Ilovemyaqua
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Yes, it is so. Aquas play mental games, you have to do everything the opposite of what you want them to do. So if you want to see him, IGNORE HIM. He will out of the blue contact you, then act like you are not interested in hanging out, and he will want to hang out with you. You should get another person to talk to occupy your thoughts and time while he plays the detach game. Aquas are egoholics, he is purposely testing you, they love attention, but they often hide this fact. They are the opposite of Leo, but have alot of similarities. They just use their mind instead of there heart like Leo. You have to use your mind and not your heart when dealing with him.
^^^ I think at this point in your relationship OP, doing this would be a mistake. You've been aloof for too long and your "casual interest" is being interpreted as such. Eventually if you continue, he will tire of it and move on.
He's close to that already.
He's close to that already.
Posted by virgotruthknow what dumbass with the double standards?? when it comes to your sun sign you say stuff like,
Yes, it is so. Aquas play mental games, you have to do everything the opposite of what you want them to do. So if you want to see him, IGNORE HIM. He will out of the blue contact you, then act like you are not interested in hanging out, and he will want to hang out with you. You should get another person to talk to occupy your thoughts and time while he plays the detach game. Aquas are egoholics, he is purposely testing you, they love attention, but they often hide this fact. They are the opposite of Leo, but have alot of similarities. They just use their mind instead of there heart like Leo. You have to use your mind and not your heart when dealing with him.
"Virgos are dangerous, malicious mental/emotional chess players when on their bad side. So many signs in the natal chart its impossible to describe somebody dark just by their dun sun sign. If you cross me, I will make you see darkness ........ that is true. But my other placements assist that."
and then you come in here and say something like that,
when in truth, all people in every birthday have a choice to get into a relationship or NOT.
just like you virgo suns, some of you RUN. some of you STAY.
some are honest and straight up and say, "nope, dont want anything to do with you."
Posted by Ilovemyaquawhat are his placements??
okay,so after the last time my aqua said he can't continue with the casual thingy,he called me regularly for a couple of days and then bam! disappeared.I have been behaving very normally with him.I called him up in December after our exams got over and we had normal conversation.Then,on New Year's Eve I texted him an he called me.We both were in our hometowns then.I had work so i had to hang up but he tried to extend it.Then he had to return me my file but I was out so I called him up later that night.He was flirty and acted as if we were almost back to being in a casual relationship.I however behaved only as a friend.He subtly called me 'baby' once or twice.Every time I had to hang up,he would extend the conversation.He said he thought he saw me at the market near his place(I told him i'll be there in the eve for work,if that matters).We decided to meet today.He said he'll let me know.I told him to make sure he called me up to tell me that lest I should wait at college(my class gets over before him today).In the morning we got to know that one of our classes got cancelled which meant we'll have more time to hang out.I called him and told him the same and he said,he'll let me know if he can hangout.Then when our classes got over and I had been waiting for over half an hour,I called him.He didn't answer.I waited for another 30 mins,no call back.I was very tired physically and needed rest so I wanted to know if we were hanging out and I should wait for him.I saw him exit college,he saw me too and he headed towards his room.I called him and he answered.he said he wasn't in the mood to hangout.I said I was all ready and he still said he can't hangout and that,we may hang out later.I said it was okay.
Well,this is confusing me(or am I reading in too much?).We haven't hung out for over 1.5 months now.I thought he'll meet.Also,from the last conversation,i thought things were improving.however,he cancelled the plan last minute.Had he not wanted to hangout,he could have told me right from the start.A close friend of mine told me today that she always thought he was leading me on and that she thinks he wants me to chase him.This is really bothering me.Can it be so?I always thought off and on was his nature,an aqua thing but I never thought he was leading me on.Is it so or something else?
scardey cats like that piss me off.
And talking to someone else in the hopes of making him step up is a bad idea. Really bad. Don't find someone else to occupy your time unless you want to and don't mind him leaving you to the new guy. Just do your own thing to occupy yourself.
Posted by sultrykittyuh,I know i've been aloof for too long.I don't know what to do.I don't want to smother him.We'll be having our end term break from 11th January.We'll come back in February end or March.It'll be a long long gap,i know.He knows.But see?He didn't meet;why?because he "wasn't in the mood".And although he has said he might me "some other day",I don't know when that might come and if i should ask him again as it will be too soon.
^^^ I think at this point in your relationship OP, doing this would be a mistake. You've been aloof for too long and your "casual interest" is being interpreted as such. Eventually if you continue, he will tire of it and move on.
He's close to that already.
Posted by lisabethur8He's an Aqua stellium-Sun,Moon,Venus,Mars in Aqua and Mercury in Pisces.Posted by Ilovemyaquawhat are his placements??
okay,so after the last time my aqua said he can't continue with the casual thingy,he called me regularly for a couple of days and then bam! disappeared.I have been behaving very normally with him.I called him up in December after our exams got over and we had normal conversation.Then,on New Year's Eve I texted him an he called me.We both were in our hometowns then.I had work so i had to hang up but he tried to extend it.Then he had to return me my file but I was out so I called him up later that night.He was flirty and acted as if we were almost back to being in a casual relationship.I however behaved only as a friend.He subtly called me 'baby' once or twice.Every time I had to hang up,he would extend the conversation.He said he thought he saw me at the market near his place(I told him i'll be there in the eve for work,if that matters).We decided to meet today.He said he'll let me know.I told him to make sure he called me up to tell me that lest I should wait at college(my class gets over before him today).In the morning we got to know that one of our classes got cancelled which meant we'll have more time to hang out.I called him and told him the same and he said,he'll let me know if he can hangout.Then when our classes got over and I had been waiting for over half an hour,I called him.He didn't answer.I waited for another 30 mins,no call back.I was very tired physically and needed rest so I wanted to know if we were hanging out and I should wait for him.I saw him exit college,he saw me too and he headed towards his room.I called him and he answered.he said he wasn't in the mood to hangout.I said I was all ready and he still said he can't hangout and that,we may hang out later.I said it was okay.
Well,this is confusing me(or am I reading in too much?).We haven't hung out for over 1.5 months now.I thought he'll meet.Also,from the last conversation,i thought things were improving.however,he cancelled the plan last minute.Had he not wanted to hangout,he could have told me right from the start.A close friend of mine told me today that she always thought he was leading me on and that she thinks he wants me to chase him.This is really bothering me.Can it be so?I always thought off and on was his nature,an aqua thing but I never thought he was leading me on.Is it so or something else?
scardey cats like that piss me off.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8You cant judge people strictly by there sun sign that is TRUE ............ BUT with like anything else in the universe, if you were truly smart, (which you arent right now because you feel offended and emotional) you would know that EVERYTHING has two sides. And even though most signs are not dictated by there sun signs, AQUARIUS sun/moon people have a DETACHMENT issue. And that is well known, no matter what there natal chart says. The fact that you got upset,name called, and got emotional PROVES me to be correct. Because if I was wrong you wouldn't have got emotional,checked my history, and started name calling me. Im glad to see you are upset about what i said, if it was wrong, you wouldnt have went through all that effort. Thanks for verifying what I said.Posted by virgotruthknow what dumbass with the double standards?? when it comes to your sun sign you say stuff like,
Yes, it is so. Aquas play mental games, you have to do everything the opposite of what you want them to do. So if you want to see him, IGNORE HIM. He will out of the blue contact you, then act like you are not interested in hanging out, and he will want to hang out with you. You should get another person to talk to occupy your thoughts and time while he plays the detach game. Aquas are egoholics, he is purposely testing you, they love attention, but they often hide this fact. They are the opposite of Leo, but have alot of similarities. They just use their mind instead of there heart like Leo. You have to use your mind and not your heart when dealing with him.
"Virgos are dangerous, malicious mental/emotional chess players when on their bad side. So many signs in the natal chart its impossible to describe somebody dark just by their dun sun sign. If you cross me, I will make you see darkness ........ that is true. But my other placements assist that."
and then you come in here and say something like that,
when in truth, all people in every birthday have a choice to get into a relationship or NOT.
just like you virgo suns, some of you RUN. some of you STAY.
some are honest and straight up and say, "nope, dont want anything to do with you."
click to expand
Posted by IlovemyaquaomgPosted by lisabethur8He's an Aqua stellium-Sun,Moon,Venus,Mars in Aqua and Mercury in Pisces.Posted by Ilovemyaquawhat are his placements??
okay,so after the last time my aqua said he can't continue with the casual thingy,he called me regularly for a couple of days and then bam! disappeared.I have been behaving very normally with him.I called him up in December after our exams got over and we had normal conversation.Then,on New Year's Eve I texted him an he called me.We both were in our hometowns then.I had work so i had to hang up but he tried to extend it.Then he had to return me my file but I was out so I called him up later that night.He was flirty and acted as if we were almost back to being in a casual relationship.I however behaved only as a friend.He subtly called me 'baby' once or twice.Every time I had to hang up,he would extend the conversation.He said he thought he saw me at the market near his place(I told him i'll be there in the eve for work,if that matters).We decided to meet today.He said he'll let me know.I told him to make sure he called me up to tell me that lest I should wait at college(my class gets over before him today).In the morning we got to know that one of our classes got cancelled which meant we'll have more time to hang out.I called him and told him the same and he said,he'll let me know if he can hangout.Then when our classes got over and I had been waiting for over half an hour,I called him.He didn't answer.I waited for another 30 mins,no call back.I was very tired physically and needed rest so I wanted to know if we were hanging out and I should wait for him.I saw him exit college,he saw me too and he headed towards his room.I called him and he answered.he said he wasn't in the mood to hangout.I said I was all ready and he still said he can't hangout and that,we may hang out later.I said it was okay.
Well,this is confusing me(or am I reading in too much?).We haven't hung out for over 1.5 months now.I thought he'll meet.Also,from the last conversation,i thought things were improving.however,he cancelled the plan last minute.Had he not wanted to hangout,he could have told me right from the start.A close friend of mine told me today that she always thought he was leading me on and that she thinks he wants me to chase him.This is really bothering me.Can it be so?I always thought off and on was his nature,an aqua thing but I never thought he was leading me on.Is it so or something else?
scardey cats like that piss me off.click to expand
too much aqua. or too much of air. no thanks.
lol
just being honest.
anyway that's not helping of course, since you obviously fell for one with so many pl
you are a very very STRONG woman to put up with that that's all i can say.
a very very STRONG STRONG woman (emphasis on strong)
Posted by virgotruthPosted by lisabethur8You cant judge people strictly by there sun sign that is TRUE ............ BUT with like anything else in the universe, if you were truly smart, (which you arent right now because you feel offended and emotional) you would know that EVERYTHING has two sides. And even though most signs are not dictated by there sun signs, AQUARIUS sun/moon people have a DETACHMENT issue. And that is well known, no matter what there natal chart says. The fact that you got upset,name called, and got emotional PROVES me to be correct. Because if I was wrong you wouldn't have got emotional,checked my history, and started name calling me. Im glad to see you are upset about what i said, if it was wrong, you wouldnt have went through all that effort. Thanks for verifying what I said.Posted by virgotruthknow what dumbass with the double standards?? when it comes to your sun sign you say stuff like,
Yes, it is so. Aquas play mental games, you have to do everything the opposite of what you want them to do. So if you want to see him, IGNORE HIM. He will out of the blue contact you, then act like you are not interested in hanging out, and he will want to hang out with you. You should get another person to talk to occupy your thoughts and time while he plays the detach game. Aquas are egoholics, he is purposely testing you, they love attention, but they often hide this fact. They are the opposite of Leo, but have alot of similarities. They just use their mind instead of there heart like Leo. You have to use your mind and not your heart when dealing with him.
"Virgos are dangerous, malicious mental/emotional chess players when on their bad side. So many signs in the natal chart its impossible to describe somebody dark just by their dun sun sign. If you cross me, I will make you see darkness ........ that is true. But my other placements assist that."
and then you come in here and say something like that,
when in truth, all people in every birthday have a choice to get into a relationship or NOT.
just like you virgo suns, some of you RUN. some of you STAY.
some are honest and straight up and say, "nope, dont want anything to do with you."
click to expand
you're still a hypocrite no matter how you slice it. Cause you are NOT a fair person at all when it comes to anyone OUTSIDE your birthday months.
Posted by IlovemyaquaIf it were me (I know you're not me so don't necessarily do this if it makes you uncomfortable), with all the standoff-ishness that you're BOTH contributing to, I would be the one to break the ice so to speak.Posted by sultrykittyuh,I know i've been aloof for too long.I don't know what to do.I don't want to smother him.We'll be having our end term break from 11th January.We'll come back in February end or March.It'll be a long long gap,i know.He knows.But see?He didn't meet;why?because he "wasn't in the mood".And although he has said he might me "some other day",I don't know when that might come and if i should ask him again as it will be too soon.
^^^ I think at this point in your relationship OP, doing this would be a mistake. You've been aloof for too long and your "casual interest" is being interpreted as such. Eventually if you continue, he will tire of it and move on.
He's close to that already.click to expand
Tell him what you posted here; that you really like him and want to be in a relationship with him. This guy is NOT going to lead. He's been hinting at it but you're not responding really.
You haven't seen him in 1.5 months...asking what's up and telling him how you feel isn't going to suffocate him.
He needs to step up, but so do you. Tell him.
and when someone points the fingers at you, you will say shit like what i saw in your profile.
I didnt even have to dig deep honestly. I just clicked on to your profile, and your comment was on the front.
and if you were HONEST all you'd have to say is I dont like aqua energy, then fucking fine.
get lost.
i can't say the same honestly about virgo, because i'm married to a virgo dominant man.
and you can't play that fucking game with me buddy.
I didnt even have to dig deep honestly. I just clicked on to your profile, and your comment was on the front.
and if you were HONEST all you'd have to say is I dont like aqua energy, then fucking fine.
get lost.
i can't say the same honestly about virgo, because i'm married to a virgo dominant man.
and you can't play that fucking game with me buddy.
Posted by lisabethur8eh,thanks? 🙂 Although from that i may infer whatever he's doing is very wrong? Is he actually leading me on?Do aquas do that?
you are a very very STRONG woman to put up with that that's all i can say.
a very very STRONG STRONG woman (emphasis on strong)
just goes to prove i dont like all virgo energy mixed with something else = jerk ass peeps who are hypocritical.
i'd respect your ass more if you were HONEST and said, I hate that fucking aqua energy.
then that's the way i like it. (unless you have aqua energy yourself then i dont know. you're gonna have to DEAL with your own shit)
i'd respect your ass more if you were HONEST and said, I hate that fucking aqua energy.
then that's the way i like it. (unless you have aqua energy yourself then i dont know. you're gonna have to DEAL with your own shit)
Posted by lisabethur8If your statement is TRUE, and FACTUAL, explain how I feel about all of the other signs ..................Posted by virgotruthPosted by lisabethur8You cant judge people strictly by there sun sign that is TRUE ............ BUT with like anything else in the universe, if you were truly smart, (which you arent right now because you feel offended and emotional) you would know that EVERYTHING has two sides. And even though most signs are not dictated by there sun signs, AQUARIUS sun/moon people have a DETACHMENT issue. And that is well known, no matter what there natal chart says. The fact that you got upset,name called, and got emotional PROVES me to be correct. Because if I was wrong you wouldn't have got emotional,checked my history, and started name calling me. Im glad to see you are upset about what i said, if it was wrong, you wouldnt have went through all that effort. Thanks for verifying what I said.Posted by virgotruthknow what dumbass with the double standards?? when it comes to your sun sign you say stuff like,
Yes, it is so. Aquas play mental games, you have to do everything the opposite of what you want them to do. So if you want to see him, IGNORE HIM. He will out of the blue contact you, then act like you are not interested in hanging out, and he will want to hang out with you. You should get another person to talk to occupy your thoughts and time while he plays the detach game. Aquas are egoholics, he is purposely testing you, they love attention, but they often hide this fact. They are the opposite of Leo, but have alot of similarities. They just use their mind instead of there heart like Leo. You have to use your mind and not your heart when dealing with him.
"Virgos are dangerous, malicious mental/emotional chess players when on their bad side. So many signs in the natal chart its impossible to describe somebody dark just by their dun sun sign. If you cross me, I will make you see darkness ........ that is true. But my other placements assist that."
and then you come in here and say something like that,
when in truth, all people in every birthday have a choice to get into a relationship or NOT.
just like you virgo suns, some of you RUN. some of you STAY.
some are honest and straight up and say, "nope, dont want anything to do with you."
you're still a hypocrite no matter how you slice it. Cause you are NOT a fair person at all when it comes to anyone OUTSIDE your birthday months.click to expand
Posted by Ilovemyaquanot in my personal experience but my ex was dominant fire (aries). with cap moon.Posted by lisabethur8eh,thanks? 🙂 Although from that i may infer whatever he's doing is very wrong? Is he actually leading me on?Do aquas do that?
you are a very very STRONG woman to put up with that that's all i can say.
a very very STRONG STRONG woman (emphasis on strong)click to expand
this one you got is one AIRY guy.
SultryKitty is dating an aquarius sun/taurus moon but according to her he's Air dominant.
Posted by lisabethur8I dont hate Aqua energy, as I said the universe is based off POLARITY, just as Aquas detach they are VERY loving and likable when they are in a good mood. My statement was only to help OP understand what is going on because shes coming from an emotional place and if you eliminates that she will be able to handle the situation more clearly.
just goes to prove i dont like all virgo energy mixed with something else = jerk ass peeps who are hypocritical.
i'd respect your ass more if you were HONEST and said, I hate that fucking aqua energy.
then that's the way i like it. (unless you have aqua energy yourself then i dont know. you're gonna have to DEAL with your own shit)
Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he's got air Venus (Aqua) and is also Venusian (like me).Posted by Ilovemyaquanot in my personal experience but my ex was dominant fire (aries). with cap moon.Posted by lisabethur8eh,thanks? 🙂 Although from that i may infer whatever he's doing is very wrong? Is he actually leading me on?Do aquas do that?
you are a very very STRONG woman to put up with that that's all i can say.
a very very STRONG STRONG woman (emphasis on strong)
this one you got is one AIRY guy.
SultryKitty is dating an aquarius sun/taurus moon but according to her he's Air dominant.click to expand
I'm air dom. so I understand air well.
Posted by virgotruthPosted by lisabethur8If your statement is TRUE, and FACTUAL, explain howPosted by virgotruthPosted by lisabethur8You cant judge people strictly by there sun sign that is TRUE ............ BUT with like anything else in the universe, if you were truly smart, (which you arent right now because you feel offended and emotional) you would know that EVERYTHING has two sides. And even though most signs are not dictated by there sun signs, AQUARIUS sun/moon people have a DETACHMENT issue. And that is well known, no matter what there natal chart says. The fact that you got upset,name called, and got emotional PROVES me to be correct. Because if I was wrong you wouldn't have got emotional,checked my history, and started name calling me. Im glad to see you are upset about what i said, if it was wrong, you wouldnt have went through all that effort. Thanks for verifying what I said.Posted by virgotruthknow what dumbass with the double standards?? when it comes to your sun sign you say stuff like,
Yes, it is so. Aquas play mental games, you have to do everything the opposite of what you want them to do. So if you want to see him, IGNORE HIM. He will out of the blue contact you, then act like you are not interested in hanging out, and he will want to hang out with you. You should get another person to talk to occupy your thoughts and time while he plays the detach game. Aquas are egoholics, he is purposely testing you, they love attention, but they often hide this fact. They are the opposite of Leo, but have alot of similarities. They just use their mind instead of there heart like Leo. You have to use your mind and not your heart when dealing with him.
"Virgos are dangerous, malicious mental/emotional chess players when on their bad side. So many signs in the natal chart its impossible to describe somebody dark just by their dun sun sign. If you cross me, I will make you see darkness ........ that is true. But my other placements assist that."
and then you come in here and say something like that,
when in truth, all people in every birthday have a choice to get into a relationship or NOT.
just like you virgo suns, some of you RUN. some of you STAY.
some are honest and straight up and say, "nope, dont want anything to do with you."
you're still a hypocrite no matter how you slice it. Cause you are NOT a fair person at all when it comes to anyone OUTSIDE your birthday months.click to expand
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
Posted by sultrykittysultry,I know you've been telling me to do that from a long time now and everytime I read it,I feel like yes,that's what I gotta do.But,um,I don't know,I guess I'm not brave enough.I'm very scared of losing him.We're entering our last semester in college this February.I and him have had fights in our first year of college wherein we went months without contact.Now that we're in 4th year and about to part,the very thought of parting with a grudge makes me sad.I don't want to have negativities.I don't know how I'll feel if he leaves.Which is why I go with his pace.I know what I'm doing is very wrong,I'm allowing myself to be emotionally vulnerable.it sucks.I really really wish I can be brave enough to actually take a step and face whatever comes my way.Posted by IlovemyaquaIf it were me (I know you're not me so don't necessarily do this if it makes you uncomfortable), with all the standoff-ishness that you're BOTH contributing to, I would be the one to break the ice so to speak.Posted by sultrykittyuh,I know i've been aloof for too long.I don't know what to do.I don't want to smother him.We'll be having our end term break from 11th January.We'll come back in February end or March.It'll be a long long gap,i know.He knows.But see?He didn't meet;why?because he "wasn't in the mood".And although he has said he might me "some other day",I don't know when that might come and if i should ask him again as it will be too soon.
^^^ I think at this point in your relationship OP, doing this would be a mistake. You've been aloof for too long and your "casual interest" is being interpreted as such. Eventually if you continue, he will tire of it and move on.
He's close to that already.
Tell him what you posted here; that you really like him and want to be in a relationship with him. This guy is NOT going to lead. He's been hinting at it but you're not responding really.
You haven't seen him in 1.5 months...asking what's up and telling him how you feel isn't going to suffocate him.
He needs to step up, but so do you. Tell him.click to expand
Posted by rampartscasual relationship
What does this even mean? "Casual thingy"
Posted by lisabethur8Thats the point, you DONT KNOW, but you call me names and get emotional and illogical like you do. If you understand the games Aquas play, you can look at them LOGICALLY and realize that, thats doesnt mean they are BAD people. Even though it is something most people would not want to deal with, if you love or like them in a relationship you can analyze that, logically counter it and appreciate them for the good natured people they are aside from that flaw.
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
Posted by lisabethur8he's not even an air mercury!! for goodness sakes.
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
oohh today is square day huh?
😛
Scorpio moon/Scorpio mars squaring mercury aquarius today, along with Neptune Pisces squaring Saturn in Sagittarius, Venus and Saturn Sagittarius squaring Jupiter virgo!!!!
and today was my rest day from working all new years week.
Posted by virgotruthyou still going on?? lolPosted by lisabethur8Thats the point, you DONT KNOW, but you call me names and get emotional and illogical like you do. If you understand the games Aquas play, you can look at them LOGICALLY and realize that, thats doesnt mean they are BAD people. Even though it is something most people would not want to deal with, if you love or like them in a relationship you can analyze that, logically counter it and appreciate them for the good natured people they are aside from that flaw.
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.click to expand
man you are stubborn mofo!!
maybe you're the one playing games. ever think of that?
i never had to do that at all with my ex's or my current man.
game playing is for peeps who can't commit.
Posted by sultrykittydo you detach then?Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he's got air Venus (Aqua) and is also Venusian (like me).Posted by Ilovemyaquanot in my personal experience but my ex was dominant fire (aries). with cap moon.Posted by lisabethur8eh,thanks? 🙂 Although from that i may infer whatever he's doing is very wrong? Is he actually leading me on?Do aquas do that?
you are a very very STRONG woman to put up with that that's all i can say.
a very very STRONG STRONG woman (emphasis on strong)
this one you got is one AIRY guy.
SultryKitty is dating an aquarius sun/taurus moon but according to her he's Air dominant.
I'm air dom. so I understand air well.click to expand
cause that's what astrologers say about air dominants.
they don't join with family events and groups. and isolate themselves from others.
i dont do that in personal relationships.
Posted by lisabethur8LMAO, im stubborn because I showed that you have no facts and base everything from an illogical emotional place .......... OK. I treat people as they treat me, you call me a hypocrite, thats cool, everyone is to an extent no one is perfect, but you come off as though you are. When Im showing you, you are not, you want me to be quiet and let you have an opinion without being objected ......................... BUT you call me UNFAIR. THE IRONY.Posted by virgotruthyou still going on?? lolPosted by lisabethur8Thats the point, you DONT KNOW, but you call me names and get emotional and illogical like you do. If you understand the games Aquas play, you can look at them LOGICALLY and realize that, thats doesnt mean they are BAD people. Even though it is something most people would not want to deal with, if you love or like them in a relationship you can analyze that, logically counter it and appreciate them for the good natured people they are aside from that flaw.
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
man you are stubborn mofo!!
maybe you're the one playing games. ever think of that?
i never had to do that at all with my ex's or my current man.
game playing is for peeps who can't commit.click to expand
Posted by virgotruthyou're the one who came in here blazing about just one energy in a chart.Posted by lisabethur8LMAO, im stubborn because I showed that you have no facts and base everything from an illogical emotional place .......... OK. I treat people as they treat me, you call me a hypocrite, thats cool, everyone is to an extent no one is perfect, but you come off as though you are. When Im showing you, you are not, you want me to be quiet and let you have an opinion without being objected ......................... BUT you call me UNFAIR. THE IRONY.Posted by virgotruthyou still going on?? lolPosted by lisabethur8Thats the point, you DONT KNOW, but you call me names and get emotional and illogical like you do. If you understand the games Aquas play, you can look at them LOGICALLY and realize that, thats doesnt mean they are BAD people. Even though it is something most people would not want to deal with, if you love or like them in a relationship you can analyze that, logically counter it and appreciate them for the good natured people they are aside from that flaw.
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
man you are stubborn mofo!!
maybe you're the one playing games. ever think of that?
i never had to do that at all with my ex's or my current man.
game playing is for peeps who can't commit.click to expand
so when i showed you what you said (Put a MIRROR up to you)
you balk and scream illogical. I"m like wtf?? okkkkkkkkkkkkk ....
Posted by rampartsum,well I've written about that in my other posts.a quick recap for you.we've known each other from 3.5 yrs now.we're in the same class.we confessed our feelings in the first year itself,however,none of us wanted a relationship.he had already confessed he was a commitment phobe.It was rough in the first 2 yrs,i was clingy.soon,I realised detachment was inherent in aquarians and thus I learnt not to panic and relax,I've been respecting his space since.He appreciated this thing recently.In 2014 he proposed to me for a relationship for the 2 yrs that were left in college.but i wasn't sure so I refused.we've already discussed why we can't be in a permanent relationship because of religious issues. He's been doing on and off right from start.from August last year we've come closer.In September we started with the casual relationship.he once ended it when I confessed i was getting serious but restarted 2 weeks later.recently he was getting emotionally close but physically distant.then he disappeared.I called him up and I was a little pushy that day and he said he didn't want to continue with the casual thing since he wasn't meant for it and that whatever next he wanted was permanent.he said we should end things,however,he was very confused that day and oscillated between yes and no.in the end however I started poking and he said we should end it.Then whatever i wrote above happened.Posted by IlovemyaquaHe said he can't do a casual relationship anymore? And then what? Did he say what he DOES want?Posted by rampartscasual relationship
What does this even mean? "Casual thingy"click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8You put a mirror up, but what facts have you proven to what I said being wrong?Posted by virgotruthyou're the one who came in here blazing about just one energy in a chart.Posted by lisabethur8LMAO, im stubborn because I showed that you have no facts and base everything from an illogical emotional place .......... OK. I treat people as they treat me, you call me a hypocrite, thats cool, everyone is to an extent no one is perfect, but you come off as though you are. When Im showing you, you are not, you want me to be quiet and let you have an opinion without being objected ......................... BUT you call me UNFAIR. THE IRONY.Posted by virgotruthyou still going on?? lolPosted by lisabethur8Thats the point, you DONT KNOW, but you call me names and get emotional and illogical like you do. If you understand the games Aquas play, you can look at them LOGICALLY and realize that, thats doesnt mean they are BAD people. Even though it is something most people would not want to deal with, if you love or like them in a relationship you can analyze that, logically counter it and appreciate them for the good natured people they are aside from that flaw.
how would i know? i dont follow your posts. You're projecting to be honest, Because someone who plays mental games in a relationship is not a man i'd respect at all.
i didnt marry an airy man at all. and he doesn't have air venus or air moon or air mars either.
man you are stubborn mofo!!
maybe you're the one playing games. ever think of that?
i never had to do that at all with my ex's or my current man.
game playing is for peeps who can't commit.
so when i showed you what you said (Put a MIRROR up to you)
you balk and scream illogical. I"m like wtf?? okkkkkkkkkkkkk ....click to expand
and yes it's hypocritical if you say to yourself, because it's YOUR birthday month and place everyone along the same lines, that they get fair trial of everyone is different under that sun sign.
but put everyone else under their sun sign birthday as NO TRIAL for any other energies in the chart. Because why— they don't get a fair trial.
GUILTY all the time. I dont like people like that.IF i did that, i'd make sure i change that shit about me, cause i would be like, GROSSS!!!
however if you jsut honestly said, i dont like that energy, then AWESOME!!! you dont like it, good!!!! more respect.
but it defeats the purpose when you're crawling over here yapping and enjoying yourselves with aqua energy. 😆
you'd do well in governments that only cater to their own wealth and not the poor, little people.
but put everyone else under their sun sign birthday as NO TRIAL for any other energies in the chart. Because why— they don't get a fair trial.
GUILTY all the time. I dont like people like that.IF i did that, i'd make sure i change that shit about me, cause i would be like, GROSSS!!!
however if you jsut honestly said, i dont like that energy, then AWESOME!!! you dont like it, good!!!! more respect.
but it defeats the purpose when you're crawling over here yapping and enjoying yourselves with aqua energy. 😆
you'd do well in governments that only cater to their own wealth and not the poor, little people.
that's kind of a HITLER way of life....
guilty...all them jews.
DETACHED.
guilty...all them jews.
DETACHED.
Posted by lisabethur8I will ask you again, what proof do you have that many people in Aqua sun/moon are not detached? I could pull up old post and twists words any way I want to prove some in the present is hypocritical on pretty much anyone. My point is, what facts can you or have you provided to show what I said today is not true?
and yes it's hypocritical if you say to yourself, because it's YOUR birthday month and place everyone along the same lines, that they get fair trial of everyone is different under that sun sign.
but put everyone else under their sun sign birthday as NO TRIAL for any other energies in the chart. Because why— they don't get a fair trial.
GUILTY all the time. I dont like people like that.IF i did that, i'd make sure i change that shit about me, cause i would be like, GROSSS!!!
however if you jsut honestly said, i dont like that energy, then AWESOME!!! you dont like it, good!!!! more respect.
but it defeats the purpose when you're crawling over here yapping and enjoying yourselves with aqua energy. 😆
you'd do well in governments that only cater to their own wealth and not the poor, little people.
Posted by virgotruthhttp://astrolibrary.org/interpretations/dominant-air-element/Posted by lisabethur8I will ask you again, what proof do you have that many people in Aqua sun/moon are not detached? I could pull up old post and twists words any way I want to prove some in the present is hypocritical on pretty much anyone. My point is, what facts can you or have you provided to show what I said today is not true?
and yes it's hypocritical if you say to yourself, because it's YOUR birthday month and place everyone along the same lines, that they get fair trial of everyone is different under that sun sign.
but put everyone else under their sun sign birthday as NO TRIAL for any other energies in the chart. Because why— they don't get a fair trial.
GUILTY all the time. I dont like people like that.IF i did that, i'd make sure i change that shit about me, cause i would be like, GROSSS!!!
however if you jsut honestly said, i dont like that energy, then AWESOME!!! you dont like it, good!!!! more respect.
but it defeats the purpose when you're crawling over here yapping and enjoying yourselves with aqua energy. 😆
you'd do well in governments that only cater to their own wealth and not the poor, little people.click to expand
5 air points denotes a person who is "very" much like the following keywords, whereas 6 or more points for the air element denotes a person who is "overly":
Ӣintellectual
Ӣquestioning
Ӣconceptualizing
Ӣsynthesizing
Ӣobservant
Ӣobjective
Ӣdetached
Ӣunrealistic
Ӣindecisive
Ӣtalkative
Ӣinteracting
Ӣcooperating
oh my goodnes, virgotruth....
it sounds like you. talking about logical all the time.
it sounds like you. talking about logical all the time.
Posted by lisabethur8LMAO, so you post a random link, talking about AIR signs which could be about Libra,Aqua or Gemini. When the original topic is about an Aquarius who is detaching from the OP. Thank you for proving my point. You have no solid facts about the topic at hand, you just want to name call and ACT as if you are proving me wrong when you have nothing solid to stand on,Posted by virgotruthhttp://astrolibrary.org/interpretations/dominant-air-element/Posted by lisabethur8I will ask you again, what proof do you have that many people in Aqua sun/moon are not detached? I could pull up old post and twists words any way I want to prove some in the present is hypocritical on pretty much anyone. My point is, what facts can you or have you provided to show what I said today is not true?
and yes it's hypocritical if you say to yourself, because it's YOUR birthday month and place everyone along the same lines, that they get fair trial of everyone is different under that sun sign.
but put everyone else under their sun sign birthday as NO TRIAL for any other energies in the chart. Because why— they don't get a fair trial.
GUILTY all the time. I dont like people like that.IF i did that, i'd make sure i change that shit about me, cause i would be like, GROSSS!!!
however if you jsut honestly said, i dont like that energy, then AWESOME!!! you dont like it, good!!!! more respect.
but it defeats the purpose when you're crawling over here yapping and enjoying yourselves with aqua energy. 😆
you'd do well in governments that only cater to their own wealth and not the poor, little people.
5 air points denotes a person who is "very" much like the following keywords, whereas 6 or more points for the air element denotes a person who is "overly":
Ӣintellectual
Ӣquestioning
Ӣconceptualizing
Ӣsynthesizing
Ӣobservant
Ӣobjective
Ӣdetached
Ӣunrealistic
Ӣindecisive
Ӣtalkative
Ӣinteracting
Ӣcooperatingclick to expand
still characteritistics...
just like earth has characterisitcs.
it's still very valid.
also, you were right with her boyfriend, he's a stellium in aquarius.
just like earth has characterisitcs.
it's still very valid.
also, you were right with her boyfriend, he's a stellium in aquarius.
OP,
What's the point of chasing someone who keeps blowing you off?
My advice, find a guy who actually wants to spend time with you. A guy you don't have to chase. Exert your energies to someone who won't leave you confused. And DON"T agree to FWB or a casual thingy with him. All FWB does is leave one in confusion.
What's the point of chasing someone who keeps blowing you off?
My advice, find a guy who actually wants to spend time with you. A guy you don't have to chase. Exert your energies to someone who won't leave you confused. And DON"T agree to FWB or a casual thingy with him. All FWB does is leave one in confusion.
Posted by rampartswe both discussed why we can't be in a relationship way back in 2012.I wrote it somewhere in between because that's when I recalled I had forgot to mention it.Also,he said he wants permanent but didn't specify with whom.I know what you're saying and yes,I guess both of us are confused,very confused. *sigh* .I guess we've never been on the same page.I really want that we spend the last 4-5 months of college very happily and have loads of fun together.but I don't know,I'm scared of stepping up because I don't want to be clingy.See? the way he stood me up today?that's what discourages me.Although he's rarely ever done that.But now that he did it today,I'll perhaps slow down. :/ I don't know how to give him space without coming across as very aloof.
Im still confused so I cant imagine how confused you two are.
Did you both decide you can't be together because of religious issues or you or just him? I get the feeling that he brings up a lot of stuff to gauge your reaction and you just agree with him so he senses you don't want him.
Do you know what you want? Seems as though neither of you is sure what you want so you keep going back and forth.
Both confessed feelings but don't want a relationship
You were clingy then detached
He proposes relationship
You reject him
You both discuss why you cant be in a a relationship
But then you start a relationship anyway
You confess feelings
He rejects you then comes back
He's getting emotionally closer
You call him being pushy
He says he doesn't want casual, he wants permanent
You keep prodding him and he ends it
He keeps in touch with you calling you pet names which you ignore
Now you're confused why he ditched you
You guys are a mess. I mean that in the nicest way possible
PS: Idk,but I found your summary of our story very cute. 🙂 thanks 🙂
OP should either find somebody who will give her the emotionally commitment she needs. OR if she cant let him go ................ PLAY THE GAME. If she continues to worry, and continue to accept his ways, she will be emotionally drained and hurt in the end. She either should let him go, or play the mental detachment non commitment game with him and gamble on herself winning.
Posted by rampartsDing ding ding! THIS.
Don't do anything except be yourself. If you remain guarded you'll always wonder how this could have worked out if you would have been emotionally vulnerable. Being vulnerable is scary, yes...but it's necessary.
Aquas seem to appreciate complete honesty more than any other sign.
You're already in a relationship anyway. You just need to communicate better and compromise your relationship needs to each other.
Vulnerability FTW...
what i notice is that dominant airy peeps are WITH dominant airy peeps, or those with packed air houses.
personal planets there especially.
and it WORKS.
unless you, OP have alot of air, then you should understand him.
Read Sultrykitty's posts on her aqua, who is dominant air, and sultrykitty is also dominant airy. she and her aqua go at it.
personal planets there especially.
and it WORKS.
unless you, OP have alot of air, then you should understand him.
Read Sultrykitty's posts on her aqua, who is dominant air, and sultrykitty is also dominant airy. she and her aqua go at it.
Posted by virgotruthdammit i agree with you.
OP should either find somebody who will give her the emotionally commitment she needs. OR if she cant let him go ................ PLAY THE GAME. If she continues to worry, and continue to accept his ways, she will be emotionally drained and hurt in the end. She either should let him go, or play the mental detachment non commitment game with him and gamble on herself winning.
and i was super emoitional earlier.
but i dont regret it. It's who i am. lol
Posted by truecapI started developing feelings for him and had decided to clear things out in December.But all this happened in November end.Also,when in October,when he was continuosly poking me to answer one day if I was getting serious about him and I replied in positive and he ended things,I was cool with it because I was prepared for it and I expected it to happen.However after that when we got back together and he started getting close emotionally,I didn't expect he'll end it again out of the blue,after getting closer than ever and without any reason.Infact,I even asked him if i was being trouble,a cling on,needy or that if he had someone else waiting on him.he said no.I asked if he didn't like the relationship,he said he did.Also,he was so confused when ending things,sometimes yes,sometimes no.But yes,I agree I've never told him that I want more than casual.Maybe want is not the right word.I'd love having more than casual with him but that's just me,I can't force my wants on him :/ . Infact,I've always projected that I was super okay with casual,that casual was my thing.Idk,I just don't want to smother him or push him into things which is why I take things at his pace,show him that he's not bound at all,his freedom is not being robbed.so I patiently wait.I feel if he'll actually want me,he'll let me know somehow and till he doesn't,it is no point in pushing things.But maybe all that has created lots of confusion.I still want to tell him someday,very subtly,that I do like him more than casual,I'd love permanent,but I'm scared.Idk.sorry for the long reply.
OP,
What's the point of chasing someone who keeps blowing you off?
My advice, find a guy who actually wants to spend time with you. A guy you don't have to chase. Exert your energies to someone who won't leave you confused. And DON"T agree to FWB or a casual thingy with him. All FWB does is leave one in confusion.
Posted by lisabethur8Pretty much yeah, although I'm very deep and deeply attached to 1 or 2 people. I will only walk away when I'm completely overwhelmed and ill equipped to handle a situation. Then I'll bounce without a word.Posted by sultrykittydo you detach then?Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he's got air Venus (Aqua) and is also Venusian (like me).Posted by Ilovemyaquanot in my personal experience but my ex was dominant fire (aries). with cap moon.Posted by lisabethur8eh,thanks? 🙂 Although from that i may infer whatever he's doing is very wrong? Is he actually leading me on?Do aquas do that?
you are a very very STRONG woman to put up with that that's all i can say.
a very very STRONG STRONG woman (emphasis on strong)
this one you got is one AIRY guy.
SultryKitty is dating an aquarius sun/taurus moon but according to her he's Air dominant.
I'm air dom. so I understand air well.
cause that's what astrologers say about air dominants.
they don't join with family events and groups. and isolate themselves from others.
i dont do that in personal relationships.
click to expand
That doesn't happen often though. I stll have 2 earth grand trines. :-)
Posted by lisabethur8Thats cool, misunderstandings happen all the time. You cool in my book, and i appreciate your objectivity, I always strive to learn something from a different perspective and grow. Glad to know ultimately we are on the same page.Posted by virgotruthdammit i agree with you.
OP should either find somebody who will give her the emotionally commitment she needs. OR if she cant let him go ................ PLAY THE GAME. If she continues to worry, and continue to accept his ways, she will be emotionally drained and hurt in the end. She either should let him go, or play the mental detachment non commitment game with him and gamble on herself winning.
and i was super emoitional earlier.
but i dont regret it. It's who i am. lolclick to expand
Posted by virgotruthI know what you're saying.It's just that,uh,this guy! I like him so much and then when I read about Aquarius and detachments I thought,okay,there may still be hope. I realised that maybe I should give him space and then i developed this concept of being selfless when you like someone and thought if II really like him, shouldn't expect anything and like him for who he is.Argh!i don't know what i'm writing.Idk,I just want peaceful 4 months,the last months of college and then we'll both move out of town,perhaps miles apart to our separate job cities.I don't want to be trouble to anyone,that's just how I am.i'll rather suffer alone than bother others because of me.But yes,sometimes i really want to tell him,but then,i just go mute,lol.Also,us Taureans,we stick to one person and always want to make things work. :/
OP should either find somebody who will give her the emotionally commitment she needs. OR if she cant let him go ................ PLAY THE GAME. If she continues to worry, and continue to accept his ways, she will be emotionally drained and hurt in the end. She either should let him go, or play the mental detachment non commitment game with him and gamble on herself winning.
Posted by lisabethur8I'm Earth: 28.9% and Air:27.4% so yeah air is close behind.Also,Gemini is my dominant sign so yeah.But idk,he's a little too detached for me.
what i notice is that dominant airy peeps are WITH dominant airy peeps, or those with packed air houses.
personal planets there especially.
and it WORKS.
unless you, OP have alot of air, then you should understand him.
Read Sultrykitty's posts on her aqua, who is dominant air, and sultrykitty is also dominant airy. she and her aqua go at it.
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