ARIES GIRL SO CONFUSING

ok we broke up, she jumped into another relationship i told her for time being we could not be friends and i cut contact with her. So we havent spoken in couple weeks and then out of the blue She constantly initiating contact and bringing up the past and has been sending me gifts throughout her entire new relationship.. Ive never been so damn confused in my life. I appreciate the gifts and her reaching out but like what is going on, i feel so manipulated.

who broke up with who? some Aries females tend to jump into new relationships really fast in order to get over the last one. she probably thought this new relationship was gonna keep her mind off of you. when she realized it wouldn't, she decided to give you your space, since you were the one who cut contact, then try to initiate contact when she felt enough space was given. I could be wrong, but I see this pattern with a lot of fellow Arian females.

Posted by impresswho
What kind of gifts is she sending you?

Random things that are helpful, house supplies etc.

Posted by Amber911
who broke up with who? some Aries females tend to jump into new relationships really fast in order to get over the last one. she probably thought this new relationship was gonna keep her mind off of you. when she realized it wouldn't, she decided to give you your space, since you were the one who cut contact, then try to initiate contact when she felt enough space was given. I could be wrong, but I see this pattern with a lot of fellow Arian females.

I broke up with her but tried to get back but it seemed she was too "proud" and then the new person happened so i cut all communication which she wasnt pleased about. Haha @ when SHE felt enough space was given, that sounds selfish but she said herself she is a selfish person so i wouldnt be surprised if that was true.

Ariesn aren't selfish, they are self aware...theres a difference...

And she still cares about you. That's just how an unevolved Aries would deal with a blow to the ego.

No one likes being broken up with. But with Aries girls, it's just another conquest. She wants to win you back...

If she broke up with you, you wouldnt hear from her.

Posted by iheartnerdyboyz
Ariesn aren't selfish, they are self aware...theres a difference...

And she still cares about you. That's just how an unevolved Aries would deal with a blow to the ego.

No one likes being broken up with. But with Aries girls, it's just another conquest. She wants to win you back...

If she broke up with you, you wouldnt hear from her.

But she hasn't said anything in regards to getting back with me. Though her friend has asked me if i have been seeing anyone lately. Testing the waters maybe?

Posted by iheartnerdyboyz
Ariesn aren't selfish, they are self aware...theres a difference...

And she still cares about you. That's just how an unevolved Aries would deal with a blow to the ego.

No one likes being broken up with. But with Aries girls, it's just another conquest. She wants to win you back...

If she broke up with you, you wouldnt hear from her.

So true.

I can tell you right now that the boy she's with, she doesn't really care for. Aries love hard and they'll still try to keep the relationship if they feel that it's something worth saving and if you mean a lot to them.

May I ask, if you broke up with her, why are you interested in her?

And if you are done with her, be blunt. Tell her you aren't interest with no sugarcoating, no hope for a future return.

We need to be told "no"

Well I need to be told 'no' anyway

I still care about her but knowing shes been with someone else is difficult to get past.

She was sending gifts before and after i cut off communications with her. But as i said she has still not mentioned anything about getting back or reconciling so im not sure what her intent is if anything at all. We are just getting back into communications so the bulk of our conversations is finding out how each other is doing and whats new blah blah. (all contact has been initiated by her) Whats holding me back is the idea that maybe she's only contacting me because the rebound didnt work out.

Aries hate playing mind games. If you don't truly want to be with her than move on and don't play with her heart. The other relationship she jumped in probably doesn't mean anything she just did it to make you jealous or pass time so she wouldn't be hurt over your rejection. Aries love very hard and are loyal. I think she is waiting on you to apologize or ask her back. When an aries is done with you there will be NO CONTACT. If you really care for her do something nice for her that lets her know you care. Cook her dinner, say something nice to her, or do a nice gesture and she'll come back.

Posted by actionsvswords
Aries hate playing mind games. If you don't truly want to be with her than move on and don't play with her heart. The other relationship she jumped in probably doesn't mean anything she just did it to make you jealous or pass time so she wouldn't be hurt over your rejection. Aries love very hard and are loyal. I think she is waiting on you to apologize or ask her back. When an aries is done with you there will be NO CONTACT. If you really care for her do something nice for her that lets her know you care. Cook her dinner, say something nice to her, or do a nice gesture and she'll come back.

She jumped into this relationship AFTER i had already tried getting back with her so it doesnt make sense for her to do this out of rejection, she knew i wanted her back bc i went to her house to apologize but told me ohhh we cant just go back into a relationship i need this time to myself..but i want to come over to your house to talk more about it.(didnt happen) Low and behold a week later i found out about this person she just met a day before i showed up at her house. So i felt rejected, she chose someone she just met over me. So i cut things off so i can move on and for the most past i have, obviously theres some resentment and she has tried to apologize recently for it, she told me she feels bad about how things happened and didnt mean to disrespect me and that it didnt happen like i thought. (im not sure how many ways jumping into someone elses bed happens lolll) ugh i guess its my canceriannn-esss its hard for me to come out the shell hehe. 🙂

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Posted by actionsvswords
Aries hate playing mind games. If you don't truly want to be with her than move on and don't play with her heart. The other relationship she jumped in probably doesn't mean anything she just did it to make you jealous or pass time so she wouldn't be hurt over your rejection. Aries love very hard and are loyal. I think she is waiting on you to apologize or ask her back. When an aries is done with you there will be NO CONTACT. If you really care for her do something nice for her that lets her know you care. Cook her dinner, say something nice to her, or do a nice gesture and she'll come back.

She jumped into this relationship AFTER i had already tried getting back with her so it doesnt make sense for her to do this out of rejection, she knew i wanted her back bc i went to her house to apologize but told me ohhh we cant just go back into a relationship i need this time to myself..but i want to come over to your house to talk more about it.(didnt happen) Low and behold a week later i found out about this person she just met a day before i showed up at her house. So i felt rejected, she chose someone she just met over me. So i cut things off so i can move on and for the most past i have, obviously theres some resentment and she has tried to apologize recently for it, she told me she feels bad about how things happened and didnt mean to disrespect me and that it didnt happen like i thought. (im not sure how many ways jumping into someone elses bed happens lolll) ugh i guess its my canceriannn-esss its hard for me to come out the shell hehe. 🙂

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She definitely didn't choose this person over you cause you're the one she's wanted this whole time. I know it hurts, but you dumping her hurt and was a blow to her ego so she decided she had to do something about it. I know it seems childish and real tit-for-tat like, but that's exactly what's going on. How long were you two together?