Aries and Gemini.

Just want some feedback: My best friend, ex-wife, and 3 other relationships. Have all been with Aries peeps. When I meet Aries men, we hit it off right away, and become buds. When I see Aries women, we both have a "Rip your clothes off moment". But, as I've grown older, I run the other way! Can someone bring clarity to this for me? Thank you!

Ok I have a few examples of my Aries experience with Geminis
I'm in a newish relationship with a Gemini and I??ve met a bunch of new people lately and the ones I really hit it off with all turned out to be Geminis. I think these two signs feel comfortable together upon first meeting because they??re both energetic, playful and exciting. My gripe about my Gemini is that he makes light of situations I consider a big deal. Another is that he and I make plans and he always goes to the place before me and then wants me to just meet him there. This is the only thing we fight about because I don't ever keep him waiting but he doesn't have the courtesy to be a gentleman and show up together. I don't demand this every time but this gets ridiculous. I think these are air sign traits so fire has to suck it up or move up. I'm sure you probably find Aries to be overly demanding perhaps? What's your experience with Aries that makes you want to run all of a sudden?

my man is gemini...love him to death

@ i love ewe

lool ... i (gemini) used to do that to an aries.. if i'd get to a cafe before him , i'd go in , order ..and wait.. and then he would come in and just shake his head and say something on the lines of 'i know u're independet , but let me be the guy '
=) ...ah ..good old times...

the majority of ppl who I've had a serious relationship with have been gemini's i dont know what it is about them but they're so dam attractive, and from what ive heard from them the feeling is mutual.

Posted by upss
@ i love ewe

lool ... i (gemini) used to do that to an aries.. if i'd get to a cafe before him , i'd go in , order ..and wait.. and then he would come in and just shake his head and say something on the lines of 'i know u're independet , but let me be the guy '
=) ...ah ..good old times...

the only difference is that you already planned to meet your dude somewhere. when me and Gemini make plans we're going to a party and i'm supposed to go pick him so we can go together up or we're going to a bar/restaurant to meet up with other people. it's not an insecurity issue about having to show up alone, it's about him needing to be where the crowd is instead of being a respectful gentleman. in my head it plays out like, you're proud to be with me so i get to call you when i get off the freeway to meet you in a parking lot at TGIFridays so we can walk in the front door together and i get to appear needy?? hell to the effing no!

haha sorry for venting upss but this is a major sore spot in my relationship. i'm all about the independence but some airy gemini behaviors anger me 😛

that just sounds like he doesn't want it to seem exclusive

Posted by --g--
that just sounds like he doesn't want it to seem exclusive

no it means he's immature and he's never had a real girlfriend before so i have no problem telling him what's not ok

Its a commonly seen pattern between 1-3/F-M relationship.

@ i love ewe

=) wasn't trying to coment on the lines of independent-insecure topic.. think gems and aries are pretty eaqual on when it comes to that ..

just wrote what came to mind after reading your post ! =)

all the best

Posted by i love ewe
Ok I have a few examples of my Aries experience with Geminis
I'm in a newish relationship with a Gemini and I??ve met a bunch of new people lately and the ones I really hit it off with all turned out to be Geminis. I think these two signs feel comfortable together upon first meeting because they??re both energetic, playful and exciting. My gripe about my Gemini is that he makes light of situations I consider a big deal. Another is that he and I make plans and he always goes to the place before me and then wants me to just meet him there. This is the only thing we fight about because I don't ever keep him waiting but he doesn't have the courtesy to be a gentleman and show up together. I don't demand this every time but this gets ridiculous. I think these are air sign traits so fire has to suck it up or move up. I'm sure you probably find Aries to be overly demanding perhaps? What's your experience with Aries that makes you want to run all of a sudden?

They tend to be very competitive. Thus, we Gems bring that fire out in Aries women. Air plus Fire equals Nuclear Holocost! It's beautiful in the sack though. 😉

I don't know in my experience I feel like I repel any and all air signs (except Libras of course). They hardly every seem to be attracted to me so I usually let them be. Though Zen has told me that air men usually keep their cool but I always feel I'm so good at reading men signals. I dunno. Air signs have always been a big puzzle to me and I've always accounted that to my Virgo rising. I attract many earth signs, but rarely air... I have many as friends, but have never dated one.

Though, reflecting back now (as I type) I'd have to say maybe I'm just oblivious to their signals, because I remember this one Gem guy liking me, but didn't know that until one friend told me, which was too late because by than I was already with my Sag.

Sorry I can't shed more light on this pairing since I am young and fairly new too when it comes to handling Air signs romantically. I've had more experiences with every other sign but air. Air signs tend to just remain friends with me 🙂.

My Baby is an Aries & The thrill is still hotter than ever!
It seems like the passion & happiness keeps growing & rises!!!
I am so crazy in love with him,lol....

It is definitely that they can be too demanding at times.

At the same time though, I believe Geminis need someone persistent enough and confident enough in their own appeal for them to stick around long enough for a relationship to deepen. If they're too insecure, they'll never survive past the beginning of a relationship when they're not always on our minds. I think this is why Geminis work so well with Aries. An Aries knows that he/she is a dynamic powerhouse of personality normally. There would be no self doubt and the resulting recriminations to drive a Gemini away.

Basically, it's the self confidence and straight forwardness that draws Geminis and gets them to return regularly. If that gets taken too far and the Aries starts to feel entitled to the same amount of attention all the time, that's where the synergy breaks down.

Yes,Aries has what it takes to keep the passion fires burning
& the mental stimulation is out of this world!!!
I love it all.Aries brings everything to the table,the mystery,
yet the sweet knowing,the curiosity,yet the answers.The sexuality,
yet the brain power!!! It's highly physical & highly mental with
all the wonder,energy & tenderness & a certain amount of aggression
thrown in,but in a very good way!

It's like everything I ever wanted in a man & more!
He's kinda macho & very,very,very manly,yet fair
& caring.He will cuddle with me & watch DVD's
& we can watch comedy after comedy & drama & mystery
and just always enjoy each other no matter what we
do,& the Sex is incredible!!! Wow! He still lights
my fire but it never goes out,lol...
Maybe that doesn't make sense,but he keeps me hot
for him & doesn't even have to try!!!
Just his being around me gets me excited everytime.
I never knew LOve could be like this after the
newness wears off,yet it's just amazing!

Posted by Geminithefox
It's like everything I ever wanted in a man & more!
He's kinda macho & very,very,very manly,yet fair
& caring.He will cuddle with me & watch DVD's
& we can watch comedy after comedy & drama & mystery
and just always enjoy each other no matter what we
do,& the Sex is incredible!!! Wow! He still lights
my fire but it never goes out,lol...
Maybe that doesn't make sense,but he keeps me hot
for him & doesn't even have to try!!!
Just his being around me gets me excited everytime.
I never knew LOve could be like this after the
newness wears off,yet it's just amazing!

this is a very refreshing post!

astrological aftermath,yes,you are truly right about that,it is
a refreshing relationship & just when I think I've learned all I
can,I find there is even more to discover!!!
I don't mean to make things sound too perfect,all couples have
issues,we have them like with our families,ya' some of them still
can't handle us,but oh' well,they can cry a river somewhere else,
lol... But Yes,our relationship is very refreshing and somehow
manages to stay new now matter how long we've been together!!!
I give aries & gemini A+ because once they connect,it's the
most exciting thing in this world.Getting to know one another
is the only real barrier usually at the beginning,but once the
light switch turns on,IT'S ON! Yea Baby!!!!