vesper
@vesper
9 Years
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Posted by UndineOh Fortunately! I'm not having any fling with all my less than 200+ friends but I wish I could but I'm better than that. That's what I thought too maybe just maybe his keeping all his exes as FB friends which he made his friend list into PRIVATE and that is why I'm not not so desperate to communicate with him
Since when "adding you on FB" equals "coming back"...? Are you having a fling with all your 200+ FB friends?
Maybe he's keeping his exes as FB friends, as a easy way to count the notches on his bed post! 😄
Posted by bumboklatt
Adding on Facebook is prob just him wanting to keep you as a friend and/or also to make you think/doubt yourself.
Aquas like to play psychologist but we get too lost in trying to be different and fail
If he didnt break it off then he most likely still likes you regardless what he does
Posted by bumboklattI can see you point and that's beautiful. but yes he does make weird things out in this kind of situation. As I mention from the above 'We only had a short casual Fling' with this aqua guy in which I find it odd because he ask for friendship when the sex is already involved and yes I did give him a little chance (let say gives IN) and it feels like to him there's HOPE; that makes him more persistent and doesn't back off since day 1. what is he trying to aim for this?Posted by vesperWe have trouble being in traditional practical relationships. So we try and weird things out to make it interesting.Posted by bumboklatt
Adding on Facebook is prob just him wanting to keep you as a friend and/or also to make you think/doubt yourself.
Aquas like to play psychologist but we get too lost in trying to be different and fail
If he didnt break it off then he most likely still likes you regardless what he does
Actually not in Facebook because Facebook is just another excuses/props. But he did ask me twice to be his friend while meeting up with him. I did not react/say much about because I had to carefully analyse of what he mean by it. I can honestly understand that Aquarius want to get close to someone by being friends with them 1st.
when you mention lost and trying to be different and fail. what do you mean by it?
If the person thinks the behavior is too unorthodox or is too weird, then the Aqua usually backs off.
BUT if the person gives in even a little into our weird behavior then we automatically see that person as our friend
If our efforts fail then we lose out on fun. Then things just get super awkward from there.
Were kinda like a Leo but we seek friendship instead of expecting adorationclick to expand
Posted by bumboklattClap* Clap* Exactly! that has been from the back of my head. lol you aquas are sneaky 😆Posted by vesperIt might be that he actually really likes you and doesent wanna lose you as a partner.Posted by bumboklattI can see you point and that's beautiful. but yes he does make weird things out in this kind of situation. As I mention from the above 'We only had a short casual Fling' with this aqua guy in which I find it odd because he ask for friendship when the sex is already involved and yes I did give him a little chance (let say gives IN) and it feels like to him there's HOPE; that makes him more persistent and doesn't back off since day 1. what is he trying to aim for this?Posted by vesperWe have trouble being in traditional practical relationships. So we try and weird things out to make it interesting.Posted by bumboklatt
Adding on Facebook is prob just him wanting to keep you as a friend and/or also to make you think/doubt yourself.
Aquas like to play psychologist but we get too lost in trying to be different and fail
If he didnt break it off then he most likely still likes you regardless what he does
Actually not in Facebook because Facebook is just another excuses/props. But he did ask me twice to be his friend while meeting up with him. I did not react/say much about because I had to carefully analyse of what he mean by it. I can honestly understand that Aquarius want to get close to someone by being friends with them 1st.
when you mention lost and trying to be different and fail. what do you mean by it?
If the person thinks the behavior is too unorthodox or is too weird, then the Aqua usually backs off.
BUT if the person gives in even a little into our weird behavior then we automatically see that person as our friend
If our efforts fail then we lose out on fun. Then things just get super awkward from there.
Were kinda like a Leo but we seek friendship instead of expecting adoration
so when you aqua male lose out of fun and get super awkward that's it- right? why chase still?
You gotta be straight with an Aqua cause we dont do well with hints. Were kinda like robots at this lol
I like to stay friends cause its chill. Sex is detached with us. So even if theres sex or arguments or whatever we still dont really blame anyone. We look past sex and straight into the person.
So if it gets really awkward we still seek friendship cause then that might make it less awkward
To us friendship solves everything lol
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So if you happened to be an aquarius but start acting this way. what's you reason/whats you point?