Aries in Bed

Foreplay of Aries:

Aries doesn't have time for foreplay.

Yes and no. Although the stereotype is that ariens charge forward into things- doesn't mean we don't also enjoy the "build up". For me, it all depends on how I feel. Sometimes I wanna get right into it-- sometimes I enjoy a "warm-up". The aries guy I dated always wanted to build into it, but was more turned on by spontaneity.

Bah?
Only Virgo's , makes it possible? not for "for play"? but more importantly?AFTER PLAY.

YEAH

That makes for a pretty long shower, doesn't it?

No STD.. it goes for pretty long "foreplay"? "afterpaly" is much longer when Virgoes around?.. what do you think?. That we are "jump in " and "Jump out" creatures..??

BAH

No, I don't think that at all. By, "afterplay", you mean snuggling? Talking? Holding each other? If so, I like to. Maybe I'm a "jump in" creature, but I agree with you on the "afterplay".

Aries foreplay comes in a different form than the norm - at least, that's my experience. They like the chase and the conquest, and in doing this, they are very touchy, feely - like to stroke and kiss. Keep them at bay, but don't push away entirely and you can get all the foreplay you want. It's just when it comes down to going "all the way" - then they go for the target. But, in thier minds, they've already primed you up in the attentiveness they gave you while chasing you.

However, a male Arien can slow down (if you make him). And he will when given the choice of either: 1) slow down, or

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or, 2) turn blue

Oh wow.. that's pretty good P-Angel. How are things on your end, anyway?

Hey, I was gone for a while. Actually, I was here, but mostly listening. Decided to talk today.

Well, welcome back! And I'm glad you decided to talk. I can agree with you on "enjoying the chase". In my own experiences- keeping me at bay only makes me want that person more... that is, unless I've been blatantly told that my advances are unwanted. I don't give up very easily- but eventually I let go.

Personally, I like the Arien lover. Of course, you already know this. I talk about it all the time. I've been around just about everyday, but have only been listening in. Trying to understand all these people by listening and not commenting. But, today, I decided to converse with everyone. Have been going through a rough time lately with menopause and have been trying to focus on what the heck to do to stop these symptoms - they're driving me nuts - as well as the rest of my family. I think everyone is ready to kill me !!!!! Anyway, I feel better today and decided to be social.

Oh yes, I've heard how the hot flashes, the cold sweats and the sleepless nights can lead a woman homicide (at the very least attacking friends and family). Heh, it certaintly would've lead to interesting conversation had you posted something. At any rate, glad you're feeling better. I can't remember, are you dating/married to an aries now-- or have you dated a few in the past?

I'm married to a Virgo and have been for many, many years. But, the lovers in my past that have left such an impression that I still feel intoxicated to this day have all been Aries. I am currently in lust with an Aries, but since I'm loyal to my husband will never act on it - so I spend my time talking about male Ariens because I know in my heart that my soulmate is Aries, I just have to find him. But, it doesn't matter because I'd never leave the Virgo husband. So, I do as all Pisces do and dream, dream, dream.

Yeah, the menopause is the worse thing I've ever gone through and it's not even the hot flashes and night sweats that are so bad. There's all kinds of stuff, like headaches, achy joints, leg pain, irregular flow - but nothing is as bad as the feeling of going crazy. It's not even like panic attacks, or anxiety - it's much, much worse than any panic attack I've ever had. With panic and anxiety, you feel like something dreadful is going to happen and you can't calm down. With menopause, it's like insanity. You feel like another personality is taking over and the internal battle to keep yourself terribly difficult. In the news, you always here about women who kill people, or themselves, or do really wacked out stuff and you think, wow, that person needs some serious help - and they do !!!!!!! Problem is, doctors won't help you if your menopausal - they just say, you have to deal with it. Ok, so women have been dealing for centuries, but that doesn't mean that society has to continue to turn their backs on this, let us kill someone and then just send us to jail or the nuthouse. There is a problem, a real phsychotic problem with the female change of life and the ending of life is something that is contemplated every single freaking day.

Sorry, didn't mean to rattle on. I do feel better today. The sun is shinning and a cool breeze blowing - might have to go take a walk. Last time I went for a walk, I asked you to go, but you had tons of work to do.

Here's the irony, I have a Pisces in my past that took me a long time to get over. Man, he was an adventure- and for a long time, no one else could compare. In my mom's mind-- no one has... she even tried to "set us back up"... but you can't force oil to mix with water. Although we loved each other deeply--- we could never get on the same page.

Hey, don't worry about the "rambling", happens to me all the time. I know that the medication they have out now for menopause actually increases your chances of getting breast cancer (ain't that something?) Anything else has to be over-the-counter, untested herbal stuff that may or may not work for you. Sorry to hear you're going through that ordeal- I hope it gets better.

For me ilike foreplay .But some time in the heat of the momentBANG say on jet or limo on the beach in the jazz,you know candle's ,wine ,soft jazz,liht dim low it all good. from aries man veiw .fire,diamonds. what else does a good women need?

yum,yum

P-Angel

Hope you are feeling ok now. I know I have that in my 'near' future, sure not looking forward to it at all. I know it can be bad, just remember you have friends here on this board ok? no one is out to get you here. Try to be thankful you don'/t have to experience what I have to go through each month... had my tubes tied.. been 'really, really heavy' since.. I hate that.

Aquarius Female

Thanks Jolly,

Actually, the menopause just gets worse each day. It effects everyone differently, but with me . . . well, it seems to be putting my emotions through more than I can take. I'm either furious, crying, laughing - they just flip back and forth without much warning. People probably think I'm bi-polar, but I'm not. Just the stupid change of life thing has me on a freaking roller coaster. I appreciate your support and I pity every woman in this world for having to endure this - it's a b.tch.

Luckily, though, I'm married to a Virgo. Without him, I would have shot myself a long time ago - or someone else would have taken me out because I can flip to the other side in an instant without any control. He's so supportive and understanding. His Virgo logic is very controlled and he knows that I can't help myself and he knows exactly what to do when I flip. He's my angel!

I hope you don't have as bad a time with it as I've been going through. And you're right, there are alot of good people in here. Thanks for being one of them.

I have this Aries guy/friend/lover, actually I don't know what he is, lol. We've been practicing this "on and off" thing since January.
But anyway, when I'm on the phone with him a lot, he is just so curious! Don't confuse him as being half minded, 'cause this Aries has more depth than you could ever know! But when I'm on the phone with him, he keeps asking me questions, wanting to see my opinion, or my side or point of view. We were talking about sex the other day. He says it interests him when he sees and gets all these different answers and stuff. He likes talking to other girls and getting their different opinions. But I love how he is just so open minded. Especially when we talk about sex, you'd almost expect for someone to cringe, but conversation with him is just so natural. He's all so casual and laid back. He wants to know about everything!

It is our interest in life that keeps us going....we are not ones to settle...we keep asking till we feel we understand. Very, very curious people we are - I had someone today tell me that I had the most well defined jaw bone they have ever seen! (hint - got it from talking - imagine that!) they were of course playing with me...we so enjoy people and what we can learn from them...why else are they on this planet if not to communicate and learn from?

So glad you are enjoying your Aries man....🙂

hello everyone, whoknow the record for the longest love making on record ?

I remember seeing seeing a program - some Japanese woman _ you know the Japs for doing strange cookie stuff....!!! - she broke the record for how many lovers you could have in one day.....they showed her there.....and all the guys lined up to do the bizz......

If you mean, just one to one with the same person.......it's got to be Cancerlady and her guys:-)!!!!Joke Joke CL!!!

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