Aries co worker gifting me with MAJOR mixed signs.. How do I read him?

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This guy I work with is sooo Aries, he is a force that should not be reckoned with. I usually attract Leo men so it is a little strange that he is trying to court me. or maybe I am reading it wrong and it is not that at all. Please help lol.

We've worked together for over 2 and a half months maybe. He's never really said much, he was doing lots of training and only is at my office once a week. However two weeks ago, he was alone without his boss. That's when the shit went down lmao. I had to interact with him a lot and I think it warmed us both up. He tried pushing my buttons and then charming his way through. He would smirk, etc. He told me in front of an assistant, "You need to stop being so cute and be more strict on our patients." I was like wtf. The Taurus/Leo in me isn't gonna lie and say I was offended, it was definitely a stroke to my ego to be called cute. But also alarming lol.

Throughout the day we went back and forth with our hate/love banter. At lunch we were all alone, he came on soooo strong. Said, "Hey, do you come here often?" and also made a remark about us both eating the same food and how we had so much in common. I was on my phone texting and he kept asking who I was texting, when I didn't reply, he was like "I bet you're texting about me" and I just kept ignoring, obviously it was hard to keep a straight face. He was doing everything to get me to look at him, even annoyingly making sounds with his food then smirking when I looked up. He told me to get off my phone and enjoy my amazing company..aka him. so cocky lmao.

Later he mentioned his mother because he asked if I was texting mine. He asked me if we were close and I was trying not to give off to much information, I don't trust people. He told me that he hadn't talked to his since (insert birth year here) but I remembered him telling me his birthday earlier so I was like … wait you were born that year. anyway, it led to him saying simply his mom sucks and left him. Kinda weird to bring up on day one huh?? Talk about mood kill??

The next time I saw him he got very butt hurt because I didn't hear him tell me 'Good Morning' and so when I tried saying it back he was like "Noooo, its okay don't worry about it." blah blah blah. Later he made a point to annoy me and take my lotion off my desk, whatever his motive was. I stopped him the first time, taking it from his hands but he did it not even 15 minutes later.

Soooooo in short, I don't know what the hell he is doing. It is so childish to me. If you want to go out then ask. or maybe he wants friendship and my venus in Gemini is just assuming as usual. 🙂
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This guy I work with is sooo Aries, he is a force that should not be reckoned with. I usually attract Leo men so it is a little strange that he is trying to court me. or maybe I am reading it wrong and it is not that at all. Please help lol.

We've worked together for over 2 and a half months maybe. He's never really said much, he was doing lots of training and only is at my office once a week. However two weeks ago, he was alone without his boss. That's when the shit went down lmao. I had to interact with him a lot and I think it warmed us both up. He tried pushing my buttons and then charming his way through. He would smirk, etc. He told me in front of an assistant, "You need to stop being so cute and be more strict on our patients." I was like wtf. The Taurus/Leo in me isn't gonna lie and say I was offended, it was definitely a stroke to my ego to be called cute. But also alarming lol.

Throughout the day we went back and forth with our hate/love banter. At lunch we were all alone, he came on soooo strong. Said, "Hey, do you come here often?" and also made a remark about us both eating the same food and how we had so much in common. I was on my phone texting and he kept asking who I was texting, when I didn't reply, he was like "I bet you're texting about me" and I just kept ignoring, obviously it was hard to keep a straight face. He was doing everything to get me to look at him, even annoyingly making sounds with his food then smirking when I looked up. He told me to get off my phone and enjoy my amazing company..aka him. so cocky lmao.

Later he mentioned his mother because he asked if I was texting mine. He asked me if we were close and I was trying not to give off to much information, I don't trust people. He told me that he hadn't talked to his since (insert birth year here) but I remembered him telling me his birthday earlier so I was like … wait you were born that year. anyway, it led to him saying simply his mom sucks and left him. Kinda weird to bring up on day one huh?? Talk about mood kill??

The next time I saw him he got very butt hurt because I didn't hear him tell me 'Good Morning' and so when I tried saying it back he was like "Noooo, its okay don't worry about it." blah blah blah. Later he made a point to annoy me and take my lotion off my desk, whatever his motive was. I stopped him the first time, taking it from his hands but he did it not even 15 minutes later.

Soooooo in short, I don't know what the hell he is doing. It is so childish to me. If you want to go out then ask. or maybe he wants friendship and my venus in Gemini is just assuming as usual. 🙂




I think he likes a friendly banter, work goes more quickly 🙂

I think this is how he is entertaining himself and lots of other people. I am not sure why you kept texting during your first meal, and if you are not interested, why you are making a thread about him? 🙂

it may be a challange to him that you didnt/dont pay attention.... or maybe he thinks if he asks you out, you will be texting the whole time

I am just kidding 🙂
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I think he likes a friendly banter, work goes more quickly 🙂

I think this is how he is entertaining himself and lots of other people. I am not sure why you kept texting during your first meal, and if you are not interested, why you are making a thread about him? 🙂

it may be a challange to him that you didnt/dont pay attention.... or maybe he thinks if he asks you out, you will be texting the whole time

I am just kidding 🙂


It was not a date and I definitely do not owe him anything. Obviously I was not on my phone the entire time as we had an entire conversation. As for me not being interested, I never claimed to not be. I’m interested in knowing if he is. But anyway yes I agree he likes that banter. He is very witty and playful in that way.

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Posted by Bullhead7098

I think he likes a friendly banter, work goes more quickly 🙂

I think this is how he is entertaining himself and lots of other people. I am not sure why you kept texting during your first meal, and if you are not interested, why you are making a thread about him? 🙂

it may be a challange to him that you didnt/dont pay attention.... or maybe he thinks if he asks you out, you will be texting the whole time

I am just kidding 🙂


It was not a date and I definitely do not owe him anything. Obviously I was not on my phone the entire time as we had an entire conversation. As for me not being interested, I never claimed to not be. I’m interested in knowing if he is. But anyway yes I agree he likes that banter. He is very witty and playful in that way.

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What about that lotion stuff?

He takes your stuff without asking?

I would grab it back and say ‘if you didn’t pay for it - it’s not yours!’

And you can tell him that he acting like 16! See what he is going to say.

I think if women were more ‘playful’ like you say...’if you want to ask me out - just do it! If not - stop being a child!’ - again...watch him being smart as you claim he is or falling on his ass and laugh!