Aries and mixed signals

Okay, so I'm a Cancer man June 21 and interested in a Aries woman April 1. this girl confuses me too much. Her words give the picture that this will never work, whereas her actions speak the total opposite. Verbally she accepts she likes me, physically we get down and dirty. When it comes back to texting, we get back to the conversation where she is adamant she is not the one for me, but when am there in person, we get to alot of kissing and touching. I don't know whether to remain patient or no because sometimes she can say brutally harsh words.

There are days I conclude maybe she is still scared of change, she did admit though at some time, then there are times I think to walk away, but her ambiance is too strong to walk away from.