Why won't my aquaman crush me?

I too wish I could move on and forget my aqua man completely!! But he would come back when I ignore him for 1-2 days...

Posted by AquaPiCusp

Long story short, he replied back simply with "no"

Lolz, telling an aqua what to do. The rebellious instincts kicked in.

Of course he obliged after you started spamming though.

Posted by AquaPiCusp
I've currently had a relationship of sorts come to an end with my Aquarius man.

I've been trying desperately to move on on my own, but this is a new experience for me for the most part.

I finally broke and sent me Aquarius a message, asking him to crush me. Destroy any idea that there could be a rekindling of any sort between us and to ultimately block me from all social media, as well as my phone number.

It's a crazy request I know, but I figured if I can't access him in anyway it would be easier to move past This.

And having his words of the rekindling never happening will be a reminder on why I should be moving past this.

Long story short, he replied back simply with "no"

And now of course I can't stop wondering why.

WHY?!

I dont know the backstory, so I go only by your post: it sounds totally manipulating to ask him to block you from social medias..... then, after another manipulative crazy act (constant nagging about blocking) he had to oblige to remove your crazyness from his life

But, seeing other posts I think there is a backstory to this, so maybe there was a reason for your unreasonable behaviour... what is the backstory?

Posted by AquaPiCusp

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by AquaPiCusp
I've currently had a relationship of sorts come to an end with my Aquarius man.

I've been trying desperately to move on on my own, but this is a new experience for me for the most part.

I finally broke and sent me Aquarius a message, asking him to crush me. Destroy any idea that there could be a rekindling of any sort between us and to ultimately block me from all social media, as well as my phone number.

It's a crazy request I know, but I figured if I can't access him in anyway it would be easier to move past This.

And having his words of the rekindling never happening will be a reminder on why I should be moving past this.

Long story short, he replied back simply with "no"

And now of course I can't stop wondering why.

WHY?!

I dont know the backstory, so I go only by your post: it sounds totally manipulating to ask him to block you from social medias..... then, after another manipulative crazy act (constant nagging about blocking) he had to oblige to remove your crazyness from his life

But, seeing other posts I think there is a backstory to this, so maybe there was a reason for your unreasonable behaviour... what is the backstory?

I won't get explain everything in detail as I don't have time.

But to sum it up quickly, we had a short lived relationship. Like not long at all.

However I was struggling a lot with letting him go, which he knew. He knew I cared about him significantly more than I cared about him. And I explained to him why blocking me would help me in moving on. Again, out of sight out of mind.

It's not a difficult request, and if I truely meant no more than the dirt beneath his feet then he shouldn't have had any problem blocking me.

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I see..... but why didnt you block him and delete his number? Why involve him in your process of moving on? that part seems manipulating to me, you know (I know you are hurting, sorry), but its still not clear to me

also, if he deletes your number, how it is going to prevent you from contacting him? Or was he contacting you randomly, that is what you tried to prevent?