18scorpio
@18scorpio
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Posted by 18scorpioHe likes you. Aries come on strong when they like you.
If an Aries male teases you, shares his misery with you, likes spending time with you, is an ass to everyone in general but never an ass to you in more than a playful sense, tries to share his interests with you, heeds your advice as being important to him, smiles a lot when he's around you, playfully insults you and gives you a nickname, gets worried when you're upset, asks you what you first notice in men and when you give him your answer he narrows it down to himself, would it be correct to assume that the said Aries man has developed a little crush?
...he just seemed to randomly appear whenever I was hanging around outside so then we ended up talking quite a bit and then that grew to talking everyday. So, what do you think?
Posted by Ram416Posted by 18scorpioHe likes you. Aries come on strong when they like you.
If an Aries male teases you, shares his misery with you, likes spending time with you, is an ass to everyone in general but never an ass to you in more than a playful sense, tries to share his interests with you, heeds your advice as being important to him, smiles a lot when he's around you, playfully insults you and gives you a nickname, gets worried when you're upset, asks you what you first notice in men and when you give him your answer he narrows it down to himself, would it be correct to assume that the said Aries man has developed a little crush?
...he just seemed to randomly appear whenever I was hanging around outside so then we ended up talking quite a bit and then that grew to talking everyday. So, what do you think?
What's your next move?
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Posted by RiverLeeHahaha! Thanks
Profound theory


Posted by AriesJoThis is actually pretty great advice. I'm going to go ahead and listen to everything you just said. And yes, I do feel the need to investigate continuously, but I try my best to keep it in control, it's tough sometimes though. But yeah,I never force him and I appreciate his honesty. I will not waste any more of my time thinking about her and appreciate the friendship I have with the Aries. Thanks 🙂
Er.. it doesn’t sound like you have much to worry about. If he is hanging out with someone else and then calls you afterwards, it usually means he found her boring and would have preferred to be with you. And you sound honest and open with each other so that’s a good sign too. I would concentrate more on making the most of your time with him, rather than wasting time thinking about her.
I do not know much about Scorpios, but they like to investigate (continously), from what you’ve said, he’s being extremely open and honest, and you are naturally curious because you are a Scorpio. You will need to keep it under control, because you do not want to show too much of a jealous side (a little bit can be ok, just not too much). And do not try to force him to share anything he does not want to. You will feel the need to investigate and question other women, but he is being honest, so you do not need to.
Posted by RiverLeelol, I can actually imagine the Aries saying this if the situation ever arises.
"Aries took it to heart and said that if I don't come hang out with him then he'll end up spending most of his time with her since she will definitely keep pursuing him for his attention."
UGH My Aries mercury would have said...........
Posted by ImTheRamLOL, it's alright!
Aries Man here...
I really dont want to disapoint you...but it sounds like freind zone to me...lol
Maybe a good flirt and fun...but not love...thats for sure 😉
Posted by ImTheRamHaha! So true about friends turning into lovers. I see him as a really good person too and enjoy spending time with him, like I was freaking out before a test and wouldn't talk to anyone except him and it actually made me feel better. But you know what, he just told me that he wants things to get sorted between the sophomore and I because it's awkward for him. I wonder what that's about :/Posted by 18scorpioBut let me tell you this...Posted by ImTheRamLOL, it's alright!
Aries Man here...
I really dont want to disapoint you...but it sounds like freind zone to me...lol
Maybe a good flirt and fun...but not love...thats for sure 😉
I don't have any expectations of it to be love either. I know it's not 😉 I just don't want the friendship to get ruined because of complex emotional dynamics
Its allways better to have a good freind...turn into lover...
Than a lover...turn into a bad freind....
And i can tell you, that he most likely sees you as a good person...i think he really likes you 😉
And who knows right ? 🙂 Have fun for now 😉click to expand

Posted by ImTheRamHaha! yes of course, I am definitely not his once in a lifetime love person. Thanks for your blessings though 😉Posted by 18scorpiohumm dunno about that sophomore also...i guess every person is diferent...Posted by ImTheRamHaha! So true about friends turning into lovers. I see him as a really good person too and enjoy spending time with him, like I was freaking out before a test and wouldn't talk to anyone except him and it actually made me feel better. But you know what, he just told me that he wants things to get sorted between the sophomore and I because it's awkward for him. I wonder what that's about :/Posted by 18scorpioBut let me tell you this...Posted by ImTheRamLOL, it's alright!
Aries Man here...
I really dont want to disapoint you...but it sounds like freind zone to me...lol
Maybe a good flirt and fun...but not love...thats for sure 😉
I don't have any expectations of it to be love either. I know it's not 😉 I just don't want the friendship to get ruined because of complex emotional dynamics
Its allways better to have a good freind...turn into lover...
Than a lover...turn into a bad freind....
And i can tell you, that he most likely sees you as a good person...i think he really likes you 😉
And who knows right ? 🙂 Have fun for now 😉
But still...i just think that he doesnt Love you...like...full Aries Love (which only happens like once or twice in a lifetime lol) but i do think that he is into you 😉
See were this goes...i started off with my gf...just being freinds 😉click to expand
Posted by Libra82Well he already knew about his friends teasing me. So this is what I said: (paraphrased)
What exactly did you tell him? How did you word the incident with his friends?

Posted by DMV:/ really? Like do you mean that I should ask him to spend time with me and then get upset if he doesn't? I'm quite mad at him for the way he acted you know, I haven't done anything wrong. :/
He wants you 2 to compete for him.
Posted by Libra82Hmm sounds possible. But does it matter that once him and I talked about this stuff, like, he wanted to know why the sophomore still had expectations from him and I told him it's because he shows interest. And then I explained to him that it's his nature and to someone not mature enough to know the difference between friendly interest and romantic interest, it would seem like he's flirting. And then I said that if I didn't know the difference, I would assume he liked me but I know he doesn't.Posted by 18scorpioHm, I'm thinking either he thought his friend and you were flirting? Or maybe he thought you knew he liked you hence why his friends were teasing you and liked him back but then you seemed oblivious about it and it hurt his feelings because he then thought you didn't care about him?Posted by Libra82Well he already knew about his friends teasing me. So this is what I said: (paraphrased)
What exactly did you tell him? How did you word the incident with his friends?
You know, when we were chilling yesterday your friend XYZ, and the rest were staring at me. I thought they wanted to talk to me so I kind of signalled asking what's up? But they didn't respond. And at night I asked one of them why they were looking at me and he said "I'm sorry I can't tell you about it". Isn't that weird?
That's all.
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Posted by Libra82Ah, wait. I think I didn't word that properly.Posted by 18scorpioSo you told him that you knew he didn't like you? And you didn't give him any attention? Why not if you like him?Posted by Libra82Hmm sounds possible. But does it matter that once him and I talked about this stuff, like, he wanted to know why the sophomore still had expectations from him and I told him it's because he shows interest. And then I explained to him that it's his nature and to someone not mature enough to know the difference between friendly interest and romantic interest, it would seem like he's flirting. And then I said that if I didn't know the difference, I would assume he liked me but I know he doesn't.Posted by 18scorpioHm, I'm thinking either he thought his friend and you were flirting? Or maybe he thought you knew he liked you hence why his friends were teasing you and liked him back but then you seemed oblivious about it and it hurt his feelings because he then thought you didn't care about him?Posted by Libra82Well he already knew about his friends teasing me. So this is what I said: (paraphrased)
What exactly did you tell him? How did you word the incident with his friends?
You know, when we were chilling yesterday your friend XYZ, and the rest were staring at me. I thought they wanted to talk to me so I kind of signalled asking what's up? But they didn't respond. And at night I asked one of them why they were looking at me and he said "I'm sorry I can't tell you about it". Isn't that weird?
That's all.
what would you suggest I do? I mean, I've been not giving him any attention at all.
Just be your usual self. Don't make a big deal out of it. Aries men usually don't stay angry for long If they like you. 😛
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Posted by Libra82😛 honestly, idk. Sometimes I think yes, he does and sometimes I think that I am reading too much into the situation. I never know unless I am told bluntly to my face.
Yes I understood what you meant but is that what you really think? That he doesn't have a thing for you? Or do you actually believe the opposite of what you told him? 😉
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm sorry, I don't get you. Would you mind explaining a bit more? Thanks =)Posted by 18scorpioAnd here we go with the whole hit one then cold another type of feeling here you'll got going on. It's already started. If you asked what you are? Or what is status is as far as what he's wants in his life right now and it's different then you have to evaluate things ? Then trust if something is wrong listen to your gut too and askPosted by DMV:/ really? Like do you mean that I should ask him to spend time with me and then get upset if he doesn't? I'm quite mad at him for the way he acted you know, I haven't done anything wrong. :/
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Posted by SensitiveBluesYup, that's me =) thanks =)
"She feels bad when he doesn't give her time but I feel bad that HE'S feeling bad. "
this is sweet
Posted by Libra82Ah we meet again. Hello 🙂Posted by 18scorpioI have yet to meet an aries man that hold grudges for a long time. If they don't care about you they will just move on and not look back.
UPDATE :
So, I ignored the Aries for like 2 days. Talked to him yesterday, he said "I can play your game better than you", (yikes) and after a heated discussion over text, I asked if he wants to move on from this baseless "argument" or not. He said he does.
So, I think it's behind us now but things aren't 100% the way they used to be (understandably so). I think I need to give it some time, right?
I guess I'm asking if Aries ever goes back to being the same way they were with someone close after an argument/if their ego is bruised?
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Posted by tizianiYou are correct. But if things are vastly different from what they were before, I'll sorely miss my old Aries friend. But I guess we have both learned some valuable lessons here.
You can never go back. Which is good. You learnt a lot more about how one another handles disagreements, different perspectives. That's a good thing.

Posted by P-AngelHi, I am sorry but I would have to disagree with you. I know Scorpio females can get obsessed but I don't think I am a manipulative person just because I am a Scorpio. I think it's unfair to say that.
sounds to me like you're playing attention games with him .... it's typical for a Scorpio female to delude herself into believing her fanatical imaginings are reality and then act on them by attempting to make her target jealous of her, to make him believe she is a sought after commodity.
the only reason you would tell him about his friends looking at you like that is for purposes of playing him for attention.
I cannot comment on his behavior because:
1. your description of his character and intent is based off of your jadedness
2. he is not here to speak for himself.
YOU are here .... and your actions are:
1. deluded
2. manipulative
Posted by Libra82I will definitely not make it into a bigger deal than it is already. Thanks for your input 🙂Posted by 18scorpioI think you're making it to something bigger than it is. He got mad but he will get over it. 😛 I don't think he will think it's a big deal unless you make it into one.Posted by tizianiYou are correct. But if things are vastly different from what they were before, I'll sorely miss my old Aries friend. But I guess we have both learned some valuable lessons here.
You can never go back. Which is good. You learnt a lot more about how one another handles disagreements, different perspectives. That's a good thing.
Aries men are hot tempered but it never last long unless you keep revisiting the issue.
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Posted by Redoctober2000This is not always the case... he will quickly evaluate your vibration if he is mature and move on... if you are unhealthy... If he is primal he will want sex... and it will become very physical... if he did not care enough to take his time like he seems like he has then I would say he must be primal but he has...
Aries likes the thrill of the chase.. Once he has caught his food. He will play with it for a bit, take a nibble then move on to the next victim and the thrill of the chase will start again...

Posted by DMVNo. she's telling him she doesn't want him by encouraging him to hangout with the other chick. He's taking it as she's blowing him off so he's doing what she's asking of him.
He wants you 2 to compete for him.

Posted by 18scorpioYou've been manipulating things from the start. What woman actually tells a man to go hangout with other females other than to "test" him? NONE. He's not playing your game. Good for him! Sounds like he showed genuine interest in you and you wouldn't meet him in the middle.Posted by P-AngelHi, I am sorry but I would have to disagree with you. I know Scorpio females can get obsessed but I don't think I am a manipulative person just because I am a Scorpio. I think it's unfair to say that.
sounds to me like you're playing attention games with him .... it's typical for a Scorpio female to delude herself into believing her fanatical imaginings are reality and then act on them by attempting to make her target jealous of her, to make him believe she is a sought after commodity.
the only reason you would tell him about his friends looking at you like that is for purposes of playing him for attention.
I cannot comment on his behavior because:
1. your description of his character and intent is based off of your jadedness
2. he is not here to speak for himself.
YOU are here .... and your actions are:
1. deluded
2. manipulative
The only reason I would tell him about his friends is not to get his attention but because we have a honest and open relationship. In fact, like I mentioned, he already knew his friends do that.
But, you are entitled to have a different opinion and judgement like the rest of us. Cheers!
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Posted by 18scorpio
Hi!
I'm a 21 y/o Scorp female and I've got a theory. I want to run it by you lovely people to see if I'm correct.
If an Aries male teases you, shares his misery with you, likes spending time with you, is an ass to everyone in general but never an ass to you in more than a playful sense, tries to share his interests with you, heeds your advice as being important to him, smiles a lot when he's around you, playfully insults you and gives you a nickname, gets worried when you're upset, asks you what you first notice in men and when you give him your answer he narrows it down to himself, would it be correct to assume that the said Aries man has developed a little crush?
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I'm a 21 y/o Scorp female and I've got a theory. I want to run it by you lovely people to see if I'm correct.
If an Aries male teases you, shares his misery with you, likes spending time with you, is an ass to everyone in general but never an ass to you in more than a playful sense, tries to share his interests with you, heeds your advice as being important to him, smiles a lot when he's around you, playfully insults you and gives you a nickname, gets worried when you're upset, asks you what you first notice in men and when you give him your answer he narrows it down to himself, would it be correct to assume that the said Aries man has developed a little crush?
Additional details, I'm a 21 y/o girl and he is 19. He is a year junior to me at uni and we became friends in February this year. We used to talk (but only in moderate amounts) all through Feb-June. But after returning to uni for the new term in August, we've been hanging out a lot. Not sure how that came around- he just seemed to randomly appear whenever I was hanging around outside so then we ended up talking quite a bit and then that grew to talking everyday. So, what do you think?
Thanks for reading!