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Posted by LittleStar

If you spend quite a bit of time apart it may be better/manageable.


We are 11 days apart and 4 together. How much MORE free time can we have? Lmao

I am guilty of being an ass more than I should had been but it’s due to the fact that we are LTR...and I am not as busy as he is so I am on his ass all the time and I know...spare me the lecture please...I promise I know...

However he says women must be at least half crazy! So he doesn’t seem irritated. Could that be just me? It is he hiding it?
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Attraction but not much common ground. You are naturally irritated by each other.

I disagree. I am the one who is irritated but only by LTR...

Are you guys on the same page in terms of your values and what you want for the future?
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Absolutely. We would be moving together already but his custody court keeps being postponed and if his ex will win visitation rights - he won’t be able to take their son out of the state.

Other than that we want to chill together. Me working and keeping home the way I do and him doing his art of music and writing...

We are totally serene together. It’s almost strange how we both are chill as cucumbers...AND his son...which is at 14 is my blessing that I am not dealing with crazy teen...

The ONLY thing I am bad at is his replies to my texts aren’t immediate BUT I was told and forewarned so I know BUT sometimes I can be an ass...and he will tell me that with 😘 at the end of butt whooping...

So I am surprised that out charts aren’t showing it...🤷‍♀️
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Attraction but not much common ground. You are naturally irritated by each other.

I disagree. I am the one who is irritated but only by LTR...

Are you guys on the same page in terms of your values and what you want for the future?

Absolutely. We would be moving together already but his custody court keeps being postponed and if his ex will win visitation rights - he won’t be able to take their son out of the state.

Other than that we want to chill together. Me working and keeping home the way I do and him doing his art of music and writing...

We are totally serene together. It’s almost strange how we both are chill as cucumbers...AND his son...which is at 14 is my blessing that I am not dealing with crazy teen...

The ONLY thing I am bad at is his replies to my texts aren’t immediate BUT I was told and forewarned so I know BUT sometimes I can be an ass...and he will tell me that with 😘 at the end of butt whooping...

So I am surprised that out charts aren’t showing it...🤷‍♀️

It will be interesting to see once you are no longer LD.

If you don’t have the birth time though this won’t be exactly correct.
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Nothing is ever exactly correct is it?

I was just wondering if there is anything in our charts that is weird or interesting...because of the level of comfort ability...

I am almost sabotaging it with my stupid undermining shit and being a pain in the ass as he calling me a spoiled child...lovingly though...

So without birth time it’s not readable? I know it’s not 100% but still...there MUST be something in this chart that is speaks some shit...no?
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There's so many conjunctions.

Neptune & Neptune

His Chiron & Your Saturn

His Mars & Your Venus

His Jupiter & Your Moon

Uranus + Pluto & Uranus + Pluto

I would do a composite to see the progress and nature of the relationship.

How conjunctions affecting rships?

And thanks btw...
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If that's your chart in the opening post I got to say you have some chart there. With all those conjunctions its no wonder you keep coming back here for answers about every zodiac sign man you dealing with. Jumping from one man to the next. A chart that zig zags all over the place such as yours is not a stable one and it clearly shows in your dxp personality. And those red lines.....good lord. You a fiery one that's for damn sure.

And let me remind you. You don't come off as a Libra rising as indicated in your chart if that's your chart which I believe it is.
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There's so many conjunctions.

Neptune & Neptune

His Chiron & Your Saturn

His Mars & Your Venus

His Jupiter & Your Moon

Uranus + Pluto & Uranus + Pluto

I would do a composite to see the progress and nature of the relationship.

How conjunctions affecting rships?

And thanks btw...

If that's your chart in the opening post I got to say you have some chart there. With all those conjunctions its no wonder you keep coming back here for answers about every zodiac sign man you dealing with. Jumping from one man to the next. A chart that zig zags all over the place such as yours is not a stable one and it clearly shows in your dxp personality. And those red lines.....good lord. You a fiery one that's for damn sure.

And let me remind you. You don't come off as a Libra rising as indicated in your chart if that's your chart which I believe it is.
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It’s IS my chart and his...and I am NOT jumping from one man to another. I am WITH one man T the time and it is almost a year now. So what’s is so wrong here? 🤷‍♀️
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There's so many conjunctions.

Neptune & Neptune

His Chiron & Your Saturn

His Mars & Your Venus

His Jupiter & Your Moon

Uranus + Pluto & Uranus + Pluto

I would do a composite to see the progress and nature of the relationship.

How conjunctions affecting rships?

And thanks btw...

If that's your chart in the opening post I got to say you have some chart there. With all those conjunctions its no wonder you keep coming back here for answers about every zodiac sign man you dealing with. Jumping from one man to the next. A chart that zig zags all over the place such as yours is not a stable one and it clearly shows in your dxp personality. And those red lines.....good lord. You a fiery one that's for damn sure.

And let me remind you. You don't come off as a Libra rising as indicated in your chart if that's your chart which I believe it is.

It’s IS my chart and his...and I am NOT jumping from one man to another. I am WITH one man T the time and it is almost a year now. So what’s is so wrong here? 🤷‍♀️
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Awe! Had me scared for a minute there. I was wondering with a chart like that how anybody managed to live as long as you.
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Posted by but_didyoudie

There's so many conjunctions.

Neptune & Neptune

His Chiron & Your Saturn

His Mars & Your Venus

His Jupiter & Your Moon

Uranus + Pluto & Uranus + Pluto

I would do a composite to see the progress and nature of the relationship.

How conjunctions affecting rships?

And thanks btw...

If that's your chart in the opening post I got to say you have some chart there. With all those conjunctions its no wonder you keep coming back here for answers about every zodiac sign man you dealing with. Jumping from one man to the next. A chart that zig zags all over the place such as yours is not a stable one and it clearly shows in your dxp personality. And those red lines.....good lord. You a fiery one that's for damn sure.

And let me remind you. You don't come off as a Libra rising as indicated in your chart if that's your chart which I believe it is.

It’s IS my chart and his...and I am NOT jumping from one man to another. I am WITH one man T the time and it is almost a year now. So what’s is so wrong here? 🤷‍♀️

Awe! Had me scared for a minute there. I was wondering with a chart like that how anybody managed to live as long as you.
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And after saying THAT - would you please explain or forever hold your peace—

WTF is so wrong with my chart? Or it’s both combined that is throwing you off? WHAT—
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Did you try Grupovenus.com synastry? That would tell you a lot.

Is this site where they charge for reading? Trust me...I’ve paid enough only to find out they hook you on and every day they tell you a new bullshit for which that want more money...no way!
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No, it's free. try it. You can pay for more info but the free stuff is really good.
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Did you try Grupovenus.com synastry? That would tell you a lot.

Is this site where they charge for reading? Trust me...I’ve paid enough only to find out they hook you on and every day they tell you a new bullshit for which that want more money...no way!

No, it's free. try it. You can pay for more info but the free stuff is really good.
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Thanks. I didn’t get there probably...
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@PuzzlePieces - this goes for you, too. What did you find?


I ran it for the Libra & I and the lover’s report was pretty decent and composite & colloquial not so much. Composite said he was too boring for me, and he might not be able to keep up with me & colloquial said more platonic than sexual.. lol.. but I need to go back and read more later.. just my overall impression.

So I ran me & the Caps composite and 😳😳 this aspect, Uranus square mars it exactly explains what happens with us over & over again...

Although her desire for him is almost overwhelming, she has a terrible time getting involved with him. He likes to pull away from her, which provokes her to extreme reactions but these do not impress him at all. His lack of predictability may even make her aggressive. The atmosphere between the two is probably always tense. She finds him impersonal and reserved, but the pressure she constantly exerts on him won't get her anywhere. She should be more relaxed and grant him enough freedom that he can willingly come to her some day.

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Your situation is fairly close to mine @PuzzlePieces. We are just doing WAY too much emotionally.

@Phantom_Dangus - why did I think you were a Scorpio chick? Gem like me? I find you very calming.


This really upset me. I’m not doing anything regarding the Cap except not believing in him because he keeps leaving. Like seriously what about me? Ok whatever I have to move on.. yes too much emotionally. Why am I still hurt?

If the Libra would just activate his fire everything would be perfect 😂😂 okay I need to read the reports on him in detail. Maybe he’s destined to be a friend idk.
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@PuzzlePieces - "This really upset me. I’m not doing anything regarding the Cap except not believing in him because he keeps leaving. Like seriously what about me? Ok whatever I have to move on.. yes too much emotionally. Why am I still hurt? "

This is what I'm talking about. Why are we continuing to LET ourselves get hurt by their actions/in actions? We have no control over them but we sure as hell do over us. I am backing my emotional (moon) twin to the corner where she can sit and eat a carton of ice cream. My other twin is going to figure out some kind of balance and get things on track.


Me too. That’s why I’ve slowed down a lot & just doing things to concentrate on me. Libra is actually a good influence, but have no idea where that’s going.
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Do you need the link? You'll spend the day there.

Summary of me and Aries...

You both are so fucked up that nobody else will be able to stand you 2 so spare world a hurt and keep each other from the streets we are walking...lol
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You can find your birth time from your birth certificates. Most babies seem to be born early morning. Glad ya'll like the site.
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@Phantom_Dangus - "Really? I don't know. I have no Scorpio or 8th house placements. I'm Pisces dominant with a big dose of Taurus, so most people don't get the Gemini unless I tell them. What is your moon? I love that you represent yourself with a mouth. lol!"

So interesting! My Cancer moon makes me love Pisces and Taurus - LOL. But I'm Gemini thru and thru - words are my passion, my playthings. Love to read AND write. I've had a couple of articles published and that was such an accomplishment! That's why this Cancer b/f has been such a learning experience bringing me back to these boards after a very long time. I feel like my words have no power over him. It's just a whole different way to relate and that intrigues me to no end.

I'm definitely a word nerd too. It's not using words that has gotten me in trouble with water sign men, though. It's using aggressive or accusing words. They'll shut down or shut you out. And then you're standing there like "MOTHERFUCKER, I'M PISSED, WHERE ARE YOU?" lol! It's probably worse with a Cancer than the other two, since they have that shell thing. I never dated one.
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You all Gems need Rams!

😂😂😂😂
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Do you need the link? You'll spend the day there.

What’s the difference between lovers compatibility, composite compatibility, and colloquial compatibility.. yes I went there & ran reports 🙃

Oh sweetie I'm too lazy (Libra) to write all of that stuff down. Can you look it up?
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Well I see what they are. It’s more a why question. Why would I choose one of these reports over the other? But no worries, it’s not that important.
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Can someone please read this for me?

Anything you can...thanks

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How did you post this pic up here. I don’t know how to do it I can’t figure it out.
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Imgur.com upload

Then copy the link. Post it here.

Or sometimes I can copy image from website and post it here. Copy/paste

Or paste link or image into Notes in my phone. Save. Open. Copy/Paste here...
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Can someone please read this for me?

Anything you can...thanks

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So I took a look and see that his Mars is next to your Venus which is great for passion and chemistry and sexy fun times...

Your Saturn is close to his Sun so you need to be careful of not dampening his mood or giving him the feeling he feels his light is being put out by you. Also your Chiron is near his Sun which means you will both be faced with dealing with emotional wounds in each other.
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Can someone please read this for me?

Anything you can...thanks

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So I took a look and see that his Mars is next to your Venus which is great for passion and chemistry and sexy fun times...

Your Saturn is close to his Sun so you need to be careful of not dampening his mood or giving him the feeling he feels his light is being put out by you. Also your Chiron is near his Sun which means you will both be faced with dealing with emotional wounds in each other.
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That’s CRAZY!!! I AM dampening his mood excessively. And he does tell me that he is feeling safer where he is at...which is an hour drive from me. 😂

I am working on this. It doesn’t go so well but I am trying...🤦‍♀️

Emotional wounds from the past or each other?

Thanks. Now I need to tell him our sexual chemistry is great. It may not going to go well...I’ll tell him you said it ok? 😂😂😂😂😂
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Can someone please read this for me?

Anything you can...thanks

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So I took a look and see that his Mars is next to your Venus which is great for passion and chemistry and sexy fun times...

Your Saturn is close to his Sun so you need to be careful of not dampening his mood or giving him the feeling he feels his light is being put out by you. Also your Chiron is near his Sun which means you will both be faced with dealing with emotional wounds in each other.

That’s CRAZY!!! I AM dampening his mood excessively. And he does tell me that he is feeling safer where he is at...which is an hour drive from me. 😂

I am working on this. It doesn’t go so well but I am trying...🤦‍♀️

Emotional wounds from the past or each other?

Thanks. Now I need to tell him our sexual chemistry is great. It may not going to go well...I’ll tell him you said it ok? 😂😂😂😂😂
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Wounds from the past that you may trigger in each other
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Can someone please read this for me?

Anything you can...thanks

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So I took a look and see that his Mars is next to your Venus which is great for passion and chemistry and sexy fun times...

Your Saturn is close to his Sun so you need to be careful of not dampening his mood or giving him the feeling he feels his light is being put out by you. Also your Chiron is near his Sun which means you will both be faced with dealing with emotional wounds in each other.

That’s CRAZY!!! I AM dampening his mood excessively. And he does tell me that he is feeling safer where he is at...which is an hour drive from me. 😂

I am working on this. It doesn’t go so well but I am trying...🤦‍♀️

Emotional wounds from the past or each other?

Thanks. Now I need to tell him our sexual chemistry is great. It may not going to go well...I’ll tell him you said it ok? 😂😂😂😂😂

Wounds from the past that you may trigger in each other
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I don’t think so.

He FUNALLY got full PERMANENT custody and seems happiest ever. We’ve been together trough all this and he thanking me for being there.

I don’t think we can trigger anything from the past in each other. Hope not.