Unsure about this Aquarius women

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Im a Libra male 10/5/88 I tend to overthink when unsure. Ive been Seeing this aqua female 2/17/90. Shes not the average Aquarius i wanna say. Shes affectionate, and clingy. Flip side shes not that talkative, to me i should say.lol Kinda short with replies. As a air sign I thought communication would be better. Im easy to talk to and can carry a good convo so its weird

Anyway.. verbally she doesnt do the most showing how she cares. She’ll say she misses me or wants to see me. Shes better with small gestures like kisses, her time. Spent time with her and 2 kids. Gone on multiple dates, had sex after first date, she even bought me surprise gifts. Just ordered THEM so not sure what it is yet. She said just be ready to lack a bag when you get the text or call. Planned trips out of state etc etc. Calls me bae and already speaks about the future together and sharing a daughter that she wants bad. Has 2 little boys now. Speak/text everyday and always calls when she gets off work and talk until we go to bed

Times she seems distant, hear thats normal. Or kinda she’ll playfully press me out. Other day she tried calling me and it didnt go through. After 3rd try it went through she said i was getting ready to drive over and fight you! lol My phone was acting up calls didnt go through so didnt know she call previous times

So my question is how do you think she feels? Is she not fully comfortable, unsure of the whole thing, am I overthinking and let it ride. Weighing options still!?!

Im used to the Leo/fire sign passion ways and not the flighty air sign ways lol the lack of communication style s may be whats throwing me off🤷🏻‍♂️

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I googled her birthday. You can see her other planets, besides her sun sign, at the bottom of this page.

https://www.thehoroscope.co/birthday-analyser/February-17-1990-horoscope-and-zodiac-sign-meanings-14667.html

She has Scorpio moon and her Venus and Mars are in Capricorn. If you want to understand her probable relationship style from an astrological perspective, I suggest learning more about those placements. You can google them.


Gotcha. Ok so i did google each planet with cap and that seems to be true with her. Im a detail oriented person so I pay attention to her amd how she does things.
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I googled her birthday. You can see her other planets, besides her sun sign, at the bottom of this page.

https://www.thehoroscope.co/birthday-analyser/February-17-1990-horoscope-and-zodiac-sign-meanings-14667.html

She has Scorpio moon and her Venus and Mars are in Capricorn. If you want to understand her probable relationship style from an astrological perspective, I suggest learning more about those placements. You can google them.

Gotcha. Ok so i did google each planet with cap and that seems to be true with her. Im a detail oriented person so I pay attention to her amd how she does things.

Capricorn is considered a good placement for Mars but pretty difficult for Venus. It makes showing affection difficult sometimes.

Scorpio moon is also very important. If you read about it enough, you'll see some horror stories, but personally, the two most loving and trustworthy women I know are Scorpio moons (my best friend and my mom).

https://www.liveabout.com/scorpio-moon-moon-signs-206988<div class="bqfade">click to expand



That was deep
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Posted by Aquarelle

I'm an Aqua Sun, Cap mars and I can be like that. Sometimes I don't feel like talking and I definitely need my space. I am also usually slow to commit and I'm very careful who I commit to. Especially with her having kids, she will probably first want get to know you really well.


Didnt take that long for me to meet them. She may feel comfortable with me

Second time i went out with the younger son he crawled over to me in theater and fell asleep in my lap. She said he only would fall asleep on her. He’s comfortable with me now onto his brother, the mean spoiled one lol
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Posted by Breeze

Im a Libra male 10/5/88 I tend to overthink when unsure. Ive been Seeing this aqua female 2/17/90. Shes not the average Aquarius i wanna say. Shes affectionate, and clingy. Flip side shes not that talkative, to me i should say.lol Kinda short with replies. As a air sign I thought communication would be better. Im easy to talk to and can carry a good convo so its weird

Anyway.. verbally she doesnt do the most showing how she cares. She’ll say she misses me or wants to see me. Shes better with small gestures like kisses, her time. Spent time with her and 2 kids. Gone on multiple dates, had sex after first date, she even bought me surprise gifts. Just ordered THEM so not sure what it is yet. She said just be ready to lack a bag when you get the text or call. Planned trips out of state etc etc. Calls me bae and already speaks about the future together and sharing a daughter that she wants bad. Has 2 little boys now. Speak/text everyday and always calls when she gets off work and talk until we go to bed

Times she seems distant, hear thats normal. Or kinda she’ll playfully press me out. Other day she tried calling me and it didnt go through. After 3rd try it went through she said i was getting ready to drive over and fight you! lol My phone was acting up calls didnt go through so didnt know she call previous times

So my question is how do you think she feels? Is she not fully comfortable, unsure of the whole thing, am I overthinking and let it ride. Weighing options still!?!

Im used to the Leo/fire sign passion ways and not the flighty air sign ways lol the lack of communication style s may be whats throwing me off🤷🏻‍♂️


1) She may have a natal mercury in retorgrade or

2) She may be slower to open up communication wise

I'm like that but I typically date really talkative people to make up for my non talking in the beginning

Sounds like she may also be intimated by you but she def does like you
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we have the same sun,moon and venus except my mars in taurus but still slow and as i see it she really likes you,but isnt going into full throttle because she is weighing the pros and cons of your relationship,this will take a while,a lot of time,a lot of patience before we open up,because it will break us to go into the process of loving someone,giving them our all to end up just being played with,you may think she doesnt know it but she feels it in her gut that your still not in 100% so she isnt going in 100% too(she is leaving some for herself incase your not in it for the long run) she has 2 children she cant go nuts when you break her heart so she is going at this very carefully there will be a test here and there(you wont even know that we are testing you),but be patient,if she see that your there for her even if you cant understand her yet she will gradually open up to you and make you understand,just dont give her a reason not to trust you,trust is very very important to us,the reason my relationship lasted for years and still going strong is because she isnt the scared type of girl even if she cant understand me most of the time she made me feel she will stay and i am very difficult to understand and very hard to handle
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I think the number 1 reason why im unsure is because her lack of verbal communication. We went to the beach yesterday 2.5 hours away. She barely said a word the whole ride there and back. Was in her phone or slept. When we got to the beach i played with the kids in the water more then she did. She just stayed on beach taking pics/ videos and in her phone.

No verbal interaction, no laughing,no flirting just dry. Like show some personality damn!
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Well update...

I asked about the lack of verbal communication. Just simple conversion not saying i need to be up your ass all day everyday. When we talk engage in the conversation so i dont feel like im talking to myself

Her reply was, “if im not giving you what you want ill fall back”

Damn!! Like it wasnt that serious. Idk anyone that doesnt want the other person to engage them and not be a mute. So i think this shipped sailed🤷🏻‍♂️
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OP dude stop wasting her time your clearly not the patient one,your relationship with her is a little over a month and your expecting too much already thats not how we roll and she can feel and see it,you didnt even pass the communication barrier,our silence is also our communication,we dont talk,we do.some people just dont get that with us,you will see our scorp moon(passionate side)6months or a year in the relationship depends if your not giving us red flags,im already giving you our deepest darkest secret but i can see your giving up already so do it give up and go be with someone your more compatible with
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too many extrovert placements paired w/ too many introvert placements

OP’s placements makes me hella uneasy

Why you say that? Lol i am a bit of both. Im chill and lead by example. I’ll call you out on bs too and I know females dont like that

it’s the fire placements that make me anxious. you wanna move swiftly but, she has a suspicious moon, venus, & mars.

an aquarius w/ scorp moon & cap placements will feel pressured by too much, too fast. it can make them retreat.

an aries mars applies pressure on people to act, & act NOW. some really like that energy but, more introverted, slow movers will not trust it.

i am a scorp but have aqua & cap placements. i’ve dated libra/leo placements w/ an aries mars & felt uncomfortable bc he put pressure on me to act instead of let me come around, on my own terms, in my own way. pressure makes the interaction feel forced...

scorp, aqua, & cap all want an authentic experience. something that moves too quickly, generally crashes & burns just as quick. it’s subject to suspicion & observation, in order to understand intentions. those placements also won’t waste time on something they don’t see compatible.

as we see here, w/ your story.
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I think i never pressured her. She was the one to say i stuck with her. I felt her distance so i kept everything light and flighty. Never the one to press ppl out about things. Was going with the flow. She contacted me and invited me out more then i did her. When she called she never had anything to say lol