Aries man dilemma...

Hi all, this is my first time posting anywhere ever. Yes?this is what an Aries man has done to me (please insert a love-stricken sigh).

I have looked through the thousands of topics on Aries men, and have not quite found a guiding post for my situation.

I met my Aries man in school about three years ago. I was immediately drawn to him for reasons only the heart can explain. I say this because he is everything I don't look for?quiet and withdrawn to the point of antisocial. It is not clear to me that he is shy or just very quiet and VERY hard to read.

The first year of school, we sat next to each and talked for hours. After the first year, we did not see each other much ? but when we did ? we talked for hours. During the three years, we never spoke on the phone or went out. I could never tell if he liked me or not. After we graduated in June, we went out twice and talked for hours ? nothing romantic happened. Two months later?he was offered a job in another state and moved.

I ended up visiting him a few weeks ago (it was not an invite?and I did not invite myself?it was so mutual it made me sick). Anyway, during the visit there was romance ? again ? it was the most mutual first kiss I have experienced. In every ?Aries Men? description?I read that they are straight forward, bold, etc. But I am utterly lost with my situation. Even after the kiss and make out session?I still don't know where I stand with him. Don't get me wrong?in any other relationship I would straight up ask about his feelings. But I can't seem to do that here?

Any help would be deeply appreciated!!!
Thank you in advance
Libra33

Geminifox:

Thanks so much for your response. Yes?Mr. Aries is in his mid 20's (I am too). I also think you may be right. He may not be ready for a girlfriend or does not want to further anything with me. He certainly has my attention?but I'm certainly not going spend any more time wondering where I stand.

I have been having one of those moments where common sense is the furthest concept from my mind. If he's serious about me he will have to show it?

No more interpreting codes and reading between the lines for me. I'm over it!

Thank you for knocking the sense back into me!!!

Thanks again!
libra33

Hi Libra33,

you are wondering where you stand. i recommend you to walk to him and tell him straightforwardly how you feel and what you two could be.

If you want to wait, then i guess you will miss the chance. We Aries aren't really good at keeping contact with friends....

Good Luck ...

Thank you Boyfromutrecht:

Funny you should say "...we Aries aren't really good at keeping contact with friends..."

He makes it clear that he does not stay in contact with anyone from highschool, college or graduate school. What he tells me is that I'm the only one he keeps up with - and I believe that.

Thank you for your advice. What's horrible is that I would be straightfoward in any other situation and for some reason I'm paralyzed with him. I guess I'm scared of scarying him...hahahahaha...wow...this guy has me crazy!