Aquarius woman giving me the worst time of my life

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by yassinio on Sunday, January 21, 2018 and has 12 replies.

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@yassinio
8 Years

I fell in love with an Aquarius. As an emotional Capricorn man, I find her very interesting.. and I love her(I never said these words to her yet because she might run for her life).. but the compatibility is very bad, I must say. I have the benefit of having been friends with her for a really long time. However, before astrology I did and said some things that were really bad (that pushes the Aquarian away).. So I have to rebuild..

The Aquarius has no emotion. She takes my emotion and love as a sign of weakness. When I show love and emotion it makes her uncomfortable! She doesn't believe in love. NO EMOTION WHATSOEVER.. COMPLETELY DETACHED!

I tried everything.. FOR 10 YEARS.. NOTHING SEEMS TO WORK! It's like a never-ending game of cat and mouse 😢

It made a stronger person though I must say. Falling for a girl like this makes you really strong. Because you literally have to deal with being treated like a bitch. Allowing her to "be free" and do whatever she choses because when you try and domesticate, they run! IT'S REALLY HARD!

HELP ME BEFORE I JUMP OFF A CLIFF!

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@yassinio
8 Years

But the thing is we've hooked up before. And she's shown me several signs that at times she was interested in me as a lover.. At these times I didn't know astrology and might have played my cards wrong. But then again, i'm just being me.

Now that I look at things different and I understand. I still really want her, I just dont know what's the best way to achieve.

What I've been doing is pursuing other relations, but she's the 1 girl that always seems to be home base. When nothing works, I just come back to her. And it's like a repeat you know.. Idk someone help 😢

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@yassinio
8 Years

When we hooked up for the first time after a long friendship her exact words were " It took you that long to make a move " lmaooo what! Romantic as fuck

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

I had a Cancer guy friend of mine held out

hope for 5 years for reciprocation of his feelings. I told him explicitly that I didn't see him anymore than a friend and that it would never happen. He still held out hope. I felt I wasn't good for this progress, I had to cut him lose or else he would've held on.

If Aqua isn't interested, then it's not happening ever.

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@Capricorn91
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Move on buddy. I completely understand you i was in a similar situation not too long ago. But you can't force someone to have feelings for you right? Accept her as a friend and focus on your life goals. Aquas don't fall that easily. If it didn't happen in 10 years don't expect her to change overnight.

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by airycap82

Posted by AerialView

Posted by aquarius09
If Aqua isn't interested, then it's not happening ever.

You're helping him to JUMP OFF A CLIFF!

But it sounds like he needs to though. Not literally of course! But just detach and move on. Focus that attention and energy on something else.

Feelings are tough especially after having invested that many years. But you’re a Cappy @Yassinio. You can be determined enough to move forward from this if you so choose.

😊

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He's an emotional Cap! Hehe