Still confused about Aquarius guy

It always seems like when I'm not thinking about him, he pops up. Yes, this is the same guy...02/14/1985. I've actually kind of gotten used to us being friends, but lately he has been being flirty, offering to do more to help me. I started brushing things like that off. I think a part of me still wants something to happen though. Anyways, last night we got in an argument(over text, we were both at work) and he said he didn't do anything wrong and I sent him three really long texts and he told me he didn't read them and that he wasn't going to because he did nothing wrong. So I said "If you don't read them you don't care. and if you don't care, don't bother talking to me. You need to stop being so prideful" So a few hours later he apologized and I've tried to talk to him but all he said was "goodnight". I've messaged him a few times since then, but got no answer. What should I do in this situation?

We like our space. When we want to pay attention we will. If you come across too strong then we see that as trying to control the situation. He might just be pulling your chain to see if you are really interested. We get like that sometimes. The best thing to do is give him a bit of time. When he comes at you again to test the waters totally blow his mind with intense convo. Talk about something that is interesting, and not the stars in the sky. Hit him with that heal the world, political talk. That will capture his attention. Then keep it and don't jump off the deep end on him again.

what's his chart?

Posted by dramaticaquarius
We like our space. When we want to pay attention we will. If you come across too strong then we see that as trying to control the situation. He might just be pulling your chain to see if you are really interested. We get like that sometimes. The best thing to do is give him a bit of time. When he comes at you again to test the waters totally blow his mind with intense convo. Talk about something that is interesting, and not the stars in the sky. Hit him with that heal the world, political talk. That will capture his attention. Then keep it and don't jump off the deep end on him again.

Depends on where his interests lie. Some people may not like that "heal the world" intro talk and be suspicious of motives.

he could be into acting and or engineering, and then well, you just gotta find out what he does/what his dreams are. They're just not always into Politics or save the world. It is really pretentious, the latter part.

Just give him some time

But stand your ground. If all you were guilty of was being open & honest about your feelings, he may not like that if he was truly in the wrong, but he'll def. respect that about you later

No one likes to be on the receiving end of blame. So don't take it so personal if someone shuts down when you confront them, especially if they genuinely don't understand why you're so mad lol

It's true though that Aquarians usually don't respond immediately to sudden bursts of emotion from others, especially if there's criticism involved

Give him time to process things. If he really likes you OR realizes that you were right, he'll come back around

However, if you were being extra dramatic or accusing him of things he was not in the wrong for, he may distance himself from you to re-evaluate things with you.

If you know deep down you told him right, don't turn into mush just b/c he's being distant with you. If you turn into mush & start apologizing to him when HE was the 1 who was truly in the wrong, he'll know next time that you're the kind of person that reverse psychology works on & he'll lose instant respect for you

Plus, if you turn into mush when he was the 1 in the wrong, how is he ever supposed to change or learn not to do that to you? If you show a person that the best way to get away with murder is to give you the silent treatment (b/c it always works like a charm with you), then guess what route they'll take the next time there's conflict? The silent treatment lol

Don't send him any more long drawn out text messages. Just b/c he's not willing to argue with you or go back & forth doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. That's an unfair accusation if the real reason is just that he doesn't like conflict or "right-fighting." Can't knock him for that

People aren't generally excited wanting front row seats when someone is confronting them in a way that they feel is too dramatic lol