sultrykitty
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TrueCap, Scorpgurl, and all my gellow Aquaman lovers
This is precisely why Aqua men are different from Aqua women. Aqua men make their lady counterparts look like bleeding hearts
Cannot relate
well I mean I don't love myself so many I don't see my own flaws hahaha
Posted by aquasnozLol, the article seems to focus on a lot of the negative, and not as much the positive stuff, although it's in there.
well I mean I don't love myself so many I don't see my own flaws hahaha
There are plenty of other pages that do that.
I think it's a very good insight into the shadow side of Aqua, and is really good for those of us who love them to understand.
I'm pretty sure mine wouldn't relate, but some of the scenarios described in the article are point for point what I've experienced,
sounds like alot of men out there.
especially this part
" If still very stuck in their ego and immature, they will strongly resist doing anything to help another person if it will mean a sacrifice of time, money or emotional commitment. This emotional abandonment can leave any woman he is in a relationship with feeling rather uncared for and she is likely to leave the Aquarius – which typically baffles the unevolved Aquarius male."
i mean if the guy isn't COMMITTING to the woman, why should the woman keep PINING over him?? 😕 it's just torture and disrespectful to the woman.
especially this part
" If still very stuck in their ego and immature, they will strongly resist doing anything to help another person if it will mean a sacrifice of time, money or emotional commitment. This emotional abandonment can leave any woman he is in a relationship with feeling rather uncared for and she is likely to leave the Aquarius – which typically baffles the unevolved Aquarius male."
i mean if the guy isn't COMMITTING to the woman, why should the woman keep PINING over him?? 😕 it's just torture and disrespectful to the woman.
Posted by sultrykittyyeah but it's very general and it's about MEN in general.Posted by aquasnozLol, the article seems to focus on a lot of the negative, and not as much the positive stuff, although it's in there.
well I mean I don't love myself so many I don't see my own flaws hahaha
There are plenty of other pages that show all the positive qualities of Aqua men.
I think it's a very good insight into the shadow side of Aqua, and is really good for those of ia who love them to understand.
I'm pretty sure mine wouldn't relate, butbsome of the scenarios described im the article are point for point what I've experienced,click to expand
alot of men will NOT commit to a woman unless he is steady at a CAREER.
so he will either
1) remain a bachelor because he feels that he can get any woman with the money /financial status that he owns. and pick and choose.
2) or if he has NO career, he won't commit to anyone. Because why— what has he to offer the woman? UNLESS she is the career woman and he takes care of the Household and becomes a house husband.
that means he cooks every night, cleans the house, do laundry, and when his woman gives birth, she can go back to work after leave, and he will be the one nursing the baby everday, taking care of the baby, changing diapers, checking temperature of the milk, grocery shopping, changing the bed sheets, making sure the baby gets baths, cleaned up and warm and lots of sleep time. Spend some time playing, and then clean up, make sure dinner is prepared before tired career woman comes home.
now....
is that ok for SOME of these men?? or is it too PANSY for them??
Literally he has to become the NURTURER.
not the breadwinner because his woman will be the breadwinner.
can some men do that?? and will some women want to be the breadwinner??
hey you gotta think of these things in the future, all the stuff that you want for yourself and your family and who is RESPONSIBLE.
everyone has responsibilities so he has has to understand, will he choose to find a good career with hiis woman and have NO babies, and they both do full time careers?
or will they choose to have a family? everyone has different strokes in what they want out of life.
not the breadwinner because his woman will be the breadwinner.
can some men do that?? and will some women want to be the breadwinner??
hey you gotta think of these things in the future, all the stuff that you want for yourself and your family and who is RESPONSIBLE.
everyone has responsibilities so he has has to understand, will he choose to find a good career with hiis woman and have NO babies, and they both do full time careers?
or will they choose to have a family? everyone has different strokes in what they want out of life.
Posted by lisabethur8It is VERY unusual for a man to wait more than 5, 10, 15 years to commit (that doesn't mean marriage exclusively), even with a good job and having his ducks in a row. It seems much more common among Aquas than the rest of the population.
sounds like alot of men out there.
especially this part
" If still very stuck in their ego and immature, they will strongly resist doing anything to help another person if it will mean a sacrifice of time, money or emotional commitment. This emotional abandonment can leave any woman he is in a relationship with feeling rather uncared for and she is likely to leave the Aquarius – which typically baffles the unevolved Aquarius male."
i mean if the guy isn't COMMITTING to the woman, why should the woman keep PINING over him?? 😕 it's just torture and disrespectful to the woman.
I guess it's my job and my upbringing?
I hate emotionally abandoning anyone, I hate not being truthful and most of all I hate not being honest with love.
*shrugs* I DO have aqua friends like this though and I suppose being an aquarius I can see where these points come from and why they do it and to some extent perhaps why I do it.
I hate emotionally abandoning anyone, I hate not being truthful and most of all I hate not being honest with love.
*shrugs* I DO have aqua friends like this though and I suppose being an aquarius I can see where these points come from and why they do it and to some extent perhaps why I do it.
Posted by sultrykittysounds like George Clooney. 11th house moon.Posted by lisabethur8It is VERY unusual for a man to wait more than 5, 10, 15 years to commit (that doesn't mean marriage exclusively), even with a good job and having his ducks in a row. It seems much more common among Aquas than the rest of the population.
sounds like alot of men out there.
especially this part
" If still very stuck in their ego and immature, they will strongly resist doing anything to help another person if it will mean a sacrifice of time, money or emotional commitment. This emotional abandonment can leave any woman he is in a relationship with feeling rather uncared for and she is likely to leave the Aquarius – which typically baffles the unevolved Aquarius male."
i mean if the guy isn't COMMITTING to the woman, why should the woman keep PINING over him?? 😕 it's just torture and disrespectful to the woman.click to expand
I can relate, I'm a very honest person in relationships but I tend to acknowledge my truth not theirs and I use said truth for my benefit while in a fight, the only person who can beat me in a verbal argument is a dumb one and even then I can beat them at that game too
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I can see that.
I can relate, I'm a very honest person in relationships but I tend to acknowledge my truth not theirs and I use said truth for my benefit while in a fight, the only person who can beat me in a verbal argument is a dumb one and even then I can beat them at that game too
To me, it's not a positive or negative trait, it's just how it is.
I certainly don't place judgement on a person for being this way, but it can be pretty hurtful to the ones that love you.
I thought the (full) article gives quite a bit of insight and seems to address a lot of the questions that get posted here from women (especially) who are trying to figure these guys out.
Posted by FutureSeekerThat sounds absolutely depressing. He sounds very immature.
I dated an aqua male for a year and a half about 3 years ago. So many red flags not because of his sign, just cause of his own shit. I learned so much through that relationship. Biggest lesson: he used to say that a relationship is really an accessory. That the person is an accessory in your life that you can pick up and put down. No. I'm an aqua- I don't buy that. I learned that I refuse to be an option in someone's life- I'm a priority- and I reciprocate that. I ended the relationship because at his daughter's wedding he was so damn selfish he couldn't think about her day, her happiness- he could only focus on how he was "losing" his daughter- to the point that he moped around all night.
Did you ever talk about the reason he got divorced/wasn't with his daughter's mother?
Posted by sultrykittyi was with one too, aqua sun, aqua mars. my 2nd ex.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I can see that.
I can relate, I'm a very honest person in relationships but I tend to acknowledge my truth not theirs and I use said truth for my benefit while in a fight, the only person who can beat me in a verbal argument is a dumb one and even then I can beat them at that game too
To me, it's not a positive or negative trait, it's just how it is.
I certainly don't place judgement on a person for being this way, but it can be pretty hurtful to the ones that love you.
I thought the (full) article gives quite a bit of insight and seems to address a lot of the questions that get posted here from women (especially) who are trying to figure these guys out.
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for some reason, i dont know. i just didnt think about how it is. Because he was super POSSESSIVE with me and couldnt let me go.
despite how cruel/abusive he was, he was still super duper possessive.
so i got a weird one!!! the descriptions dont seem to match him. cause the one i was with wanted commitment badly so badly he wanted to find ways to trick me into marrying him!!
one time he asked me to come down to this establishment after work, so after work i got off and drove down there. And there was a minister and some witnesess there to have us marry!!
i was really disgusted and appalled. I said, this is not right. you can't FORCE someone to marry you. he was so desperate to marry me.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
EDIT and yes he had to be trickster to do this because he knows i am hesitant to marry him. there was a nagging feeling in the back of my head that he is NOT the one. and he KNEW that. but he still wanted me badly. like a desperate man.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
EDIT and yes he had to be trickster to do this because he knows i am hesitant to marry him. there was a nagging feeling in the back of my head that he is NOT the one. and he KNEW that. but he still wanted me badly. like a desperate man.
Posted by lisabethur8Venus-Pluto?Posted by sultrykittyi was with one too, aqua sun, aqua mars. my 2nd ex.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I can see that.
I can relate, I'm a very honest person in relationships but I tend to acknowledge my truth not theirs and I use said truth for my benefit while in a fight, the only person who can beat me in a verbal argument is a dumb one and even then I can beat them at that game too
To me, it's not a positive or negative trait, it's just how it is.
I certainly don't place judgement on a person for being this way, but it can be pretty hurtful to the ones that love you.
I thought the (full) article gives quite a bit of insight and seems to address a lot of the questions that get posted here from women (especially) who are trying to figure these guys out.
for some reason, i dont know. i just didnt think about how it is. Because he was super POSSESSIVE with me and couldnt let me go.
despite how cruel/abusive he was, he was still super duper possessive.
so i got a weird one!!! the descriptions dont seem to match him. cause the one i was with wanted commitment badly so badly he wanted to find ways to trick me into marrying him!!
one time he asked me to come down to this establishment after work, so after work i got off and drove down there. And there was a minister and some witnesess there to have us marry!!
i was really disgusted and appalled. I said, this is not right. you can't FORCE someone to marry you. he was so desperate to marry me.click to expand
Mine gets is very jealous, always has been, but it's passive agressive in the way he shows it.
Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
Posted by sultrykittyPosted by lisabethur8Venus-Pluto?Posted by sultrykittyi was with one too, aqua sun, aqua mars. my 2nd ex.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I can see that.
I can relate, I'm a very honest person in relationships but I tend to acknowledge my truth not theirs and I use said truth for my benefit while in a fight, the only person who can beat me in a verbal argument is a dumb one and even then I can beat them at that game too
To me, it's not a positive or negative trait, it's just how it is.
I certainly don't place judgement on a person for being this way, but it can be pretty hurtful to the ones that love you.
I thought the (full) article gives quite a bit of insight and seems to address a lot of the questions that get posted here from women (especially) who are trying to figure these guys out.
for some reason, i dont know. i just didnt think about how it is. Because he was super POSSESSIVE with me and couldnt let me go.
despite how cruel/abusive he was, he was still super duper possessive.
so i got a weird one!!! the descriptions dont seem to match him. cause the one i was with wanted commitment badly so badly he wanted to find ways to trick me into marrying him!!
one time he asked me to come down to this establishment after work, so after work i got off and drove down there. And there was a minister and some witnesess there to have us marry!!
i was really disgusted and appalled. I said, this is not right. you can't FORCE someone to marry you. he was so desperate to marry me.
Mine gets is very jealous, always has been, but it's passive agressive in the way he shows it.click to expand
not sure. mine had alot of aries. lol it's the SHADOW side of aries.
the conquerer! wants to have his conquest kind of thing.
Posted by FutureSeekerSad that he hasn't grown. There can be such good qualities but then stuff starts to bubble up and when you see the reality of who you're with, it's just sad really.Posted by sultrykittyTowards the end I realized I didn't believe much of what he had told me. I met his ex-wife. She was okay. They had a toxic marriage but it was most likely the both of them. The marriage had ended years earlier. He had a few deployments under his belt so I think that took a toll on the marriage as well.Posted by FutureSeekerThat sounds absolutely depressing. He sounds very immature.
I dated an aqua male for a year and a half about 3 years ago. So many red flags not because of his sign, just cause of his own shit. I learned so much through that relationship. Biggest lesson: he used to say that a relationship is really an accessory. That the person is an accessory in your life that you can pick up and put down. No. I'm an aqua- I don't buy that. I learned that I refuse to be an option in someone's life- I'm a priority- and I reciprocate that. I ended the relationship because at his daughter's wedding he was so damn selfish he couldn't think about her day, her happiness- he could only focus on how he was "losing" his daughter- to the point that he moped around all night.
Did you ever talk about the reason he got divorced/wasn't with his daughter's mother?click to expand
Glad you had the foresight to see clearly.
Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.click to expand
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.
Posted by lisabethur8Well, you don't have to be sure. 🙂 There would be no astrology if certain placements weren't in some way predictable.Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.click to expand
My first bf was Aqua and was very similar to my guy in many ways. But much more gooey, in the physical affection department. We were always joined at the hip, had to see each other for hours every day. He was extremely lovey-dovey. I had to chase him too though at first. But we were each other's first loves, before all the bs that comes with dating and breakups. Very emotionally innocent. 🙂
Posted by sultrykittyyour first guy sounds very sweet. like gooey snuggle sweet.Posted by lisabethur8Well, you don't have to be sure. 🙂 There would be no astrology if certain placements weren't in some way predictable.Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.
My first bf was Aqua and was very similar to my guy in many ways. But much more gooey, in the physical affection department. We were always joined at the hip, had to see each other for hours every day. He was extremely lovey-dovey. I had to chase him too though at first. But we were each other's first loves, before all the bs that comes with dating and breakups. Very emotionally innocent. 🙂click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8He was. A big teddy bear. We talked about getting married when we turned 18.Posted by sultrykittyyour first guy sounds very sweet. like gooey snuggle sweet.Posted by lisabethur8Well, you don't have to be sure. 🙂 There would be no astrology if certain placements weren't in some way predictable.Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.
My first bf was Aqua and was very similar to my guy in many ways. But much more gooey, in the physical affection department. We were always joined at the hip, had to see each other for hours every day. He was extremely lovey-dovey. I had to chase him too though at first. But we were each other's first loves, before all the bs that comes with dating and breakups. Very emotionally innocent. 🙂click to expand
I would say I can see about half of that article in my aqua. Half, I dont. Realize though, we are in our late 40s and he has a lot of earth placements. That may explain a lot.
A couple of things I do relate to:
It did take him 2 years,to say I love you and wasn't comfortable with it until the 3rd year.
And one time he got upset over a misunderstanding, didn't say anything, just walked out to leave. I follwed him out, was able to explain and it was fine.
A couple of things I do relate to:
It did take him 2 years,to say I love you and wasn't comfortable with it until the 3rd year.
And one time he got upset over a misunderstanding, didn't say anything, just walked out to leave. I follwed him out, was able to explain and it was fine.
Posted by GennieCurious to what you mean by making their ladies look like bleeding hearts. I think I have a different definition of that term.
This is precisely why Aqua men are different from Aqua women. Aqua men make their lady counterparts look like bleeding hearts
Posted by truecapI think in terms of how mean or nasty they can get when angered. Or icy.Posted by GennieCurious to what you mean by making their ladies look like bleeding hearts. I think I have a different definition of that term.
This is precisely why Aqua men are different from Aqua women. Aqua men make their lady counterparts look like bleeding heartsclick to expand
By your admission, you guys don't fight, so you may not have experienced this. Your aqua may not respond that way because of his earth, or his maturity.
I know mine can be absolutely SCATHING in how he speaks when angry or hurt. Cuts you to the core. We rarely fight now, but early on it was like a metaphorical war zone with body parts still laying around.
Honestly I haven't seen him angry like that. Maybe because of our earth moons, we're able to understand each other and really dont have conflicts. If we do, we address it calmly and talk it out.
Of course we don't live together, so that might change when we do. Thanks for the warning. Lol!
He's told me stories of things he's done when angry, though. He said ex wife used to push his buttons (Leo) and how he would react.
Of course we don't live together, so that might change when we do. Thanks for the warning. Lol!
He's told me stories of things he's done when angry, though. He said ex wife used to push his buttons (Leo) and how he would react.
Posted by truecap
Honestly I haven't seen him angry like that. Maybe because of our earth moons, we're able to understand each other and really dont have conflicts. If we do, we address it calmly and talk it out.
Of course we don't live together, so that might change when we do. Thanks for the warning. Lol!
He's told me stories of things he's done when angry, though. He said ex wife used to push his buttons (Leo) and how he would react.
Hehe, yeah, I think it's the sun because both of us have earth moons and mercuries. Opposite suns and mars.
Pushing each other's buttons comes naturally for us. Ironically, living together has made it much better because it's harder to isolate. You have to interact at some point after the explosion.
Might be.
Posted by truecapearth moons are nice, unless they have alot of fire/air.
Honestly I haven't seen him angry like that. Maybe because of our earth moons, we're able to understand each other and really dont have conflicts. If we do, we address it calmly and talk it out.
Of course we don't live together, so that might change when we do. Thanks for the warning. Lol!
He's told me stories of things he's done when angry, though. He said ex wife used to push his buttons (Leo) and how he would react.
your guy has water mars cushioned by alot of earth.
my last ex was a virgo moon. but he was also dominant earth/stellium virgo. and he never raised a hand to me, or abused. He didnt even raise his voice.
edit he was just commitment phobic, and we both didnt have the same goals in life (fundamentally what we wanted) which is why we went separate ways.
both of us wouldn't budge into what we both wanted. and that's where the ego clashes. (fundamental values) but it was the first time i got into the most healthy relationship at least with no abuse and addiction/alcohol drugs, criminal activities (my first husband) so it was a relief that the curse broke.
Posted by sultrykittyi do not like my buttons pushed and my husband doesn't like it if i pushed his; we are both reactive emotionally. so picking and picking and poking is not something we both like, so thank god we dont do that.Posted by truecap
Honestly I haven't seen him angry like that. Maybe because of our earth moons, we're able to understand each other and really dont have conflicts. If we do, we address it calmly and talk it out.
Of course we don't live together, so that might change when we do. Thanks for the warning. Lol!
He's told me stories of things he's done when angry, though. He said ex wife used to push his buttons (Leo) and how he would react.
Hehe, yeah, I think it's the sun because both of us have earth moons and mercuries. Opposite suns and mars.
Pushing each other's buttons comes naturally for us. Ironically, living together has made it much better because it's harder to isolate. You have to interact at some point after the explosion.click to expand
Posted by sultrykittyThis, its so cold hearted and matter of fact when they level that delivery at you. I see it in my stepson sometimes. "Shes just too fucking needy, what is wrong with her?" That off the cuff commentary that sounds so reasonable as they deconstruct your psyche and why you need to get your shit together"Posted by truecapI think in terms of how mean or nasty they can get when angered. Or icy.Posted by GennieCurious to what you mean by making their ladies look like bleeding hearts. I think I have a different definition of that term.
This is precisely why Aqua men are different from Aqua women. Aqua men make their lady counterparts look like bleeding hearts
By your admission, you guys don't fight, so you may not have experienced this. Your aqua may not respond that way because of his earth, or his maturity.
I know mine can be absolutely SCATHING in how he speaks when angry or hurt. Cuts you to the core. We rarely fight now, but early on it was like a metaphorical war zone with body parts still laying around.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8What of an Aquarius with water and earth placements. His chart Sun in Aqua, Venus/Moon/ Mars in Pisces, Merc/Jupiter/Neptune in Capricorn, Saturn/Pluto in Scorpio, Uranus in Sag.Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.click to expand
Posted by NamyI think he would be quite detached (outwardly) and rather passive or laid back about getting what he wants.Posted by lisabethur8What of an Aquarius with water and earth placements. His chart Sun in Aqua, Venus/Moon/ Mars in Pisces, Merc/Jupiter/Neptune in Capricorn, Saturn/Pluto in Scorpio, Uranus in Sag.Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.click to expand
Posted by sultrykittyThank you.Posted by NamyI think he would be quite detached (outwardly) and rather passive or laid back about getting what he wants.Posted by lisabethur8What of an Aquarius with water and earth placements. His chart Sun in Aqua, Venus/Moon/ Mars in Pisces, Merc/Jupiter/Neptune in Capricorn, Saturn/Pluto in Scorpio, Uranus in Sag.Posted by sultrykittydespends on placements.Posted by lisabethur8Sure, lots of men shy away from commitment but the way they do it and the motivations may be different.
true story too, honestly.
so when i read all those descriptions...i think to myself, thats for ALL types of men who dont want commitment.
but honestly and truly, there are aqua sun males who are desperate for YOU and want you badly.
And that's not the only thing this article looks at.
but the aquarius part. i'm not sure.
he has to use this intelligence, because air - intellect? or mercury aspects.
to try to get a woman. and if he is earthy then he will try to PROVE to her through his hard works. his motivations and how much he has to offer a woman.
if he is watery, then he will stimulate your imagination and bring alot of emotional empathy and love. maybe too passive for some women. but this depends on the type of water.
if he's airy, well.. lol *smh* airy fairy.
if hes fiery, well..... he'll be very physical, likes the thrills and chase.click to expand
I wonder how passive he can be around me, we are opposites at every turn.. My Venus and moon in virgo. Mars in leo opposite his Sun. My Aqua rising and saturn conjunct his Sun. I just wonder sometimes it feels like we're speaking different languages. There's a balance though.
Posted by blessyouI think aa anyone matures, things like this start to disappear. But even an adult who hasn't matured will still do it a lot. My aqua still does some of those things but absolutely not as much as before he hit his 30's.Posted by aquasnozI like how you said you know aquas like this. I'm guilty of all of those things but I don't think I do it as often, I do less wrong than good in my eyes
I guess it's my job and my upbringing?
I hate emotionally abandoning anyone, I hate not being truthful and most of all I hate not being honest with love.
*shrugs* I DO have aqua friends like this though and I suppose being an aquarius I can see where these points come from and why they do it and to some extent perhaps why I do it.click to expand
Posted by blessyouLol, well everybody has to at some point. 😉
@sultrykitty wish I would've knew this info while dating 18, 19 year olds.. Damn, my soul...
Posted by blessyouYeah, my Aqua and I met when we were 19. We're 45 now (he's 46) so I've seen it all with him. 🙂Posted by sultrykittyit burns though..Posted by blessyouLol, well everybody has to at some point. 😉
@sultrykitty wish I would've knew this info while dating 18, 19 year olds.. Damn, my soul...click to expand
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11oh well.... I can relate....
I can relate, I'm a very honest person in relationships but I tend to acknowledge my truth not theirs and I use said truth for my benefit while in a fight, the only person who can beat me in a verbal argument is a dumb one and even then I can beat them at that game too
This sounds JUST like one Aqua guy I met at school. Very ethereal but also he knew exactly what to say to make people feel bad, although he NEVER tried me because I'm an Aqua too so I understood how his thought process worked and he knew that if he tried to come for me, he knew I'd come for him right away. Harder. And also, he was born in February 1990. There was a Capricorn stellium going on that time. Aqua people with HEAVY Cap influence on their charts can be VERY unbearable to live with.
Completely off.
Bumping this thread back to life.
Nothing stated here makes any sense when I look at myself and other Aqua men that I have known over the years. This seems to be an Aqua men bashing thread.
Nothing stated here makes any sense when I look at myself and other Aqua men that I have known over the years. This seems to be an Aqua men bashing thread.
Posted by febaquaNope. Couldn't be further from the truth. It is what I experienced, but not everything and not always.
Bumping this thread back to life.
Nothing stated here makes any sense when I look at myself and other Aqua men that I have known over the years. This seems to be an Aqua men bashing thread.
Why do you think so many women post about the Aqua guy they like being "aloof" or running silent as soon as the feels get mentioned? Or some who've experienced such unusual reactions to intimacy?
I love my Aqua, and there's a unique realness in Aquas that is addictive. But that doesn't mean that there aren't some things that are paradoxical about you guys. Uranus does that.
Posted by sultrykittyI agree. I have also seen the darker side of Aqua men, but labelling all Aqua men and painting them with the same brush is unfair.Posted by febaquaNope. Couldn't be further from the truth. It is what I experienced, but not everything and not always.
Bumping this thread back to life.
Nothing stated here makes any sense when I look at myself and other Aqua men that I have known over the years. This seems to be an Aqua men bashing thread.
Whu do you think so many women post about the Aqua guy they like being "aloof" or running silent as soon as the feels get mentioned? Or some who've experienced such unusual reactions to intimacy?
I love my Aqua, and there's a unique realness in Aquas that is addictive. But that doesn't mean that tjere are aome things that are paradoxical about you guys. Uranus does that.click to expand
Posted by febaquaWell that wasn't the intention of the thread. Every sign has stereotypical positives and negatives. I wouldn't say I fit the profile of EVERY Leo either, but many things I do relate to (positive amd negative).Posted by sultrykittyI agree. I have also seen the darker side of Aqua men, but labelling all Aqua men and painting them with the same brush is unfair.Posted by febaquaNope. Couldn't be further from the truth. It is what I experienced, but not everything and not always.
Bumping this thread back to life.
Nothing stated here makes any sense when I look at myself and other Aqua men that I have known over the years. This seems to be an Aqua men bashing thread.
Whu do you think so many women post about the Aqua guy they like being "aloof" or running silent as soon as the feels get mentioned? Or some who've experienced such unusual reactions to intimacy?
I love my Aqua, and there's a unique realness in Aquas that is addictive. But that doesn't mean that tjere are aome things that are paradoxical about you guys. Uranus does that.click to expand
I'd say it was true for the aquarian men I've been involved with including the most recent. I've had other Aqua male friends though who were more stabilized and sincere when unevolved though, but of course there could be many differentiating factors. I think overall they are still skittish when it comes to being alone with someone of interest.
for my most recent Aqua...he is 28 as of this year and still unevolved. he'd make plans with me and promise he would really see me this time, and then he wouldn't message me or have any contact. the only time he did was when I told him I'd take him to look at cars LOL. this was when he was getting more comfortable around me. then it reversed again.
oh well what are you gonna do. can't force someone to do what they aren't ready to do so I haven't contacted him since. he'll be back. I know he will. he always does. I'm not sure what it is, but there's something that he just can't let go of. he suffers with a lot of squares to his moon and Venus (along with moon sq. Venus) on top of trying to evolve. I think this causes a lot of difficulties for him. he doesn't know what he wants. I guess neither do I. I tend to sabotage good things in my life, and so does he. for some reason I tend to be very selfless with him and so far haven't sabotaged it....respectively...lol. but I'm not the type to go crawling and begging if he doesn't contact. too much pride. if he wants me he knows where to find me. simple as that.
I do love this post though. despite there being much more positives to an Aqua. I read that site once and was like "lol trU"
the unevolved Aqua....such a frustrating creature
even when they're evolved they can be a pain. ask my mom 😆
love my dad though. even on his grumpy days LOL. I think Aquas make great parents. I've heard the opposite, or seen the opposite I should say, on some sites and I think it's nonsense. idk where I would be without my dad. I used to rant and rave about him to all my friends and always wanted to be just like him when I grew up. the ironic thing is his Sun is conjunct my IC and also just barely on the inside of my 4th house. meant to be. 😄
the evolved Aquas are worth the wait imo even if you have to suffer their unevolved stages. my mom made it!!
for my most recent Aqua...he is 28 as of this year and still unevolved. he'd make plans with me and promise he would really see me this time, and then he wouldn't message me or have any contact. the only time he did was when I told him I'd take him to look at cars LOL. this was when he was getting more comfortable around me. then it reversed again.
oh well what are you gonna do. can't force someone to do what they aren't ready to do so I haven't contacted him since. he'll be back. I know he will. he always does. I'm not sure what it is, but there's something that he just can't let go of. he suffers with a lot of squares to his moon and Venus (along with moon sq. Venus) on top of trying to evolve. I think this causes a lot of difficulties for him. he doesn't know what he wants. I guess neither do I. I tend to sabotage good things in my life, and so does he. for some reason I tend to be very selfless with him and so far haven't sabotaged it....respectively...lol. but I'm not the type to go crawling and begging if he doesn't contact. too much pride. if he wants me he knows where to find me. simple as that.
I do love this post though. despite there being much more positives to an Aqua. I read that site once and was like "lol trU"
the unevolved Aqua....such a frustrating creature
even when they're evolved they can be a pain. ask my mom 😆
love my dad though. even on his grumpy days LOL. I think Aquas make great parents. I've heard the opposite, or seen the opposite I should say, on some sites and I think it's nonsense. idk where I would be without my dad. I used to rant and rave about him to all my friends and always wanted to be just like him when I grew up. the ironic thing is his Sun is conjunct my IC and also just barely on the inside of my 4th house. meant to be. 😄
the evolved Aquas are worth the wait imo even if you have to suffer their unevolved stages. my mom made it!!
Posted by Gem20ReduxYou deleted IG in the middle of our convo >😢Posted by degenerate_ingenueYou deserve better! Period. Haha
I'd say it was true for the aquarian men I've been involved with including the most recent. I've had other Aqua male friends though who were more stabilized and sincere when unevolved though, but of course there could be many differentiating factors. I think overall they are still skittish when it comes to being alone with someone of interest.
for my most recent Aqua...he is 28 as of this year and still unevolved. he'd make plans with me and promise he would really see me this time, and then he wouldn't message me or have any contact. the only time he did was when I told him I'd take him to look at cars LOL. this was when he was getting more comfortable around me. then it reversed again.
oh well what are you gonna do. can't force someone to do what they aren't ready to do so I haven't contacted him since. he'll be back. I know he will. he always does. I'm not sure what it is, but there's something that he just can't let go of. he suffers with a lot of squares to his moon and Venus (along with moon sq. Venus) on top of trying to evolve. I think this causes a lot of difficulties for him. he doesn't know what he wants. I guess neither do I. I tend to sabotage good things in my life, and so does he. for some reason I tend to be very selfless with him and so far haven't sabotaged it....respectively...lol. but I'm not the type to go crawling and begging if he doesn't contact. too much pride. if he wants me he knows where to find me. simple as that.
I do love this post though. despite there being much more positives to an Aqua. I read that site once and was like "lol trU"
the unevolved Aqua....such a frustrating creature
even when they're evolved they can be a pain. ask my mom 😆
love my dad though. even on his grumpy days LOL. I think Aquas make great parents. I've heard the opposite, or seen the opposite I should say, on some sites and I think it's nonsense. idk where I would be without my dad. I used to rant and rave about him to all my friends and always wanted to be just like him when I grew up. the ironic thing is his Sun is conjunct my IC and also just barely on the inside of my 4th house. meant to be. 😄
the evolved Aquas are worth the wait imo even if you have to suffer their unevolved stages. my mom made it!!click to expand
Mad at u high key
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Tell me what you think!
Some things that jumped out at me, although not the only ones:
"He believes his way of doing anything is the most superior way. His ego is not out in the open like a Leo, but it is as big as that of a Leo. He can be very argumentative, liking to debate things or fabricate WILD untrue stories just to irritate others and to show off what he believes to be his superior intellect."
"If lacking in maturity, he may be so unconscious of his behavior that he gets himself mentally wound up in fear of being alone with you and show up an hour or more late to meet you, and then only to cancel. Let him…and then do not make another appointment with him nor allow him to make one unless he states upfront that he will make the time for it."
"When he is angry, the Aquarius male will not yell or otherwise obviously show it. Instead, he will become very MEAN and say mean/cruel things that he knows or thinks will hurt you, with a glib smile. Then he will airily say he needs to go, and leave the room or hang up the telephone. He is also quite capable of doing something very mean to you out of anger.Aquarius males like to talk about honesty and truth but it is always their truth and their version of honesty that is important. They can be quick to label you as dishonest or say that you do not know or speak the truth. This is also because they are by nature distrustful. This also means you must be wary of the Aquarius penchant for lying—lying done with a glib smile and intellectual air."
"The Aquarius man can be particularly emotionally cold, verbally mean and quite selfish. They will quickly and cheerfully do something for others, as long as it has no impact on their life. If still very stuck in their ego and immature, they will strongly resist doing anything to help another person if it will mean a sacrifice of time, money or emotional commitment. This emotional abandonment can leave any woman he is in a relationship with feeling rather uncared for and she is likely to leave the Aquarius – which typically baffles the unevolved Aquarius male."
The sentence ‘I love you’ will take a few years of knowing each other to come from his mouth and but do not believe it unless he backs it up with a ring and a wedding date. If he is unevolved and immature he will lie or make up any excuse he can think of, to avoid those three words for as long as he can."
http://www.healinguniverse.com/the-aquarius-man/
I think any woman looking to have a real relationship with an Aqua should read this and take note.
Do you agree?