a Cancer rising. Since I forwardly told him about how I felt (which mind you, I'm a highly intuitive woman, I knew that there was chemistry between us and there would be slips in both of our characters in front of our friends when he would affectionately call me 'his girl' or myself when I would, in proper leo character, be physically more touchy and flirty) we have manifested a more intimate relationship between the both of us.

The more we hung out, the more extraordinary the experiences would be that we'd share together. For example, sitting in the pouring rain and holding hands until the sunrise, dancing in the street, spending days at the park drinking wine or days together at home not moving from bed and watching tv all day ... honestly some cringe worthy cheesy shit. It came a point when I confessed to him my fear and that I was afraid of sleeping with him and quite honestly, skeptical of his tenderness because normally submission has always been expected of me, as I tend to attract men that love to objectify the shit out of me. I can't accept being courted as its always come with a hidden agenda. He was incredibly respectful of this and he told me not to worry about anything and that I shouldn't be afraid. Plot twist, I actually trusted him. His tone and his diction was true and honest. His behaviors and respect for me, not to mention my gut told me to trust him. Not something that comes easily to me, trusting another human.

Fast forward a month and he gets his first job as a chef in a nearby town about 45 minutes away by train. I go off and travel with my girlfriends for a month and we leave off and reconnect as I touch back. He calls me and excitedly asks me to come visit him and I end up going directly to his town and staying with him for a few days before I go back home, traveler's backpack and all. During these days it became evident that he truly cared for me. He spontaneously holds my hand and pinches my cheeks, kisses my forehead and literally feeds me. Not to mention, the conversations we hold between us are always intellectually stimulating. We are in a constant exchange of new information and I am always learning something new from him, and I'm sure he could say the same for myself as well. He's generous, respectful, and unafraid to ask me intimate questions about my body and how i feel about certain things. He even asks me for help with certain tasks which I found pretty shocking since that's not a very aquarian trait.

I am back home, and he is drowning in work. Its evident since this is his first job in the culinary industry that he is overwhelmed with the amount of work, the far from luxurious living situation he has been put in, and the bullshit he constantly has to take from his boss that it is really wearing him down. I could tell by his face a week after that it is really wearing him down. We are in two different countries now and I noticed that he doesn't speak to me as frequently as he used to. Maybe I am high maintainence but the reservations I hold from my virgo rising keep me from overwhelming him with my questions and need for constant affirmation of his affection for me. We have spoken on the phone twice within the last three weeks but as more time passes by, the less he is engaged in what we have/had, I guess.

I know he's exhausted but I think the purpose of my post is, should I be concerned that he has lost interest in me? My mind is going insane with the prospect that his aquarian-ness has decidedly disconnected from this, and that when I get back he'll express that he doesn't care to maintain this relationship anymore. He hasn't insinuated this, but I naturally overthink, overanalyze and the current cancer moon has me very, very deep into my emotions. Again, I am completely aware that his work is taking over his life, but he doesn't call me anymore.

I welcome any insight into the situation! Pls and Thank you

Aquarius don't deal too well with distance. Since you are 45 minutes away by train, why don't you try to arrange visiting him on weekends? Also, why are you not calling him or texting him? With such a busy schedule, hearing from you would be very nice and refreshing, if he really likes you. A relationship, romantic or not, must be maintained by both sides. Be his friend and show that you care for him without seeking for reassurance. He may be holding it back until you move again near him, but this doesn't mean you should mirror each other (if he doesn't call, you do the same). His lover MUST be his best friend, so if you have troubles in communicating, it won't be good. Open up.