Why do you aqua men do this—

Don't worry I'm not here to moan or cry about how you guys are. I'm more than aware of how most of you aqua men operate.

So this is a bit of an update really.

Long story short, so after said aqua randomly turned up at my local bar 2mths ago and I told him, I liked him and how things were, I've had the silent treatment. Then all of a sudden out of the blue a msg asking how I am and what I've been up to like nothing has happened.

Wtf?
I'm not a silly young girl without a clue, so why bother with these tactics? Especially when I've told him be direct with me about what you want.

*throws hands up in the air*

Posted by AquaMermaid
My best guess : Booty call.May be he's afraid you'll deny him and call him out on his shit so he's acting coy.

I thought that too, so played along with the intimate msg's, as it's rude not to really lol .. Then he randomly says " what no emotion in this then?"
:-O
He's never been bothered before. It's starting to feel like a dangerous game and perhaps it's best I shut it down now before it goes too far.

Booty Collins

Yes I agree with everything you've all said.

To be honest I've not been waiting for him to get in touch, I have been dating and have met a really nice guy.

I need to just tell him that I'm too direct for these games and he needs to be clear about what he wants.

If he wants more than what it was before then man up and speak up. We were seeing each other for a year so he's known me long enough and had enough time to figure it out. If not then it's time to move on and stay away from each other.

I've not seen him for a couple of mths so if he's not offering more, then closing that chapter won't be so hard for me to do.