The Aquarius thing

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I had a great friend last year, she used me and I dropped her like that, end of story

I'm notorious for cutting people off, I don't ask for special treatment and I don't expect people to change I just sit and observe, if you don't fit the picture then I'll you remove you from it.
I do that as well. Can't take any form of cheating.

Even otherwise, if I feel that there is no life in a relationship, I simply move on. Sometimes people don't understand us very well and don't appreciate that we value honesty and a good friend. I slowly move away from such people.
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Posted by Sugarfoot
My aqua female friend was just telling me how she's done doing more for other people then what they do for her. Shes tired of not feeling the love back that she gives to them. Maybe just check yourself to see if you're taking more than you're giving. If you are, then even it up.
All.THE. TIME.

I give and give and give until I can't anymore, then people are like uhhhhhh what happened?
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I had a great friend last year, she used me and I dropped her like that, end of story

I'm notorious for cutting people off, I don't ask for special treatment and I don't expect people to change I just sit and observe, if you don't fit the picture then I'll you remove you from it.
Thats why I have 5 ex-besties!!! I cut people off like eating banana pie. If u use me, betray me, act like a spoiled bitch, lie or give me an attitude because we didnt meet in a few weeks then BYE FELICIA.

Most of the time I have the feeling that I outgrow my besties... not fitting into my life anymore.
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Posted by cosmicbutter
If I don't like u from the start..chances are I'll never like u..Ive started relying on initial vibes now which earlier I dint only to end up realising I should have.
that sounds like Scorpio placements.

even my close relatives are like this who have either Scorpio dominant in their chart, and they tell me i dont like them or like that person...

and i'm like why? ok, so that person is very judgemental about certain things, or this and that...but they are still a good person.
and they say, i dont care...if they are good person or NOT. i dont like them, and fine they can be good to others just that i dont want to be around them.

it's a feeling i guess. they need to feel happy and comfortable, that feeling of SECURITY. and if they dont feel like they can trust you feeling, forget it.

i think with the relatives i had, they didnt like this certain person because they can't trust them to be judgemtnal and not be compassionate to them in any case. hard to explain.

it is the need of compassion and security combined.
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Posted by Crapmaster555
I see a lot of posts talking about how Aquarius are really great friends and then out of the blue they give up entirely. So, if you've created a post like this about an Aquarius or you have an answer, please tell me how you get over this. Or maybe you have an idea on how to fix things. Either way is fine.
i dont really put friendships that high, compared to my love with my husband. i dont have aquarius venus. so maybe that is it, that my husband is the everything, romantic and passion and all my promises are for him. and of course my family!!! i have bff that are similar. We get eachother in that, once they are married and have family their families come first. so it's not a big deal.
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If I don't like u from the start..chances are I'll never like u..Ive started relying on initial vibes now which earlier I dint only to end up realising I should have.
that sounds like Scorpio placements.

even my close relatives are like this who have either Scorpio dominant in their chart, and they tell me i dont like them or like that person...

and i'm like why? ok, so that person is very judgemental about certain things, or this and that...but they are still a good person.
and they say, i dont care...if they are good person or NOT. i dont like them, and fine they can be good to others just that i dont want to be around them.

it's a feeling i guess. they need to feel happy and comfortable, that feeling of SECURITY. and if they dont feel like they can trust you feeling, forget it.

i think with the relatives i had, they didnt like this certain person because they can't trust them to be judgemtnal and not be compassionate to them in any case. hard to explain.

it is the need of compassion and security combined.
Scorpio placements ..not really except Pluto..but Scorpio energy u cud say....with 8th house moon and Pluto in 1st....ascendant being in 29° Libra which is almost Scorpio so maybe
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the family close relative i was referring to has Libra mars natally. Scorpio dominant, Scorpio pluto generation. so the libra is there, like yours. it's his singularity.

you both are similar.
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If I don't like u from the start..chances are I'll never like u..Ive started relying on initial vibes now which earlier I dint only to end up realising I should have.
that sounds like Scorpio placements.

even my close relatives are like this who have either Scorpio dominant in their chart, and they tell me i dont like them or like that person...

and i'm like why? ok, so that person is very judgemental about certain things, or this and that...but they are still a good person.
and they say, i dont care...if they are good person or NOT. i dont like them, and fine they can be good to others just that i dont want to be around them.

it's a feeling i guess. they need to feel happy and comfortable, that feeling of SECURITY. and if they dont feel like they can trust you feeling, forget it.

i think with the relatives i had, they didnt like this certain person because they can't trust them to be judgemtnal and not be compassionate to them in any case. hard to explain.

it is the need of compassion and security combined.
Scorpio placements ..not really except Pluto..but Scorpio energy u cud say....with 8th house moon and Pluto in 1st....ascendant being in 29° Libra which is almost Scorpio so maybe
the family close relative i was referring to has Libra mars natally. Scorpio dominant, Scorpio pluto generation. so the libra is there, like yours. it's his singularity.

you both are similar.
A few similar placements don't make people similar..and a lot of what u described of that person doesn't apply to me...I'm not judgmental...I dint say the n any of my posts that so n so person is bad or good...these terms "good" "bad" are very subjective... A person I find good may not be so for someone else since qualities I give high regard to may be different for diff people. If I say I don't like so n so doesn't necessarily mean they r bad..they r just not the kind I would like to have as a company.
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miscommunication. i was saying they were saying that about the judgmental person with no compassion.
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but i already understood you in that they may be good people but you dont want to hang out with them. i dont like alot of people myself. my husband has a very very select few in his circle.

we dont even hang with the neighbors and they are Always invitng us to dinner and they are good people. We just aren't interested. well i am adaptable to what he wants. but he dont want it. so i'm like okay dokey!!!

i sound like a follower, and i guess i am, following after him!! 😄 😄
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I had a great friend last year, she used me and I dropped her like that, end of story

I'm notorious for cutting people off, I don't ask for special treatment and I don't expect people to change I just sit and observe, if you don't fit the picture then I'll you remove you from it.
Thats why I have 5 ex-besties!!! I cut people off like eating banana pie. If u use me, betray me, act like a spoiled bitch, lie or give me an attitude because we didnt meet in a few weeks then BYE FELICIA.

Most of the time I have the feeling that I outgrow my besties... not fitting into my life anymore.
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OmG! That's 100% my sentiments on friendship. You outgrow them based on where you are in life.
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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I had a great friend last year, she used me and I dropped her like that, end of story

I'm notorious for cutting people off, I don't ask for special treatment and I don't expect people to change I just sit and observe, if you don't fit the picture then I'll you remove you from it.
Thats why I have 5 ex-besties!!! I cut people off like eating banana pie. If u use me, betray me, act like a spoiled bitch, lie or give me an attitude because we didnt meet in a few weeks then BYE FELICIA.

Most of the time I have the feeling that I outgrow my besties... not fitting into my life anymore.
OmG! That's 100% my sentiments on friendship. You outgrow them based on where you are in life.
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sounds selfish I know.. but it's just the way it is to me.
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like one of my ex besties I used to go out partying, drinking at home etc etc - it was a super fun time. but then I met my cap and I didn't feel the need to go out partying, drinking that much alcohol anymore because he was really worried about me. Of course I still love beer - heck I'm half german - but now have a more relaxed and mature lifestyle. That's why the contact between me and my ex bestie faded and she often made me feel guilty by saying things like "I lost my beer buddy" or even "your boyfriend stole my beer buddy"

that doesn't fit in my life anymore and if she isn't growing like I did then I'm sorry but I'll seperate ways for good. I'm up for marriage, starting a family - no time and no need for excessive beer drinking and partying. I'm glad I met my cap