How to reject an Aries gently?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by RedRose on Monday, July 27, 2009 and has 11 replies.

How to Gently Reject an Aries Man

To reject an Aries man kindly, be honest and direct while showing appreciation for his qualities. Keep your tone respectful and avoid blame. Express your feelings clearly and kindly, emphasizing your boundaries without causing offense. This approach helps reduce hurt feelings and minimizes the chance of anger or frustration.

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@RedRose
18 YearsAries

I have recently met an Aries man who has come on waaay to strong, so much so that it made me uncomfortable, and I am completely uninterested. While he seems like a harmless and nice enough guy, he seems a bit emotionally unstable.

How do you tell an Aries that you're not interested in a way that limits the rejection they feel, and to therefore limit the liklihood of them getting angry?

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@arieyfairy
18 Years

aries female here. best thing you could do is give aries a straight honest answer. if you dont, theyl feel like your stringing them along even if your not. they might not like the answer you give, but theyl appreciate your honesty above everything else.

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@AriesFirst
17 Years

i bet none of u actually is an aries guy...they r so much "challenge-seeking" that if u actually say no directly to him, he will try to improvise and get better , n be after u with new vigour...lol ( i do it too 😛) here are 3 sure shot ways to get rid of himself :

1. start showing interest in him...nothing turns off n aries guy more than a girl who shows interest in him...they like the challenge of chasing sum1 n winning her....so if u show interest in him...he'll be put off!!!!!!!

2. let him know thru sum1 tht u hv told ur frenz tht hes after u like crazy n laugh abt it ....he'll actually start hating you 😛

3. let him know u r ignoring him, like whn hes walking towrds u , pretend as if u didnt c him , or whnvr he asks u for smthng, put up an excuse...nothing pisses off an aries more than an arrogant girl...he will nvr come after u

P.S : BELIEVE ME NONE OF THIS IS HARSH FOR AN ARIES, BUT IT WILL BE HARSH IF U BREAK HIS HEART BY DIRECTLY ASKING HIM TO LEAVE YOU ALONE !!!!!!
🙂 😢

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@AriesFirst
17 Years

Posted by *Tasha
haha wow

once again: it will never happen. i won't even go near Aries moons anymore that's how bad it is. i'm currently IGNORING my Scorpio sun/Aries moon that i was just dating. what an asshole. and u know something - when i met him i just *knew* there was something that reminded me of (the epitome of an aries) that i dated a few years ago! and that was it - was his Aries moon

seriously though: you wouldn't want me. but...i will say i think Aries (and Scorpios) = sexiest signs...there's a compliment

my moon is vrigo...and sun is aries...i think!