Aqua guy needs a break!

my aqua guy wants a 10 day break to clear his head as he is confused and unhappy about a lot of things in his life. he say it not me or us but just needs some time off. I have been cool about it and want to give him his space. its just been day 2, and he has already started calling me and sending messages. what's with him? I am confused. I thought we were on a break for 10 days. any thoughts?

Where did 10 days come from? Did he specifically request that length of time? Is he using his two week vacation?

Seems a little odd that he requested exactly 10 days. I am not an Aquarius guy but that sounds suspect to me.

yes. he has been behaving weird lately and claims to be confused and unhappy about life in general. we haven't been communicating for past few weeks. he has asked for 10 days. that's the target set by him to ensure he gets back to me, hopefully like the way we were when we started out. he has just got back from a vacation of 2 weeks. what's surprising is that he himself has started calling n texting. this behavior just confuses me.

Posted by SA3182
my aqua guy wants a 10 day break to clear his head as he is confused and unhappy about a lot of things in his life. he say it not me or us but just needs some time off. I have been cool about it and want to give him his space. its just been day 2, and he has already started calling me and sending messages. what's with him? I am confused. I thought we were on a break for 10 days. any thoughts?

I think it's cool. Just let him contact you. It didn't take long for him to start missing you. 😉

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Posted by coffeelove
Seems a little odd that he requested exactly 10 days. I am not an Aquarius guy but that sounds suspect to me.

It's weird agreed. why not 9 or 11?? Something is not right ...he wants to cheat ?? It sounds like an excuse to commit bad behavior but get away with it. Anyway it's unfair to you.

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I agree bad behavior or handling personal business that he wants to keep a secret. Having the exact amount of days no good.

If he had said 30 days, I would have said maybe rehab,

Ummm I'm pretty sure 10 days isn't asking much guys, sure a week could be better but to be honest we need as much time as it takes to sort our shit out, no it doesn't mean we want to cheat and indulge in pleasures of the flesh for ducks sakes people make us claustrophobic especially being with fire signs too long can suffocate us.

Especially if they are Leos. Nothing against leos, but I'd rather not date them. I'd date an aries or sagittarius. But leos are a no.

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Posted by coffeelove
Seems a little odd that he requested exactly 10 days. I am not an Aquarius guy but that sounds suspect to me.

It's weird agreed. why not 9 or 11?? Something is not right ...he wants to cheat ?? It sounds like an excuse to commit bad behavior but get away with it. Anyway it's unfair to you.

I agree bad behavior or handling personal business that he wants to keep a secret. Having the exact amount of days no good.

If he had said 30 days, I would have said maybe rehab,

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It's pretty common among people to use expressions like "in a week", "in about ten days", "in a couple of weeks" and so on...

They sound exact but they just mean "give me a bit of time", he could have said any number it wouldn't have made any difference.

Besides, I've never heard anyone say give me 4, 9 or 11 days.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ummm I'm pretty sure 10 days isn't asking much guys, sure a week could be better but to be honest we need as much time as it takes to sort our shit out, no it doesn't mean we want to cheat and indulge in pleasures of the flesh for ducks sakes people make us claustrophobic especially being with fire signs too long can suffocate us.

but why. I have no problem if he takes 10 days, 20 days a month. I don't really care as long as he feels better. we have always shared a great rapport. I am trying to be supportive and understanding here. but when you ask for a break then just take a break! why confuse someone by calling n texting constantly. what's he trying to do.

Posted by Aquistorm
Especially if they are Leos. Nothing against leos, but I'd rather not date them. I'd date an aries or sagittarius. But leos are a no.

that's unfair! looks like you've had a bad experience. but we both have great chemistry n we like each other. he needs his space and I am cool with it. Leo's are not bad. we just go all out when we like someone 🙂

Maybe my situation was a little different but The aqua I'm dating once asked me for a month's break after he was getting all lovey dovey and when I confessed I was getting serious about him.He said a lot was happening(maybe he thought we were moving too fast?) and he needed a break.He returned in 10 days and gradually,we got back to dating in another 10 days.I guess aquas need a break when they start showing more feelings than they would allow themselves at that point in the relationship.they decide they need to control themselves and hence take a break.However, since they like you so much,they return much before they had thought of because they start missing you.
Also,if he has already told you he needs a break,I think it's a good sign since he respects you enough to let you know he'll be disappearing.I think you should respect it too and not think about it too much.Just go with the flow 🙂

Posted by SA3182
yes. he has been behaving weird lately and claims to be confused and unhappy about life in general. we haven't been communicating for past few weeks. he has asked for 10 days. that's the target set by him to ensure he gets back to me, hopefully like the way we were when we started out. he has just got back from a vacation of 2 weeks. what's surprising is that he himself has started calling n texting. this behavior just confuses me.

Oh,so you've not been in touch from the past 2 weeks? Okay,so he might actually be having some things which he needs to sort out.I don't think he's cheating or something.He's probably figuring out something.It maybe about other stuff and it may also be about you.Yes I know he's said it isn't but it still maybe.However,the fact that he's started contacting you within 2 days is perhaps a good sign 🙂 that's just my 2 cents.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
Maybe my situation was a little different but The aqua I'm dating once asked me for a month's break after he was getting all lovey dovey and when I confessed I was getting serious about him.He said a lot was happening(maybe he thought we were moving too fast?) and he needed a break.He returned in 10 days and gradually,we got back to dating in another 10 days.I guess aquas need a break when they start showing more feelings than they would allow themselves at that point in the relationship.they decide they need to control themselves and hence take a break.However, since they like you so much,they return much before they had thought of because they start missing you.
Also,if he has already told you he needs a break,I think it's a good sign since he respects you enough to let you know he'll be disappearing.I think you should respect it too and not think about it too much.Just go with the flow 🙂

thank you! this helps 🙂 as mentioned I am cool with the break drama...but for me a break is a break..he keeps popping up...but I guess that's him... honestly this is draining n tiresome cycle...not sure for how long will i go on 😢 I guess its time for me to take a break 😄

Hello friends. This is just a test msg. Just wanted to check of anyone of you are still active here. You guys were amazing bunch of strangers who helped me with my confusion as true frinds. ❤️

Posted by SA3182
my aqua guy wants a 10 day break to clear his head as he is confused and unhappy about a lot of things in his life. he say it not me or us but just needs some time off. I have been cool about it and want to give him his space. its just been day 2, and he has already started calling me and sending messages. what's with him? I am confused. I thought we were on a break for 10 days. any thoughts?

Men who are deeply in love with you & are for you, do not need "time off" from you. If he is unhappy about things in his life, you being there should provide him comfort...not wanna make him take a break from you.