wud you ever marry someone out of ....

compassion and not love—

i mean wat wud u do if u have this friend whose a great person and ur great friendz... well this guy never had a normal childhood... he went thru heart-surgeries etc... life hasnt been too good to him.... then one day after all these yearz he tellz ya.. he loves ya and proposes......

wud u marry him out of comppassion — coz hes been thru soooo much?? will u do that to make a person happy... to have him/her live the rest of his/her life in peace—

i wouldn't marry him because he's a guy.....and so am i.....so that just wouldn't work...

in all seriousness.....i agree with what GL just said.....besides, does that person really want your pity? its not fair to either person...

imagine itz a girl gem*2

'..in all seriousness.....i agree with what GL just said.....besides, does that person really want your pity? its not fair to either person.....'

the person doesnt want ur pity ( hey im talkin about a person who exists) u juz know hes been thru all that coz hes been around u ever since u were kidz... so he didnt tell u that...but he juz feelz u understand him and proposes ( hes fine now)

i juz wanna see wat all u people think.....

'...How long is the rest of their life?...'

well maybe as long as yourz...LOL...

but my point is will u marry someone wholely for the purpose to make them happy—... a selfless marriage where u sacrifice ur self juz to see someone happy—?

GL,

i totally understand ur point and u make sense.. i wud personally neva want anyone to marry me out of pity... but people are different.....

'..Thank goodness, too. It'd be boring, otherwise!...'

LOL.. ur sweet 🙂

hmm, I would not marry someone out of pitty, I would not make a friendship out of pity either, and I hope to marry my best friend one day-if I find him😉

I would marry someone in a wheel chair if I were in love with them though, its all about love-pity is not part of love.

"Bottom line is, I wouldn't want someone to share their life with me, just cause they thought they were doing me a favor, and wanted to see me happy."

Yes I'm with GL there. Marrying someone out of pity is gonna achieve no positive results as it would be a phoney union and the truth of the situation would eventually come out "in the wash" and would make both parties more miserable in the longrun. A
Besides there are many other more genuine ways to show your appreciation towards your friends than by doing something very fake like that.

GL: on a complete tangent to the topic I was watching the move HULK last night and yeah I'm in agreeance with you tat Eric Bana is hot!! But he looks so cute and sweet in that movie with his big brown puppy dog eyes and soft deep voice. That's not normally the mushy typa guy that grabs you I'd image. Is there another angle you're seeing the HOTness factor of this guy?!

jeez all my typos.....

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OOOOOHHH elisa, this happened to you— Wow what a tough situation ... Whoa, I am just like you ... at first I wouldn't know what to say. My heart would want to DO it because the man really cares for you (no man just proposes to a woman without having strong feelings for her)

BUT! BIG BUT! HUGE BUT!

My head would definately tell me that it would be the worse mistake of my life to marry someone out of sheer compassion and loyality. There has to be so much MORE involved ... like actual love.

Yes, this is a very difficult situation.

thanx everyone for ur commentz.. i noh itz a tough thing to do... but sometimes i think... anywayz... let me think wat i think....forget it 🙂