To impress Aries Man.

Hey, guys! There is this Aries guy, likes me for long time ago...We have communication, but not much (like one in every 4-months). He informed me regarding his feelings...but i just disregard it. Now, lately, i have been so lonely, coz i've just broken-up hearted for 5-months. Now, i want to move on..and i want to entertain aries guy...How can i impress him, and to love me seriously? Please need an advise..Thanks...

thanks geminifox, your advise much appreciated. i'm cancerian lady. We've been exchanging messages thru text, and recently he stop, i've tried to contact him but no answer. He is a very busy person, travelling all the time. should i stop my communication with him?

First of all, Cancers and Aries can work out fine. I'm experiencing one now 🙂

It isn't hard to impress an Aries. Wear red, and you got his attention 😄.

btw, not to put you down: It is hard to build a relation with someone you only see once in the 4 months...

By the way, we still did not dating or seeing each other, we only communicate tru phone. Thanks

hey sweetbabes,

i agree that cancer and aries can definitely work - it all depends on the two individuals - i am crazy bout an an aries guy (aries sun, pisces moon guy - i am cancer sun, leo moon) - it is long distance one -- i'm in canada and he's in the bahamas(where i am from) - i've been considering movin bk there since b4 i even met him - so there cud be a chance...but i agree with geminifox - my aries told me he likes strong women, doesn't like to feel trapped so don't be needy or naggy, give dem space and they are like children sometimes, jus be UPFRONT and say ur mind don't let them control u (cus they will try) - it can be annoyin sometimes - it's weird cus i think wut geminifox described sounds like me - hehehehe (not that that means my aries and i will work out cus of dat but they do like some women as described)- like i said it depends on the individuals involved to make it work

Good description, geminifox, it's very true! And sweetbabes, cancer and aries can work, I hate all the negativity about it, cause we have heeeeeeeaps of fun.
But indeed, it's obvious they don't want crabby crabs

How do (you as a) gemini and aries get along? 🙂

A RAM wud be jealous n insecure under normal circumstances...unless he can channel out his ENERGY into martial arts/atheletics/sports or business !

The Cancer lady i'm experiencing is strong and independent. She told me that she WAS shy and family-minded till her whole family got in a big fight.

Then she decided to live for herself. I like that. Pity she isn't much on Skype/ MSN. Gonna purpose to her to share the holiday's together.

just act like a distressed princess looking for her knight in shining armour. i asked this aries guy what he looks for in a girl and he said "a shy, fragile kinda girl". let him wear the trousers also, if u put your foot down or take charge, he will run a mile from you. aries guys love to act like "macho man" so just make him feel like he da man to d rescue

yea, see i'm kind of a gal that likes a little control so i'm tryin to ease off that but sometimes i forget - i gotta remind myself to let him feel like he's in control - but he is definitely jealous but I LOVE IT!!
Gaurav_Aries, the thing is he plays soccer everyday so i guess he channels some of it thru dat but oh my goodness if he didn't i wonder how much more jealous he cud get!! gosh! lol

my only problem wit my aries is wit his ex - he broke up wit her and is wit me now but she still thinks there is a chance for them even tho he told her its over- i mean he loves her still and he says he'll still be friends wit her (3 yr relationship)- which is cool wit me cus i am still friends wit my ex of 3 yrs BUT the thing is my ex n i are over each other - i jus worry bout his ex tryin to work her way bk into his life...other than that we get along great!!

From what I've found they like the the weak/helpless girls. The feminine thing is pretty true. They seem to like the classic ladylike look.

Thank all guys for the advises...

By the way, with all those communications i had with him..He told me about his sex fantasy. On the phone, i just said yes to everything what he wants..But the truth is, i don't like it, coz i'm not that kind of sex maniac!

Question: Do i have to make it for real, once we will meet—??

Thank all guys for the advises...

By the way, with all those communications i had with him..He told me about his sex fantasy. On the phone, i just said yes to everything what he wants..But the truth is, i don't like it, coz i'm not that kind of sex maniac!

Question: Do i have to make it for real, once we will meet—??

Thank all guys for the advises...

By the way, with all those communications i had with him..He told me about his sex fantasy. On the phone, i just said yes to everything what he wants..But the truth is, i don't like it, coz i'm not that kind of sex maniac!

Question: Do i have to make it for real, once we will meet—??

Dear guys, thanks for all the advises...

Another thing, during our communication these past few days...He told me about his sex fantasy and i just said yes to all his dreams. But honestly, i don't like it.

Question: should i do what he wants or should i fulfilled his sex fantasy when we will meet? Actually, its only between me and him.

I don't get you peeps .,.

You are all like : yeash it's normal to fuck at the first date ...

It's your OWN choice to have sex with him, Sweetbabes. But i think it's better if you don't. it's not my style to just meet someone and fuck. that's like being a hooker...

Get to know him better before you even start taking off your jacket 🙂 . i'm serious..

I agree; I think it's best to maintain some mystery...be more of a challenge for him...it will bring out his passionate/masculine energy. Be classy and don't tease him too much, but make it wait as long as possible. Besides, the sex will be much better anyway if this intense desire has been building for a long time. 😛

having sex on the first date is iffy - depends on the person u're dealing with - some ppl are strict bout not doin the deed on first date while some don't see it as anything bad
i know men that are "modernized" - they see nothing wrong with it - nowadays sexual freedom is more accepted - while some guys i kno think down on a woman that has had more than 8 sexual partners in her life

now if u're the type of woman that really cares what someone will think of u based on that then don't do stuff like that - people WILL ALWAYS judge u not matter what so make ur decisions on what works for YOU

Yeah. Personally I see nothing inherently "wrong" with doing it on the 1st date, but I don't think it's a wise move, because every single guy I've ever known (even when they're psyched that they scored or whatever) end up judging that same girl they wanted to have sex with in the first place and saying something like..."yeah she gave it up way too easy though." lol, so it's a fine line...

And when guys aren't challenged a little, they get bored! Make him work for it 😛

I really do not feel that if one chooses to not have sex on the first date that they are possibly playing games.

I enjoy sex too - I'm an Aries! 😉 however, I will not have sex on the first date with a man or the second, third or even fourth. I am not saying that having sex on the first date is wrong - it is each person's personal preference as to what they choose to do which - is... what is their "intention" with this person?

Men when desiring a long term relationship want a PRIZE and a "prize" to them is someone they have to work for (not play games with - there is a difference). Men are hunters....it is the instinctive hunt within them that they desire to experience.

Example: man wakes up one day in his cabin in the woods - he knows the deer are out and about and he wants to go a huntin' (natural instinct) As he trots out and about the biggest buck he has ever seen walks in front of him. Does he want to shoot it? yeah, he might but....he would get more excitement and thrill if he had to go out and hunt down the buck using all of his inate techniques. After hours of hunting this buck and never giving up - he finally shoots it, bags it and takes it home. He has his "prize" and by golly he worked his butt off for it! This experience will mean so much more to him than shooting the buck outside the door.

When a man has to work for a woman...and he will if he truly, truly loves her. Once he has her, he will treat her as the prize that she is. He knows what he went through and he ain't gonna give her up!

I second what Freebird said. 😛

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