Aries fire burns too much

This topic was created in the Aries forum by lubbylou on Friday, August 2, 2013 and has 1 replies.

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@lubbylou
13 Years

Okay in the wake of my almighty freakout with aries ex.... I had made headway with my emails.

He got back to me - as emotionless, flat response.... but maintaing that he would talk to me if he were ever to bump into me.

I still feel hurt, and my ego has taken a severe battering. As now he truly knows he has turned me inside out. Anytime I ever hung out with him.... he always wanted to play pool with me...bridge, card games, consul games etc....but I beat him a lot....and always suspected it was a form of foreplay for him.

He challenged me continually....pushing and pushing. Even in discussions....it was like he wanted to strip me to the bone, to see what I was made off when the going got tough or there was challenge on the horizon.

This is the side if Aries I just couldn't figure. And the side ultimately which flipped me. The pushing and pushing of buttons....but then when I did flip, he played the victim card...saying I WAS manipulating him etc.

It was one long power game. And I lost my way in the maze of it all. Be weary ladies....as these men are powerhouse gamers. I have played up there with the best of them...

But his games were so so insipid and cunning.... that in the end I was tearing my hair out trying to balance the power. A hideous experience.

I will be sticking with capricorns and other earth signs from now.

Fire burns too much!!!

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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Wimp. Can't take a little challenge? Jk. If you didn't like the fact that he was so competitive, why didn't you tell him? I love to go back and forth with certain people but if it bothers them and they tell me, I will stop. Fire doesn't burn too much or too far if you know how to control it..

I guess only you can't prevent forest fires.