Aries Man and Public Flattery

I am currently getting to know an Aries man. He is going through a really stressful situation with work, but he has remained incredibly strong. So much so that I thought about saying something on my twitter account about how much his strength has inspired me. But I paused before doing so. Lol. On one hand I could see him eating it up, but on another hand, I was not sure if he would interpret that as me being too much up his butt. Lol.

Thoughts?

If i were him I'd be enjoying the fact you're all over him too... If i remember correctly he is much younger than you.. He's got a true milf all over him.. If he screws this up, hell I'd be pissed.

Hey! I am not old enough to be considered a MILF. LOL. Watch yourself!! Lol.Hmmm.... I want him to feel special and supported not like I am sprung. Lol. Gotta balance this!

Twodrinkminimum - True. But some men might lose a little attraction for a woman if they feel they have her too soon, and I just wanted to make sure the gesture does not imply that.

...I guess maybe I will go ahead and do it. Lol.

But wait... I do not want to be "all over him". See... how men perceive things. I'd look at that as someone being sweet and supportive. A man says, "all over someone".

Twodrinkminimum - Lol. No I am not at all. That's why i thought it might be a pleasant surprise for him. I mean... I am sweet towards him, BUT I definitely have my own life and I HIGHLY doubt he feels the least bit smothered or anything remotely close to that.

Nope but he has Gem moon. UGH! ;-/

I am a Scorpio, I over think what I am going to cook for dinner! Lol.

I did it! He loved it. Lol. His friends getting a little jealous probably made him like it even more. Lol. **Curtseys**

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
Girl, if you're overthinking it that much just don't do it lol.

If in doubt, ALWAYS do it. See what happens!


Sincerely,


Gemini Moon

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Hiiiii!!!!! LOL. How are you??

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by AL4813
If i were him I'd be enjoying the fact

You're a Leo. It doesn't work the same for Aries. We'd either be quietly pleased or really embarrassed.

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In this case, I think he was quietly pleased.

glad he enjoyed it! I wouldn't do it ALL the time though.

Posted by starlover
You don't have to be old to be a MILF ~ just a mother 🙂


How are you?

xx

True. Lol!!! I'm not a mommy, yet.

I'm great sweet pea! How are you??

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
Girl, if you're overthinking it that much just don't do it lol.

If in doubt, ALWAYS do it. See what happens!


Sincerely,


Gemini Moon

Hiiiii!!!!! LOL. How are you??

😄

Had a pretty sombre two weeks but other than that really no complaints this year.


Ever since your advice, I see me falling for the wrong women coming three miles away! Thank you

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Not sombre! Well.. I'm glad you are feeling better! :-)

Yay! I'm glad I was helpful. We might need to hit the private message. You know I'm nosey! Lol.

JROI - Yes, of course not all the time. This was a one time small gesture. I think I might be too prideful for "all the time". Lol.

Yeah me too. Smdh.

Starlover and FirstDecan - Yea Aries men are a trip. I definitely see Aries traits in him. He's a little bossy from time to time and a bit competitive. But he has this boyish charm about himself and he's a little cuddle bug. Lol.

I think your intent is all that matters...if it's genuine, then yeah sure why not-I don't see a problem with it. Don't overthink it, go with your heart.

Posted by JROI
glad he enjoyed it! I wouldn't do it ALL the time though.

yeah exactly, we're not leos.

Before I even knew I was possessive or jealous my ex bff, which was my first bf took it right out of me.. too much man..too much..we were together for 6 years..

I look at mistakes. But I dont know what else cause I was way to serious and always communicate and honest.. He was a cuddler, and freak..and a cheater with lots of side people. But I have to trust.

We were friends at school. When I graduated I left first and then he moved in awhile after. Was friends for 3 years and 3 more years he was mine and living with me. We were both 19-25 years old when I broke up because he was cheating. I do think it's age and immaturity..


While in school yeah, lots of people around him..too much but I didn't think anything about it. Till rumors started and confronted him..and of course when I left I left before him.. awhile..

However
I could no longer feel intimAte with him or forgive him. Cause god knows I tried, to change to be better with him. In the process wanted him to change..but nope.

So I finally left and went to my mom...My mom was a life saviour. Because it wasn't easy at all. Did I forgive and forget, yeah. But just wasn't forgiving ...loving him no longer cause he cheated when I was the good hearted person and loyal.

So my first Arian male, Hm I learned really not to take crap from anyone after that.. it changed me alright..for better..and I always tried to lower standards but something always kept me ticking and high alert with people.

Which would probably be learning to trust, see consistency, see people actually like you and not just sex. That's when I learned to be a drill sergeant. And each experience kept adding questions I normally wouldn't ask. But now shit. 21 questions here I come.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
So my first Arian male, Hm I learned really not to take crap from anyone after that.. it changed me alright..for better..and I always tried to lower standards but something always kept me ticking and high alert with people.

Which would probably be learning to trust, see consistency, see people actually like you and not just sex. That's when I learned to be a drill sergeant. And each experience kept adding questions I normally wouldn't ask. But now shit. 21 questions here I come.

whoa whoa wait.. you're a drill sergeant?

Yeah when it comes the right one. My mom told me so. So I might lighten up abit.

Al- Yeah. And how's your celibacy going?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah when it comes the right one. My mom told me so. So I might lighten up abit.

Al- Yeah. And how's your celibacy going?

ohh lol... i feel dumb.... i thought you meant real drill sergeant......you just had my army mind going for a bit....

This celibacy thing is looking like its going to end lol..... met a scorpio girl and the sexual attraction is UNREAL... Im trying not to give in but she keeps on saying im a tease and that leo thing of wanting to prove wrong is getting the best of me... Now i feel i have to go show im not a chump.

Temptation is a bitch.. lol good luck.