Aries and Scorpio-Enemies For life?

So I dated this guy for two years and he was a scorpio. You know the type, born real close to halloween. Really sexy but also a little scary and edgy. Well i was completly in love and really faithful. It always seemed that i was never good enough for him, i could not keep his interest and that really hurt my ego being a typical aries. Now we are broken up and hes with another scorpio. basically really bad things happened that led our parents, friends and family all hate each other. We are now enemies and every time i see him around town i really just want to hurt him really bad. But before all of this drama happened i felt so connected with him. I felt that he understood me beyond anyone ive ever met. On some deep spiritual level. Also the sex was out of this world. I just wish it could have lasted without the hate and the drama happening, its inevitable though, aries always wants to control the uncontrollable scorpian.

the men,they scare me,lol.... in a bad way....

Posted by sweetsherrie
lol forget him throw him away from your life ! just date a libra youll forget the scorpio as if he was never there !

Well,it's sad that he's choosing hatred over letting go & learning
something good from the experience. haters hate & usually they
haven't let go when they hate like that.They are just blaming things
on the other person so they don't have to deal with it.

I agree with sweetsherrie,let him go. It seems like he doesn't want you
to stop being hurt by him so he keeps going with the hate.Once you
don't give a **** anymore,he will feel dead in your life & hate it cause
he will no longer have the power to hurt you again!!! Let the loser cry
himself a river & forget him. It may be hard at first until you start to
smile again out of no where.... Watch a great comedy like,what happens
in Vegas,or my friends girl,lol... That'll help! Let your playful happy self
come out again & use your aries humor.....

After All,Tomorrow is a New Day!!!

What the hell —??


He isn't doing anything ... I'm unclear what you keep referring to about him hating and holding on to this hate and not moving on.



Because she said herself .... that she is the one who hates him, and cannot move on ..... he's got another woman already, so he's moved on.




wtf?


"he's choosing hatred over letting go"

"he doesn't want you
to stop being hurt by him so he keeps going with the hate"



Did you even read what she wrote, GeminiFox?




aresmars ... this just has to do with jealousy because you feel like you were dispensible .. perfectly normal to feel that way. If he wasn't with another woman and you were actually able to keep him interested then all this alledged hate you have for him would disappear because it's not hate at all, you just think you hate him ...... you actually still want him to want you, and since he's with another woman, you are feeling unimportant to him and an Aries just can't have that.

They must have the love given to them in the form of attention, even when it's over ..... nature of the beast.


If you think you have a control issue then this is the problem and not that he's Scorpio ..... because if this is the case, then all men will eventually begin to rebel against you trying to control them.

So, I would suggest you working on this problem you have ... perhaps if you come to terms with it, then you will realize that you don't have to be jealous of not getting all the attention.

Posted by P-Angel
What the hell —??


He isn't doing anything ... I'm unclear what you keep referring to about him hating and holding on to this hate and not moving on.



Because she said herself .... that she is the one who hates him, and cannot move on ..... he's got another woman already, so he's moved on.




wtf?


"he's choosing hatred over letting go"

"he doesn't want you
to stop being hurt by him so he keeps going with the hate"



Did you even read what she wrote, GeminiFox?




aresmars ... this just has to do with jealousy because you feel like you were dispensible .. perfectly normal to feel that way. If he wasn't with another woman and you were actually able to keep him interested then all this alledged hate you have for him would disappear because it's not hate at all, you just think you hate him ...... you actually still want him to want you, and since he's with another woman, you are feeling unimportant to him and an Aries just can't have that.

They must have the love given to them in the form of attention, even when it's over ..... nature of the beast.


If you think you have a control issue then this is the problem and not that he's Scorpio ..... because if this is the case, then all men will eventually begin to rebel against you trying to control them.

So, I would suggest you working on this problem you have ... perhaps if you come to terms with it, then you will realize that you don't have to be jealous of not getting all the attention.

Yes i am jealous. Ill give you the whole story. He was a drug user and had serious mental problems. I stayed by him through all of it, when every body in my life told me to leave. I fought so hard to keep us alive, but it wasnt enough. He came home one day and was in a bad mood or something still to this day i dont know exactly. We started talking about horoscopes and how I always have to be first in everything. He became angry and atacked me and i went to the hospital and he went to jail. That is the drama i was refering to. Now after he came out of jail he contacted me and i was not strong enough at the time to leave him after what he did. We continued to "hook up" have sex whatever. But we both know we had to move on because our relationship was completley toxic. We both have some serious head problems. Hes moved on, found another girl. I have not yet, i still think abou

I still think about him. Obviously-otherwise i wouldnt still be writing about him. I know this will pass, ive been in love like this before. With a gemini, and I obsessed over why he didnt decide to love me. To be frank its not hard for me to get men to love me, its the ones that are so far out of reach that i want to badly.

Well the scorpio-his new gf is so nausiating, shes blonde and a years younger than me. I saw her at a party and she had the nerve to wear a red shirt. That just set me off. I told me best friend who was hosting the parting to kick her out or else i would. Anyway my friend told her to leave three times and I saw the redshirtdevil girl talking on her phone calling my ex telling him to get over there because she knew i would start something. So when i found out she told him to come i decided to initiate the fight. I walked straight up to her and told her the get the fuck out before i threw her out. She didnt say anything and walked into the back yard and i followed her pushing her telling to her leave or else. What happened next you wouldnt believe, he came out of the way back of the yard and said "im leaving now" and walked away. I was so infuriated that i was so close to him and her and even being around them! ( I think about brutally torchering both of them numerous times a day) So i then looked at the blonde bitch and said "OK GREAT, GO GET YOUR MAN" and she said "no thank you im having fun" so i then i started to push her head and everyone around new i was about to loose my class. So we got pushed far apart because no one lets girls fight, i would have won. She left and went to find my ex, im sure my jealous actions brought them closer together, yeah im an idiot.....
whatever im human, i loved him, what can you do?

oh and as for the-Find a libra comment
i have a best friend whos on the cusp of libra and scorpio but i cant think of him as anything other than a friend.
I need someone whos more-
whos everything more than me, someone who can show me up, i think thats sexy. because its so rare.

Posted by P-Angel
What the hell —??


He isn't doing anything ... I'm unclear what you keep referring to about him hating and holding on to this hate and not moving on.



Because she said herself .... that she is the one who hates him, and cannot move on ..... he's got another woman already, so he's moved on.




wtf?


"he's choosing hatred over letting go"

"he doesn't want you
to stop being hurt by him so he keeps going with the hate"



Did you even read what she wrote, GeminiFox?




aresmars ... this just has to do with jealousy because you feel like you were dispensible .. perfectly normal to feel that way. If he wasn't with another woman and you were actually able to keep him interested then all this alledged hate you have for him would disappear because it's not hate at all, you just think you hate him ...... you actually still want him to want you, and since he's with another woman, you are feeling unimportant to him and an Aries just can't have that.

They must have the love given to them in the form of attention, even when it's over ..... nature of the beast.


If you think you have a control issue then this is the problem and not that he's Scorpio ..... because if this is the case, then all men will eventually begin to rebel against you trying to control them.

So, I would suggest you working on this problem you have ... perhaps if you come to terms with it, then you will realize that you don't have to be jealous of not getting all the attention.

P-Angel,yes I read what she wrote! I also try to use some common sense.
This girl is beautiful so anyone with any brain knows she can have her
pick of the men & that all of this wasn't just her fault! She said herself
that she wished all this hate & drama didn't have to happen & she doesn't
want to hate him. If he's showing hate towards her,then he doesn't want it
to stop.Personality wise,if she was showing hate towards him or his new
girl,then yes,she's got to let that go & she's admitting that.
Remember P-angel,she had just made that one post,& from what it sounded like,
her x scorpio wasn't that innocent either!!!

Posted by aresmars
So I dated this guy for two years and he was a scorpio. You know the type, born real close to halloween. Really sexy but also a little scary and edgy. Well i was completly in love and really faithful. It always seemed that i was never good enough for him, i could not keep his interest and that really hurt my ego being a typical aries. Now we are broken up and hes with another scorpio. basically really bad things happened that led our parents, friends and family all hate each other. We are now enemies and every time i see him around town i really just want to hurt him really bad. But before all of this drama happened i felt so connected with him. I felt that he understood me beyond anyone ive ever met. On some deep spiritual level. Also the sex was out of this world. I just wish it could have lasted without the hate and the drama happening, its inevitable though, aries always wants to control the uncontrollable scorpian.

P-Angel,DID YOU READ WHAT SHE WROTE? This guy acted like he was better than her,
he crushed her ego & he was scary!!! Why did he treat her this way P-angel?
Thats a terrible thing to do to someone whose loyal to you & loves you! From
what her post is saying,she was very good to this man & he treated her badly!
She was going out with him for two years,& he still never learned how to treat
a woman? To me thats where the HATE began,from HIM not her!!!

chiron,your right in that part about the red shirt & it setting her off! Thats where
she lost it & acted in a way that she shouldn't have. She admits to this herself.
She's come here to tell us what happened & how both her & this scorpio man
have allowed this to get to the point that even their friends & families hate one
another now. Yes,she is adding to the problem by allowing her jealousy to
control her & I addressed this issue in my first few posts when I told her it's best
to forget him & if he's hating on her,then it's his problem because haters are the
ones who can't seem to let things go. I never said she didn't add to the problem,
she's admitted she has. My point is this simple,Let Him Go!
He will treat the new girl he's with the same way because people who don't
appreciate a good relationship,never learn how until their issues are worked on.

It's also healthy that she's told her side of this relationship and wants
help with it! She's not once made herself out to be the innocent victim!
She did however state that he treated her unkindly in their relationship
and he crushed her ego & thought he was better than her.
We all know he couldn't have been better than her because she's the
one who tried to make the relationship work. I can only base this on
what she's telling us in her posts & thats what I am going with.

Yes i am jealous. Ill give you the whole story. He was a drug user and had serious mental problems. I stayed by him through all of it, when every body in my life told me to leave. I fought so hard to keep us alive, but it wasnt enough. He came home one day and was in a bad mood or something still to this day i dont know exactly. We started talking about horoscopes and how I always have to be first in everything. He became angry and atacked me and i went to the hospital and he went to jail. That is the drama i was refering to. Now after he came out of jail he contacted me and i was not strong enough at the time to leave him after what he did. We continued to "hook up" have sex whatever. But we both know we had to move on because our relationship was completley toxic. We both have some serious head problems. Hes moved on, found another girl. I have not yet, i still think abou



Okay,now this adds more information to her story!
He was abusing drugs,& therfore we have a better
understanding of how things happened & why the
relationship didn't work out. She also states that
they both have some serious head problems,as in
mental issues,and now we have a much better picture.
Again,she should let him go,& laugh again & free
herself of men like this once & for all.
If she is looking for answers,then we should try to
help her,right?
If she wants to better her life,it's good to support
that & encourage her & if anyone can pick themselves
back up off the ground,it's an Aries person! I know,
I've seen it happen.
People who use & abuse drugs & alcohol are toxic
to those they are around,everyone knows this.
If aremars let's go & decides to leave him alone,&
if he decides he doesn't like it & begins to try &
get a reaction out of her after she's moved on,my
advise not to play his game with him is relevant &
correct! Many times one person is unhappy when the
other person stops reacting! If he's that kind,and
he chooses to keep her locked into this game,she will
lose herself even further.If she just does her best &
moves on & find her joy & happiness for life again,she
will be much better for it.She must choose what to do.
I for one believe this guy isn't innocent at all,& in
fact,I wouldn't be at all surprized if he gets upset
by her lack of interest,but time will tell.

thank you gemini fox it seems that you are the ONLY one who understands at this point. DANCING FLAME.....as for you
yes i am young, so what?

i probably do need to grow up, and this has helped me to do that alot.
although i think its rude that you should suggest it. you dont know me and you dont know how mature i am. you only know me from my postings.
What gave me the right to check the other girl out? Excuse me? What didnt give me the right? Are you even an aries...doesnt seem like it.
I think you should not reply to anything i say anymore dancing flame as you are NO HELP AT ALL.
but gemini fox your words are ever so kind and promising, thanks again for your help.

oh and also dancing flame, thats really really great that You are starting to like scorpios, athough that isnt what i was really trying to get at.
i was trying to get some feedback on other crazy mean scorpio guys. not good feedback. because ive known quite a few scorpios, even the women.
they are all about
power
secrecy
it even says in some places that they are prone to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.....
i just hate them. they remind me of the devil.

Aries Scorpio is typically an explosive combination, and this relationship is likely to be a cross between an x-rated movie and a medieval battle. It will almost certainly make you redefine the word 'intense'. Not many signs can match you for passion or force of will, but this one can — and will. If you want a summarized version of this article — this is a very sensual partner, and that carries a hefty price tag.
Compatibility 2
Sexual chemistry 5
Communication 2

(All scores range from 1=low to 5=high)


From the Aries viewpoint

Both of you want control and are very strong willed. You??ll try to get the upper hand aggressively, while your Scorpio will try to do so more covertly and passively. If that sounds like an easy win, think again — you??re a tough cookie. A rock. But this partner is the rain, and will wear you down and sculpt you to their liking eventually. This is often a hard thing for an Aries to accept.

Your Scorpio will drive you nuts with their jealousy, insight and prying. The good news is that you??re an open person by nature, so they??ll mostly like what they find. Before you know it, this partner will understand you better than you understand yourself. You??ll know it's for the right reasons, which will make it equal parts flattering and annoying. Unless you consciously change your views on certain subjects this relationship will feel like trying to stop the ocean with a bucket in this respect.

Aries Scorpio sex
This will almost certainly be the glue that holds this relationship together at times. You??ll find there is something uniquely mysterious, taboo and alluring about your Scorpio. Sooner or later though, you??ll start to realize your partner is operating on a much deeper emotional level than you are. They want to own your body and soul, and as an Aries you aren't going to be ready for that level of commitment just yet. Your Scorpio will pick up on that reluctance.

Cheating
This is worth a special mention. Don't do it, and don't think about it. This partner will pick up on it, and you??ll probably pay the price tenfold. It's safe to say your first argument will relate to jealousy, and you will need to adjust your view on flirting and having friends who are also potential love interests. This is a sensual partner, who will give themself to you 100% . The catch is, they won't settle for much less than the same in return.

Long term
If you aren't sure you??re ready to settle down a

and commit to just one partner then this relationship is unlikely to work out. If you??re ready enough to make that commitment, then it will be an intensely satisfying relationship. The main ways to gauge this are by how often the issues of commitment and jealousy are discussed. If your Scorpio isn't happy with either of them, you??ll know about it. On the brightside, if you can (or have) survived the two main issues of commitment and jealousy then this relationship will be a keeper.
From the Scorpio viewpoint
Scorpio Aries compatibility

Your Aries is so full of life, ideas and passion that it will draw you in like a moth to a flame. Your partner is open, direct and deliciously impractical. You??re stranded on a desert island, and they're walking towards you carrying a box of donuts and a coffee from starbucks.

The grim reality however is that unless your lover is an older Aries, you??re going to have trouble getting the level of commitment you want. Worse than that, in changing them you risk ruining the very things which attracted you in the first place.

The key to this relationship is to turn the passion your Aries inspires in a productive direction, and not let it transform to jealousy. They're naturally outgoing, direct and sexy, and you won't be the only one to notice. That desert island will soon transform into a crowded airport, and they'll still be naked and carrying that box of donuts..

Seduction
The chemistry between you is so strong that you aren't going to need to try very hard. If anything it could be a complete 'accident'.

Scorpio Aries sex
Not many pairings get 5 stars, but this one does. This partner has both the passion to match your own, the impulsiveness to keep everything fresh and exciting, and the nerves of steel to actually enjoy it!

You??ll want to keep your Aries, they??ll pull away — not because they have anything to hide, but because independence and control is fundamental to Aries. The remainder of your relationship will be spent fighting over these issues. You??re going to have a lot of make up sex (well, damn the luck??_) and some of your most intense and aggressive sessions will likely come after arguments. Bittersweet at its finest, however it wont change the fact you??re trying to cage one of the ultimate free spirits.

Long term
Do you really want to change your Aries? Trap that free spirit, remove that impracticality? Aries live on the surface of life, and you live deep below t

the surface. Enjoy that window for what it is, and realize that it wouldn't be there if your partner was on your level. Given time it's likely you can change them, but will you want the end result? Hard as it may be, some level of compromise will improve both the journey and the destination.

Your Aries may have a roving eye, at least by your uncompromising standards of loyalty, and together with their lack of emotional depth it's going to frustrate you. You??ll need to remind yourself these are qualities you find attractive, and instead of trying to stop them, try to feed off it and redirect the inspiration you get from it.

Summary
Second opinion on whether you're compatible
The best way to establish for yourself how compatible you are is often to ask your partner questions. Often the hardest ones to ask are the most important - for example, what are their views and expectations for raising children, sharing housework, money, career goals etc.
Your sun sign suggests how you act, but doesn't control how you act. Just like the sun it exerts influence, and you gravitate towards that behavior, however it can easily be over ridden by life lessons, conscious effort or certain combinations of other planet placements.

yeah ive read everything there is to read about scorpio and aries,
when we were dating i needed some help and i found out that we are either PASSIONATE LOVERS OR SWORN ENEMIES FOR LIFE.
you know back then when i was reading those things i really didnt think that it had to be so>black and white.
but what do you know!!! fate came knocking at my door on that horrible feburaary morning when he came over with breakfast in bed and ended up attacking me for being an aries and always having to be first?

now doesnt that seem really weird to you. not that this has any meaning but it happened the same week chris brown hit rihanna. I think there might have been something in the Planets. It was around febuarary 16th. if anyone wants to check.


Anyway I aplogize for saying that dancing flame wouldnt be able to help. i feel a bit bad now as she probably jsut doesnt understand why I would be looking at another girls shirt, or why i would care LOLS.

But the truth is I just care too damn much because my heart still loves him. But this is why i came here to tell my story, because i need to get these crazy events off my chest and also i need to move forward.

Posted by aresmars
thank you gemini fox it seems that you are the ONLY one who understands at this point. DANCING FLAME.....as for you
yes i am young, so what?

i probably do need to grow up, and this has helped me to do that alot.
although i think its rude that you should suggest it. you dont know me and you dont know how mature i am. you only know me from my postings.
What gave me the right to check the other girl out? Excuse me? What didnt give me the right? Are you even an aries...doesnt seem like it.
I think you should not reply to anything i say anymore dancing flame as you are NO HELP AT ALL.
but gemini fox your words are ever so kind and promising, thanks again for your help.

You are welcome aresmars! I believe you were brave to tell this story &
what you went through.Your looking for answers & you want help. Thats
a very healthy sign,& I for one Hope you will get to be a happy aries
woman,full of life,enery & positive experiences like you are meant to
be. Don't let anything stop you from being Happy & having a great
relationship someday! Keep Growing,learing & living life to the fullest!

Posted by chiron

Posted by aresmars
I saw her at a party and she had the nerve to wear a red shirt. That just set me off.

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yes i did say that didnt i?
well it was fourth of july. Red is my color, my ex knows this.
To be honest she looked very pretty, the new girl. And I didnt like it. I GOT JEALOUS OKAY?!

give me a break.

Posted by aresmars
yeah ive read everything there is to read about scorpio and aries,
when we were dating i needed some help and i found out that we are either PASSIONATE LOVERS OR SWORN ENEMIES FOR LIFE.
you know back then when i was reading those things i really didnt think that it had to be so>black and white.
but what do you know!!! fate came knocking at my door on that horrible feburaary morning when he came over with breakfast in bed and ended up attacking me for being an aries and always having to be first?

now doesnt that seem really weird to you. not that this has any meaning but it happened the same week chris brown hit rihanna. I think there might have been something in the Planets. It was around febuarary 16th. if anyone wants to check.


Anyway I aplogize for saying that dancing flame wouldnt be able to help. i feel a bit bad now as she probably jsut doesnt understand why I would be looking at another girls shirt, or why i would care LOLS.

But the truth is I just care too damn much because my heart still loves him. But this is why i came here to tell my story, because i need to get these crazy events off my chest and also i need to move forward.

I think you have been through so much already & the pain is there
but as a true aries,you have been honest,upfront,& told both sides
of this relationship,& didn't try to make yourself out to be the
innocent victim. You were strong to admit your jealousy the way that
you did,& those are Aries traits & those of us that love Aries people
should admit to that & encourage our Aries loved ones to be who they
are. It's also very much like an Aries to admit that they are sorry
when they feel that they have wronged another person & so like them
to explode & then get over it rather quickly compared to most.
RED SHIRT? That would make me mad too & I'm not an aries sun,lol...
Thats like daring a bull to charge,but we know we can't attack people
like that because it won't make our lives better.
You'll get over this scorpio guy in time!
P.S. I am an Aries Rising,lol....

I also love red! I drive a red mustang,great car & it's fast,lol...
Many of my favorite clothes are red too....
Not all Aries people are in love with red,but many of them are.
I just love the color....

I don't know if it helps are not,but my aries man would have
gone insane on the other guy,& I say that girl was blessed
not to have been sent to the hospital.
Many people don't understand the fact that you just DO NOT
purposely try to make an aries angry or jealous!!!

It's also great that your only 19! let this be an very important life
lesson,& grow from it.It can help you choose much better partners
in your life.
The thing with alot of Gemini males is that,they are not really use
to the boldness of Aries females at first & they don't like to be
bossed around,but when they realize that you have the brains &
the passion,you could find one thats a real keeper one day!!!
Gemini guys love brains,a great sense of humor,& someone who
lets them be themselves.

oh' but keep some of that boldness,they also admire strong women!
That's what my cousin John,a male Gemini says,& I believe it cause
my aries man is strong too.

red is great isnt it?

Its true that the girl was very lucky to make it out of there unhurt.
ALthough I didnt want to go down that route because of what my ex did to me. When i was a bit younger i did the whole fighting thing and honestly it doesnt solve much and also it makes you look really aweful if you are a girl. Im big on keeping my cool. But it didnt seem right to hurt her when HE hurt me so badly in the past.

plus that dumb broad will get what she deserves. i mean do ANY of you think that he will treat her any good? Iv heard from some little birds that hes already hit her a couple times. I know he gets very jealous with her like he did with me, ugh that used to make me so mad. BECAUSE thEre WAS notthing to be jealous about!

So yeah why is it that she is dating a boy who has a history of hitting woman? maybe she likes it, maybe the girl is just such an idiot that she thinks its attractive.
I hope she learns quickly that it is not a good trait to have in a man. or boy sorrry. HE IS A BOY.

And as for him. Well i told ALL of my guy friends that he was going to show up and they were all ready to kick the HELL out of him.
but like i said before she walked into the back yard way way back there. None of my friends followed so it was just us. She is a scorpio too i believe.
messed up girl, she brought me back there to trap me, I think she thought that my ex would see me yelling at her and come to her rescue. BUt he didnt! what he did was hear us and i think he must have felt something becuase he came out of hiding and said "im leaving now" didnt stick up for her one bit.

Well there isnt anything he could have said. I verbally owned that girl. I'm also older and way more respected in my town than she is.
Thats why he left, effing coward he is.

I love aries people!

Posted by aresmars


Well the scorpio-his new gf is so nausiating, shes blonde and a years younger than me. I saw her at a party and she had the nerve to wear a red shirt. That just set me off.

I was so infuriated that i was so close to him and her and even being around them! ( I think about brutally torchering both of them numerous times a day) So i then looked at the blonde bitch and said "OK GREAT, GO GET YOUR MAN" and she said "no thank you im having fun" so i then i started to push her head and everyone around new i was about to loose my class.

Wow.



Yeah, you lost your class a long ass time ago ... actually, if you would physically attack an innocent person simply because of your color choices ... then it's doubtful you ever had class to lose.

"actually, if you would physically attack an innocent person simply because of your color choices"


*** their ....... their color choices

Posted by aresmars
oh and also dancing flame, thats really really great that You are starting to like scorpios, athough that isnt what i was really trying to get at.
i was trying to get some feedback on other crazy mean scorpio guys. not good feedback. because ive known quite a few scorpios, even the women.
they are all about
power
secrecy
it even says in some places that they are prone to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.....
i just hate them. they remind me of the devil.

Wow .... so you didn't want good feedback .. you were only looking for crazy feedback regarding crazy mean?


Wow, again ....... you aren't an Aries at all. Thank god there are actual Aries people out there who are good people.



There you go GeminiFox ..... right up your alley, since you are so naive about everything ... she is looking for someone to hold her hand while she drives stakes in ..... she needs you so she can find a place to divert guilt.

P-Angel i dont need someone that a barley know to "hold my hand" as you said.
First-I did not want to attack her because she was wearing a red shirt. Thats what made me LOOK at her in the first place. I didnt really want to hurt the girl really. My real motive was my ex. I have really good reason to dislike this person, hes physically hurt me really badly before. Im sure you would better understand if you were in my shoes.

Anyway what i really wanted to do was make the girl leave. I didnt want to have to hit her or attack her. You people are trying to make me out to be a monster. When the real story i was trying to get across to you was that my SCORPIO EX BOYFRIEND IS A WOMAN BEATER ASSHOLE.

and dancing arian flame-you may be on to something. I do talk alot about him, and when we were dating there was a part of me that envied the way he was. Sometimes i questioned myself and asked if i really loved him or if i just wanted to be him. its twisted. the whole story is. I dont expect any of you to really understand. there is bits and peices, details that i add to the story.

but go ahead p-angel call me and gemini fox naive. and for what?
i bet you sleep horribly at night.

Wow, again ....... you aren't an Aries at all. Thank god there are actual Aries people out there who are good people.



There you go GeminiFox ..... right up your alley, since you are so naive about everything ... she is looking for someone to hold her hand while she drives stakes in ..... she needs you so she can find a place to divert guilt.




Pangel, who are you? I really dont think you are an important person at all. Where did you get this profound sense of authority that would make you believe you had the right to tell me "YOU ARE NOT AN ARIES AT ALL"
well screw you old lady.

i bet aries have the most heated message boards

"I didnt want to have to hit her or attack her."


That ^^^^^^^^ is a sign of a sociopath. A clinical sociopath believes that when they hurt somebody it is because the other person made them do it, and often when they have caused physical harm, they justify it as saying something like, "Look what you made me do". We find this quite often in wife beaters, however, women can also have this illness. They will beat their spouse up and truly believe that the spouse made them do it.

Your sentence above clearly shows you have this tendancy. You would say you didn't want to HAVE to hit her.'



"You people are trying to make me out to be a monster."

Actually, you do a fine job of showing what kind of a person you are ... this was an innocent woman who has done nothing wrong to you. She was merely attending the same social function as you and you have a mental illness in which you think that everybody outside of you is responsible for catering to your uncontrolled emotions.


"When the real story i was trying to get across to you was that my SCORPIO EX BOYFRIEND IS A WOMAN BEATER ASSHOLE."

I'm quite sure you provoked him into whatever violence he's done. A wife-beater to whom the women will stay with him, will stay with her because she is open field for him to continue beating. You said that after he hit you that you kept seeing him ..... a man who beats on his woman will stay with this said woman indefinitely so long as she allows him access to her .... the fact that he left because he wanted to get away from you, and has now moved on to a woman who would walk away from violence (which she did try to walk away from your violent ass, but, you followed her to push her), shows that he wanted a gentle woman.

When he came to her rescue, he actually walked away from your voilent ass, rather than fighting with you.




The truth is perfectly visible to anybody who wants to see the whole forest and can put two and two together.

im surprise the scorpio back down...those woman love to fight....

but i guess it was no need because shes the one with the man.


another a drug using..woman beating nothing....let her have his ass

Actually, dward ... it is her ex-man to whom she is insanely jealous of that is the Scorpio .... it hasn't been said what sign the Scorpios women is.



And I fully agree with the assessment that this woman is dangerous ..... her hate led her to say she fantasizes about torching the two of them.


A person who is out of control with their emotions is capable of actualizing these thoughts ...... disturbed.

"hes with another scorpio"




^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I am wrong, we do know that she is a Scorpio.

True that Scorps rarely back down but when it comes to seeing someone about to do more damage to themselves without having to get our hands dirty.... we let them have enough rope to hang themselves. 😉

Scorp dude laid his hands on her... he should have gone to jail for it but if he paid his dues and moved on then she should let him go and get the hell over it. She's been replaced. Boo hoo too bad.

Geez... "red is MY color". What are you in kindergarden? Sounds like a kid bitching about having to share a crayon.

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Geez... "red is MY color". What are you in kindergarden? Sounds like a kid bitching about having to share a crayon.

lol