Are you kidding me? One confused Virgo lady.

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MsVirgoSunshine
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I dated an Aries man for a short period of time. I met him through a dating site. Everything was fine. He took me home to see his parents and everything. He claims to be divorced and separated from his ex wife for 2 years now. I thought we were having fun. He eventually started telling me that he wanted to be with me. He started becoming distant. He told me that his friend got shot and then two days after, he said his friend died. I felt sorry for him. He sent me numerous texts about his friends and how they were downing him, etc. He then stopped. He sent me a text message telling me that he was sorry for being distant lately and he was thinking about me. His last text that he sent me was telling me that he was going to California for a funeral. I told him that I would be thinking about him, etc. It has not been two weeks with no call or text from him. But... there is a catch. He has an internet account he doesn't know that I know about. Its called twitter. I probably should conceal my identity because he doesn't know that I know he has one, but how is he going to know I am on here anyway. I checked the dating site to see if he was there and he hasn't been there in over a month. He recently started using myspace again. He status his myspace as "losing weight". I didn't say anything to him because if he left, he should have contacted me when he got back. I went on myspace two days after and he was telling everyone how crushed he was. By what? I don't know... Everyday, he is on twitter sometimes all day. He has not text me or called me. What is the problem? I have been holding myself back from saying something to this guy. He has the nerve to be in plain site and not acknowledge me. I like him; however, I am forming a slow dislike despite wanting him. Is there a way to get things back on track? Should I continue to not say anything? I'm confused.
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i love ewe
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i'd be mad. even if you didn't know about his myspace or twitter that still doesn't take away from the fact that he hasn't bothered to contact you in 2 weeks. i know how hard it is to not say something when you are really angry with someone, especially somebody you have feelings for and you don't understand what's going on. in either case be prepared for his excuses trying to get back on your good side. i really do feel that 2 weeks without communication is the behavior of a man that is not considerate of your feelings, even if he is going through some some stuff. i will admit that i'm usually on my time and i forget to tell people when or where i'm going because i hate talking on the phone and having to "check in" but i text or find other methods
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xtina
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Obviously, you know what's going on. He hasn't contacted you, and in the technology based world we live in today there is never a good excuse for no contact... He should at the very least text.

See this situation is difficult, but you deserve to know and not be left hanging... Ignoring only works before you start dating. I would say give him a little more time before you talk to him.

How long has it been exactly since he has called?
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MsVirgoSunshine
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Posted by xtina
Obviously, you know what's going on. He hasn't contacted you, and in the technology based world we live in today there is never a good excuse for no contact... He should at the very least text.

See this situation is difficult, but you deserve to know and not be left hanging... Ignoring only works before you start dating. I would say give him a little more time before you talk to him.

How long has it been exactly since he has called?



We stopped talking on the phone about 4 days before he stopped texting.
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MsVirgoSunshine
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Posted by i love ewe
i'd be mad. even if you didn't know about his myspace or twitter that still doesn't take away from the fact that he hasn't bothered to contact you in 2 weeks. i know how hard it is to not say something when you are really angry with someone, especially somebody you have feelings for and you don't understand what's going on. in either case be prepared for his excuses trying to get back on your good side. i really do feel that 2 weeks without communication is the behavior of a man that is not considerate of your feelings, even if he is going through some some stuff. i will admit that i'm usually on my time and i forget to tell people when or where i'm going because i hate talking on the phone and having to "check in" but i text or find other methods



The stuff he is saying on twitter are not true as well. If I wasn't afraid to look stupid, I would sign up for twitter and bust up in there to say something lol. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. If I think to hard, its like I want to confront him and slam the door in his face.
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i love ewe
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you probably should slam the door in his face because he doesn't deserve any explanations at this point. he's making himself look like a fool. i know it probably hurts now but better to find out sooner rather than later or even worse, let him make a fool of you too. sorry this guy turned out to suck 😢 let us know when he finally tries to get ahold of you again (he's an aries, he totally will lol). you still have your dignity in tact (he doesn't know that you know about his twitter) cut my losses and delete his number and not answer anymore more of his texts or calls