why can't I commit!!!!!

Every time I like someone and then they like me back I get scared and feel trapped and want to run. why? I want a relationship but every time it comes along I get so terified and alot of times I end up hurt the other persons feelings. because I lead them on and then leave them completly. And the one I want and don't think I'd ever feel trapped with them. He's taken. why is commiting so hard? I don't want to get hurt and I've built a wall so high that I can't even reach the top anymore.

How old are you ULTA? I was that same way when I was in my 20's. I'm 46 yrs old now. Aquarian, married to a Taurus. Took me a while to realize what I wanted. You're just not really ready to commit yet. That's why. You're having fun, being flirty, enjoying the attention. I remember those days well! What fun you have in store for you. "Just go with the flow, baby!!"

aqua with taurus...
do they make good match?
i'am a cancer goin out with an aqua.we are sooo opposites.can u tell me a few reforms i can make...

sangicrab

ok sangicrab, I was going to ignore this, but I gotta say something. First, I am 46 years old, Aquarian female. I didn't get married until I was in my late 20's, that was my first husband (aries, bad, for me!). 2nd husband (Taurus), I didn't really want to get married, but we did, because "it was the right thing to do". But I love him, we are truly a good match, we make it work well.

Aquarian men. What can I say? I had never found an Aquarian man that I liked when I or he was young. My brother was Aquarian, 5 years older than me. We fought like cats and dogs. We still do, by the way, he's an asshole.

BUT, we want to know what an Aquarian man is like. Well, I have been recently with an Aquarian man. And as they age, they are more gentle and more attune to your needs. That really goes for both Male and Female, I think. I can honestly tell you that, yes, most Aquarians are flirts. Yes, we love attention. Yes, it's true that we act modest when we get it. BUT it's not an act. We really are modest. We want the attention, but we can't really accept it. (I know, makes no sense!) We also want to be sure that everyone else is happy before we are. But that comes more as we mature.

But if this Aquarian man is coming and going it shouldn't matter what sign he is GET RID OF HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He's a LOSER! NO man is worth that crap, no matter what sign he is!

It doesn't matter what sign you are or he is. Do you get along? Do you have the same interests? Do you LOVE HIM WITH ALL OF YOUR BEING—? Then and only then will it work. Another question, before you love anyone else, do you love and accept yourself—

hmmmmm something to think about.... good luck!!! Life sucks sometimes, but sometimes it's for a reason!!

mindy

thanku msmindy...for ur advice.

everytime he said he is worried if his parents will not allow.we are of different castes and that's y he is confused.

anyway i don't think we are getting along much coz he is nt providing the support i long for...

thankyou...keep in touch
sangicrab