Aries is a cheater!

Not all but of course him! i hate that i fell for such bullshit. so naive is saggie when it comes to this stuff. i did know he had a girlfriend but he said they were over. Then i hadn't heard from him in a few weeks so i just deleted his number. Well i found out she was down here with him after we got together.

i wont be talking to him anymore. thought he was cool but guess not.
im a little disappointed. 😢

sorry previous post got messed up

ha im afraid they like more than one woman for different aspects
i was described as one as his TOY GIRLFRIEND.i,ll let you figure that one out

"Then i hadn't heard from him in a few weeks so i just deleted his number."


^^^^ wrong move.


Aries people LOVE to be chased .. they will feed you enough charm, loving vibes affectionately to get you hooked on them in hopes that they will be irrestible to you .. and then back off to see if you will seek them out for more.

You didn't do that .. you awaited to hear from him, and when you didn't, you wrote him off = Ram not interested in a person who isn't enamoured by them.

Another thing they will do is attempt to make you jealous of them because they equally LOVE this superficial kind of attention because it makes them feel special if you believe that they are wanted by another person because then you might fight for them .. again, because you are enamoured by them. So, it's highly likely that he wasn't with his ex at all, and he only let you think that so you will chase him.


Either way, however it worked out to be what it is .... because you are Sag, I know your intentions with him were honest and simple, and I'm sorry that you got burned by a Player of the Zodiac.

(((hugs)))


For future reference ... Sag's aren't a good match for the Ram .. you'd be hard-pressed to find one who wouldn't play your feelings. Your perfect match would be an Aquarius, within the same Decante position as yours ... and I hope you find him, as I hope every person finds him/her.

I can't play into this game. I don't have the energy. I want someone to chase me and want me. Im not going to let him know I would really like to see him because then he knows he has me and im at his beckoning??no way jose! If he was really interested he would act that way.

Plus I know for a fact that she was with him—??because players always leave a trail. I know exactly how to find out things I need to know. 😉

Before I deleted his number I sent him a flirty text and I didn't hear from him. A week goes by and she's at his place.

Firebabe, I am the ?toy girlfriend? until the real girl shows up.

BTW: I think they are doing the long distance thing and that's why he needs someone to be around for the lonely nights she's not there.

I have a feeling this won't be the last of him. he always comes back around to tag me.

no angle here, like i said i deleted the number.

Starfish i know your right. i know im his type just that he's into her and not me. im not a hater. she's cute and they make a cute couple. i just won't be stringed along. until he makes up his mind.

Why should i make him a priority if im only an option!

DVLRam - Get yourself a nice "Capricorn" girl !
Im sure she could sort you out LOL

SageTree, sorry to hear that - his whole position was shaky from the start of you postings. Great you found out early to move on...

Ram not interested in a person who isn't enamoured by them

From my POV, rams will especially chase a person who isn't enamoured by them...if you're enamoured, the chase is over - they like the chase so there's something he's wasn't forthcoming with SageTree. Aries does not like to be ignored - they do NOT like to be chased

they will feed you enough charm, loving vibes affectionately to get you hooked on them in hopes that they will be irrestible to you .. temporarily as attention seeking, hunting, ramming their way to win you over to get something from you...

and then back off to see if you will seek them out for more they do not think that far ahead for the consequences of their actions - they live in the moment.

It is vital to ask questions if you are aware the person is an Aries - that's when the intimacy issues rear its head Aqualeo- it involves the future which we just don't see.


Also from my experience/observations, Sags, Aries, Geminis and Aquarius are 4 combination sun signs that need some compatible planets in earth or water for anything to work past an amazing friendship or fling. Just no staying power

dvl,

dogs is a cappy male

anything else? 😛

good luck with that !

Cappy's are mostly boring (I know 6) i only know one fun cappy and she is the only one i think is pretty.

the others are very plain and not striking at all. don't make friends very easy either. they feel to much too. and they always want to know what your thinking or try to guess what your thinking. That's annoying in itself. Very insecure, but they won't have you think that. on the outside they are all kinds of confidence but that's just a front.

Don't think cappy's are the one for Rams.

"Why should i make him a priority if im only an option!"


Yesssss !!!!!!!!!!!


Now, if we could only get EVERY woman to KNOW this to the very core of her being .. and own it .. we wouldn't have so many pleas in here on how to mend a broken heart.


Aries perfect match is Gemini ...

DVL......


Tell me what is wrong if i make a choice between 2 girls I dated and had sex with! How can you call that "cheating"? (girls do that all the time btw, chose between men)



So if all woman jumped off bridges, would men simply follow that too? I understand your point but there is a difference between being selective & being a dog. This whole thread is basically saying that he failed to mention to her about the other girl. A matter a fact i'm going to say i've had a dealing with two aries men..... SINCE *I AM* the girl who goes for the sweet guys ...the aries were just not so sweet..So basically the same thing you are saying you hate when girls do by judging or being a hypocrit basically is the same thing you just did.. "Girls do that all the time" REALLY? BC NOT THIS GIRL.... I do respect how you voiced your opinion though lol...fireyyy boy.

Aries perfect match is Gemini ...

P - Angel..

I have to disagree with you on that. Gemini's usually have no tolerance or low tolerance for the games or stunts if you will aries try to play when they are feeling out if they have you wrapped or not... We get such bad press honestly. IF we like you there is no hiding it, we make it obvious...Usually we try and treat people the way we'd like to be treated but aries (SOMETIMES & NOT ALL) are more for there own needs...what makes THEM feel good, what makes THEM look good..nothing about the other...


Now don't get me wrong , i don't want to come off like the ram hater..I loveeeeee aries girls and boys...but i have to be honest with that statement...

never heard of that show, but it looks interesting DVL.....

for all of us who missed the first season:

http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/vh1-the-pickup-artist/

lol, Juicy .. disagreement taken as point .. you should know, you're a Gem, and not I. 🙂

As far as the little dispute taking place ... I will insert my two cents here ... and it's all a matter of communication, and not assumption of intent, which seems to be the problem 99% of the time.


To date a person is NOT a commitment, nor does either dating parties have any loyalty to each other .. and this appears to be the main issue that is being glossed over, to make comments about cheating.

People, mostly women, enter into a dating ritual with another, and automatically ASSUME that boundaries have been put in place ... and then attempt to hold the other accountible to honor this in the form of faithfulness.

A person, who is dating, and not in a commited relationship .. IS SINGLE ... and has no obligation to the people they are dating in terms of faithfulness.

I never said i hate when girls do that. As a mater of fact i like it actually. It keeps the game alive, and it also adds more value to the lady in question. But it doesen't make me a cheater if i beat you at your own game.
And about this thread....the fact that he didn't mention the other girl....daaah!....i find it normal. What could he actually say? " you know baby i have this other girl and I think i enjoy her more " would you like to hear something like that?

I'm just curious SageTree...did this boy ever told you he wanted something serious? or have you ever asked him?



LOL there goes my point..the word game...a little too much , this is why aries & gemini are not the best match...Automatically your off to beat the female at her own game which in this lady's post there was no game to be beat...I'm not one for that mind frame.....Then again i don't do the 2 dating a time (probably need to though) Lol

I deffinitly agree with you on that one P - Angel. I have been the girl at one point or another to assume that....But also the right thing to do i believe..if a person askes you what goes on...the truth should be told. So many misunderstadings between men & females anyway why make things more complicated?

What could he actually say? " you know baby i have this other girl and I think i enjoy her more " would you like to hear something like that?



Nope from the start he could have said "I have a girlfriend, We are over but it's not completely over yet" This way he leaves it up to her & she can only blame herself if she continues to enter the challenge of being with him. Granted that is his business but if you have the guts to ask a question that person should have the guts to be honest about it.

Wow! Everyone got so fired up on this one.

Well let me make things more clear— I suspected he was with someone and I straight out asked him about it.

He told me they were off and he was going out of town that weekend to see his family in Chicago. Well she in fact was coming down here for the weekend. He did not cheat on me he cheats on her. She is the girlfriend I am the lover (well not anymore).

I wasn't looking to get into a relationship—.. Simply to get to know each other better and have a little fun in the process, but he is just looking for the fun while she is not here.

How can I ask him where we stand if he hasn't called or contacted me? Why would I even have to do that? The non communication says it all??.


DVLRam, that is cheating not choosing between two pple. I thought he was being honest with me and in fact he was covering his tracks. I'm not trying to find the answer here. I already know the answer. I was keeping everyone updated with the story because in earlier posts I said I liked him and wanted to get to know him more. But that is not possible now. I am cool and honest about things not superficial at all. He didn't have a nice car or money out the ears either. I thought I was getting to know someone I had stuff in common with, movies, books etc..

And another thing he approached me and he was only interested for my looks I was looking deeper than that.

Juicy not all Aries men play that way,& once you understand how
Aries men truly are,I believe you'll understand what P-Angel
was trying to say in her post. Yes,Aries men can be a bit of
a mystery,but when you realize that most of them will test you
at some point & are basically innocent,you'll love them. Granted,
some aries guys are losers,but thats in every sign!!!
What that Aries guy did to our Saggie friend was clearly very
nasty & wrong!!! But,don't let that one dirty bird turn you
off of all Aries guys!!! I use to run from Aries men,until I
realized the good ones are perfect for me,like My Ram charger
I Love & have loved for some years now & known all my life.
I do see your points Juicy & your honesty is also refreshing!!!

Posted by P-Angel
"Why should i make him a priority if im only an option!"


Yesssss !!!!!!!!!!!


Now, if we could only get EVERY woman to KNOW this to the very core of her being .. and own it .. we wouldn't have so many pleas in here on how to mend a broken heart.


Aries perfect match is Gemini ...

You are perfectly right pAngel,but getting these two
signs to see it & understand one another is the key!
Sometimes they get it right off,sometimes they don't,
but they are excellent together & I agree,the best
for each other!!!

uh'oh another old post,yikes! Well,I haven't been around
here in awhile,busy,busy,busy!!!
I hope things were resolved in a good way however!!!
Whats with these old post?