What turns ya on?

Aquarius...what turns you on & gets your attention in the opposite sex or the same sex if that your preference?

Would love to hear the top 5 since "there's so much". :o)

As an Aquarius moon having an intellectual debate NOT arguments 'll definitely turn me on in opposite sex. Intellectual I mean talking about anything thats happening around the world now and in future, not about lipstick, shoes or kardashian and her family. If you wana hear by list then here is mine
1) Mind stimulation (Discussion, debates, brain storming or whatever related)
2) Independence (We try to stay away from clingies)
3) Humanitarian work or similar kind that can turn us on.
4) Technology, we like to run with the world.
5) Confidence specially on a woman definitely a big turn on for me oh yeah.

quiet people have always driven me to insanity, in a good way. just like the song says "you say it best when you say nothing at all".

I love lots of sex, I have a crazy problematic libido so someone who is willing to keep me out of trouble is a definite turn on.

I love spiritually awakened people, who live consciously and know their shit and are anti bullshit.

I'm attracted to anything I haven't had or can't have

Posted by geminidude
As an Aquarius moon having an intellectual debate NOT arguments 'll definitely turn me on in opposite sex. Intellectual I mean talking about anything thats happening around the world now and in future, not about lipstick, shoes or kardashian and her family. If you wana hear by list then here is mine
1) Mind stimulation (Discussion, debates, brain storming or whatever related)
2) Independence (We try to stay away from clingies)
3) Humanitarian work or similar kind that can turn us on.
4) Technology, we like to run with the world.
5) Confidence specially on a woman definitely a big turn on for me oh yeah.

I'll second this, especially #2. Since I'm a girl, take out lipstick, shoes and Kardashian and insert cars and football.

Mars in Aquarius here.

First base: Mental Simulation: entering each other's psyche about various topics. Personal beliefs. Experiences.

Second base: Playful & Adventurous

third base: Agressive & Proactive , aint nobody got time for whimps.

Home: FANTASY SEXING.

*giggles*

This is great stuff!!! Thus far it looks like I'm doing the right things & Mr Aqua is crushing & chasing. Hehehe...but I will say I'm not letting it go there sexually yet. We do have "sex" conversations but I'm a Virgo soooooo. Lol. I'm just sitting back and letting him come to me. Anymore feedback is truly welcomed. :o)

If you can uphold a stimulating conversation then that's a great start.

Sun in aquarius.

I'm married and my hubby turns me on with these traits:

1)Consistency
2)Dependability
3)Loving and insistent
4)Passionate and sarcastically funny
5)Intelligence/brilliant mind
6)snuggable and huggable
7)kissable and cuddable
8)strong opinions
9)strength in character
10)Playful and Confident

Posted by Bsmurray
If you can uphold a stimulating conversation then that's a great start.

Sun in aquarius.

This. I don't care how hot a person is but if he can't talk about interesting stuff, I lose interest. By 'interesting' I mean I want to go "Wow, I've heard that before", etc. Be informative, make me think & research stuff. I love looking up new information just to know more. Humour is also one of the things I appreciate in a person, make me laugh lol. Cheerfulness, I love. I don't want to be around an always depressed, complaining individual.

I don't care much about other stuff like looks, money, etc.

I forget....

No boringness!! I maybe the most boring person alive but I don't want us both to be boring as hell.

My hubkins is never boring, always making me LOL, even snuggable snugkins pie!!

but never boring!

Even his presence is just exciting!

Oh like Candi said, aggression. I love a man with spunk too lol. I don't want a sissy wuss. He must have a "rough" air about him. Even though I'm not much into looks, but I do like my men to look like real men...I don't do pretty.

One guy I used to date used to always roll up his shirt sleeves (I'm like that too, roll them up & get ready for action. I live for action, can't stand still doing nothing lol), it was a habit of his & I found it extremely hot. That & the fact that he had a stubble. Facial hair turns me on.

"Hop on in, ladies!"


More like when Shania Twain ...sings, "That don't impress me much!"

What turns me on?

Hmm, well...

1. The fact that a man is willing/able do what I'm about to list lol

2. Stimulate my mind. Get deep. Give me thorough responses when we're conversing. Show me that you can "hang" in the communication/conversation department. Show us that you can get "deep" & think outside of the box too. Don't be afraid of a little debate. Disagree with us sometimes, damn! We don't want someone we feel we can control or whose too passive to stand up for themselves; we'll just walk all over you & get bored with you very quickly.

3. Be genuine in your pace/approach towards us. Don't try to get in with us too fast or we'll question your intentions, as we should in this world where people have forgotten that they must 1st prove that they even like you before they can confess falling in love with you lol. Don't move too slow but don't move too fast either. Let things flow naturally. We don't like pressure nor do we ever trust those who say all the things they only "think" we want to hear. Don't be in "Oh gosh, I need to impress this Aquarian" mod all the time. Our guard goes down a lot faster when people can just be our friend first, damn!

4. Consistency! Keep your word. Mean what you say. Don't start something you can't finish. Don't make promises you can't keep. Don't get us all hyped up & excited about something, then be inconsistent when it's time to DELIVER. We don't like routine when it comes to everything else, but when dating someone, we won't trust them unless we feel that they are "as advertised" on a consistent basis.

5. Make us laugh. Have a fun & spontaneous side. Have a good sense of humor. Don't be a robot or so uptight. Let loose a little. Show us that you're comfortable being silly & "letting go" sometimes. Show us that you can "hang" when it's time to be serious AND when it's time to have fun too. Trust, we are not robots all the time ourselves either. We need to see that you can appeal to both our serious side & wild side.

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY------> Number ONE lol

Krysrenee7 - thank you. I hear it loud & clear.

Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Krysrenee7 - thank you. I hear it loud & clear.

Krys has a handbook published.

j/k.

^_~

Good lyrics.

What turns me on, hmm let's see...


Mischievous eyes/grin.

Curled hair.

"Nice" (can't figure that out) smell.

Full lips.

Sultry voice.

*Slightly* inviting clothes.

Ripe breasts.

Taut tummy (not riped, just not flaccid).

Full hips, thick (but firm) legs and buttocks.

Warm heartiness.

Dry, ironic, satirical, sarcastic, erotic humor.

Confidence.

Subtle aggressiveness.

Rich imagination and not afraid to use it.

So many more...

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Krysrenee7 - thank you. I hear it loud & clear.

Krys has a handbook published.

j/k.

^_~

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LOL I should huh? When I create the Aquarian handbook, I'll make sure to give you a shout-out for inspiring such a brilliant idea! lol

Posted by krysrenee7

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Krysrenee7 - thank you. I hear it loud & clear.

Krys has a handbook published.

j/k.

^_~

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LOL I should huh? When I create the Aquarian handbook, I'll make sure to give you a shout-out for inspiring such a brilliant idea! lol

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clone it.

I honestly can't stand to be placed in a box. There's one thing that's a similar characteristic of aquarius from astrologers, is that they hate to be placed as everyone else. This is probably because they prefer to be "individuals"

that's why when i read your stuff, it makes me flinch a little. Because alot of what you say doesn't vibe with me or doesn't pertain to me. But, I'm sure it does for you, and a few people. It just doesnt with me. No offense honestly. Just saying.

my aqua rising likes intelligence and uniqueness; something that makes one stick out from the others. a creative mind that keeps on reinventing the self and gives power to reach new plateaus to. THAT is sexy to my aqua. my scorp likes incredibly sexy looks and the physical of things. my cap likes security and trustworthiness.

good night now.

Think I'm going to repeat a lot of above but I'll do it in my own special way. (These are in no particular order)

1. Conversation - You have to have something to say. You have to have thought about the world and formed an opinion. Doesn't matter if I agree, but original thought is a must.

2. Subtle feminine wilds. Some Virgo and Pisces, have got this down to a fine art. They kind of flirt with their whole body. Quiet, not in your face, subtle, drives me fucking wild. Of course you never let them know they are getting to you.

3. A healthy balance between submissive and feisty. I don't want a door mat and I don't want a nag or a bully. She got to self assertive about the things she wants, but also let me take the lead.

4. I open minded on body types, but she got to look after herself and make an effort.

5. Passion for a particular subject, such an aphrodisiac. E.g. art, save the whales, even football. Just love it when someone talks with passion and feeling on a subject.

Imagine if this went up on any of the other signs forums, the pretentious BS that would occur. Proud to be a Aqua.

spontaneity, sensual convo during sex, making love to the body in it's entirety, as well as, my mind. take me to a sexual euphoria that resonates in the mind then stimulate me from head to toe. music that fits/sets the mood, porn, gentle aggression/being controlled in bed, uninhibited passion...pulling off the clothes as soon as you enter the door or sometimes, only taken off your pants b/c you couldn't wait that long. being teased, making sex lasts for hours.