@fieryearth
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Annoying Ex
How to Handle an Annoying Ex Who Keeps Contacting You
If your ex is constantly calling and wanting to meet, set clear boundaries and communicate that you need space. Consider blocking or limiting contact if necessary to protect your peace. Moving forward, focus on your own well-being and avoid engaging in behaviors that encourage unwanted contact.
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um why did you do that? he is an ex for a reason right?
we aries usually dont go back to our ex unless we really want something out of it, so now you put an idea in his head and you will have to be blunt and probably hurt his feelings in order for him to get the message
dear diary
If you don't want him then tell him "I don't want you anymore. No more contact" and see how quickly your Aries walks away. Aries hate being turned down and expecially when they had thier hopes up. If an Aries still sticks around for round #2 verbal lashing...then you've just met your husband. Aries are persistant and when they find their fawn/man they don't let go unless you shatter each last piece of their heart.
so so true,my ex of 5 years ( a saggit) has rejected my love after 4 years and she came back and beged me to take her back which i did cauze i did love her and a year later same thing all over .........i knew that if i was ever to get married she was going to be the one,
but after the second time she can forget about any chances ....EVER!
"FieryEarth:
If you don't want him then tell him "I don't want you anymore. No more contact" and see how quickly your Aries walks away."
Yeah I know DD, it's just kind of hard because I do not want to hurt his feelings...
"um why did you do that? he is an ex for a reason right? "
Well I thought we were friends now, so I didn't mind. But then I realized he still has a thing for me.
I did not lead him on. We agreed we would be friends, but now he all of a sudden develops feelings for me again.
LOL!..Ok, sounds loopy!
Didn't know you had a son Archer!
Awww how cute!....I bet your a great mum!...
" think the fact of the matter is, unless the aries has dumped you - he doesnt consider himself an ex.....even if you aren't together as a couple, he will still have some kind of hold over you to be weilded when he thinks he is close to defeat."
I totally agree.
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Went on a date with my ex (aries). Now he constantly calls me, and wants to meet up with me all the time. It's getting realy annoying...