How tactile are you?

Something that Aquarians and Virgos are supposed to have in common (traditionally) is a dislike of physically touching others or of being physically touched. Do you think that this is true of you as an Aquarian and/or of other Aquarians that you know? Do you positively dislike being touched, you don't care, you positively like it or does it depend very much on who is involved? For me as a Virgo it depends very much on who is involved, but a lot of it is about trust (and we Virgos can be distrustful) and of course on how physically appealing I find the other person! In my case I particularly don't like touching or being touched by other men because to me touching kind of implies sex and I am not gay. In general I don't touch others very easily or casually because although I am actually at heart a very tactile person myself I grew up in a not-very-tactile or positive family environment (here in England) so I guess I find it very hard to be spontaneous about it.

I'm very hands on depending on the people...I'm very hands on with my friends I'll grab their asses, push them over, pull their hair, bite and even punch boobs.....thats how much I love to touch....Ive been doing theatre for 4 years and every time theatre folk meet they hug and kiss, for me its just too much. I come in late on purpose to avoid the masses.

these two are always touching and kissing. lol Awww. 🙂



I'm only tactile to people I love dearly.

^ This.

Depends on the person. I have some close guy friends that I'd hug 😛 Might seem odd to some but perfectly normal for us. If they are a close friend and they have no issues with contact then it's all good.

I don't often initiate the touch unless they do it first but if it's someone I like (more than a friend) then I would obviously be the one to initiate.

Strangers, coworkers and generally other acquaintances I'm not too familiar with I uphold my personal bubble.

This aqua I'm dating is super touchy feely and always try to find ways to come in contact with me and be near me. It's the smallest things. Makes me feel super anxious too with those piercing eyes that just stare thru me.
But yeah this aqua has told me about their "bubble" and how I should see them in certain settings; with me though aqua claims its cool and to kiss them already! Lol

I totally dislike unnecessary touching especially the hugs and kisses among girls..and of course by guy friends as well but thats not much to bother about as guys usually are not as touchy with their friends as girls unless of course they are interested in the girl friend.

not that i don't like it at all..just that i don't like it when i don't want it which is most often the case 😛

Posted by feby16aqua
I must be a weird aqua then lol. I LOVE to touch and be touched, especially by my man. I can't get enough touching, snuggling, holding hands and all of that.

I remember when I first stared dating the aqua...man...he was so touchy-feely it was sensory overload! He'd cuddle and lick my ears from behind while we were waiting for food in a takeaway and hold my hand everywhere. I wasn't used to it tbh; it didn't happen in my previous relationship (in public especially) so I wasn't used to it. I had it good until I told him how it made me feel then he stopped, LOL.

Behind closed doors he was still very affectionate, we were always touching or snuggling in some way, even as we slept. He had sun, moon, venus and mars in aqua.

Its a mix bag for me. If its appropriate and fits the setting and current mood.

Usually when in a mentally stimulating conversation or if i'm stressed i dont need hugs or kisses. I need someone to play devil's advocate with...no hugs and kisses will soothe my nerves. He really irks me when he is so touchy feely in those moments.

However outside of that i'm pretty playful and enjoy being touched and having physical contact with my boyfriend.

Friends: i have no hang ups greeting people with hugs and departing with a hug.

stranger: no hugs, hand shake.