Aries man moving quick! I pulled back is this right?

I met this guy and it’s only been 12 days but he has already committed to me wants to change for me and has planned some amazing dates we went on.. honestly I’m falling fast and hard.. but the cancer in me is like “hmm this is terrifying and going too fast” so I pulled back recently.. I told him in terrifying and that I want to take a step back and let him enjoy his time with family and friends and we could check in later.. just wondering if this was the right decision. I’ve read Aries move fast when they like someone a lot. It it’s jot good to give in so I’m trying to keep things from getting boring and just fizzling out because I want it for the long term and I’m also just really scared because I feel so vulnerable and open to him so quickly and I feel like I would need him and I hate needing anyone.. Uhg advice please.

Take a step back and let him enjoy his friends and family? Sounds like break up talk to me. But I think you did the right thing. Better to just say things like you don’t commit unless your sure, or that you want it to slow it down a bit. You know, say what you really mean, no mixed messages. You’ve definitley down the right thing though, you have to set the pace, I’m 100mph kinda guy, but I love it when the lady can control the pace, it’s like team work.

I’m a cancer too and this Aries guy chased me hard in January. It made me uncomfortable too so I let it fade out and he gave up. Now he’s back and trying harder than ever. It’s kind of cute. It’s nice to feel wanted, but I don’t know if I’ll give him a date.

I think you should follow your heart and do what you think is best. Love is worth the risk if you are falling for him.