Aries Man/Taurus Women (on and off)

So this is my first post on this site and I've been reading a lot and I'm really interested in what the science of Astrology can truly offer.

~ story time ~

-He is born on the 22nd of march and I'm born on the 23rd of April if this can help clear things about the following behavior from both sides-

I met this guy when he was 17 and I was 18 first semester of college, we were normal friends at first but there was always something about him that attracted me to him, mind you I had never been in a serious relationship by then just normal crushes. The second semester he was going through a hard time/mental health issues/self harm. I was there for him, the only one who knew and we grew really close but he did not want to seek professional help, one thing lead to another and I guess from how attached we were to each other he one day told me in the most sweetest way "I want to be yours", I didn't reject him but I put him off for a couple of days to think about how to work this out/if he does truly love me/or is he afraid of me leaving while he is in this mental state.

Eventually we fought a lot for 5 month and we stopped being friends, he met other people, had sex with other people, met the wrong crowd of friends and began hanging out with them and would not talk to me/refuse to fix our friendship we tried a couple of times and during those times I told him that I loved him and I wanted to be with him and he said he doesn't feel that way anymore towards anyone. I moved to another country in my third year of college and we never said goodbye. When I moved I tried again to fix things between us and he just wasn't ... he just wasn't the guy I once knew anymore. 2 years later, we're both 21/22 now he sent me a very long voice record in January explaining everything and he also sent me a video of him talking to me as if I'm the camera. He apologized for everything and explained everything and it was everything I always wanted to hear and more. When I asked him why he's doing this (I know for a fact Aries men don't apologize ) he said that he doesn't know but he knows that I'm THE BEST - best friend he ever had in his life and losing me was a regret he wanted to fix, and he wanted us to be us again the old us. It's been 4 month since that, and everything has been more than great between us, he is kinder and caring and always texts me first, asks about me, updates about his day by himself, flirts and we talk almost every day and I'm going back home in less than a month and we both agreed we want to talk about a possibility of a relationship between us.

My question and thoughts are, for me over everything that happened, I truly feel that he genuinely loves me, but he's afraid and doesn't want to mess it up. Whenever I ask him directly about his feelings towards me he says he doesn't know and that he maybe feels something but he's not sure & that's why we both agreed to talk when we see each other.

What do you guys think of all this, are we too young to know? is it meant to be? maybe I'll know when we talk and I should stop worrying and just wait till I see him?

give him a chance but make sure his words and actions are always present - don't pressure him about how he feels if he's being sincere in every other way - sometimes things are difficult to put into words. did he go on medicine for his depression - it may be that the change in mental status is due to him getting more stable but that is something you will also have to watch for

Reading this brought back memories for me- I was in almost the EXACT same situation in college with an Aries man. He ended up asking me out multiple times ha. He was a D1 athlete and started hanging out with other athletes and that’s when we started arguing and eventually we stopped speaking.

Months later he did reach out to me and years later he did apologize for what he did. We became good friends after that and still to this day he tells me and everyone else he’s going to marry me. I don’t take it serious though lol

This was a goood 5/6 years ago and tbh afterwards I was hung up and had the same questions as you do now. It’s very cliche to say but try not to overthink it(I am a Taurus woman as well so I know it’s hard) if it’s meant to be trust that it will happen at the right time.

P.s- I am currently dating an Aries man, if he hurts me he does apologize to me sincerely and even bought me flowers at work to show how bad he messed up. So they can apologize(I have an Aries Venus so I know how to play the game)

Posted by tiziani

wait till you see him.

But you also made the beginnings of your relationship sounds predatory as hell, I dunno if that was intentional. All's well that ends well.

not intentional. but I think a part of me is always scared of how messed up things were/scared of getting hurt from him again because we never fully talked about everything that happened face to face. I did accept his apologize and I know he was being sincere but my own trust issues are messing with my head & the situation. I think it's best for me to wait and see him in person as well, I hope whatever is best to happen, happens. 🙂

He actually hates my Aquarius close guy friend a lot. xD

Posted by Grounded_goddess24

Reading this brought back memories for me- I was in almost the EXACT same situation in college with an Aries man. He ended up asking me out multiple times ha. He was a D1 athlete and started hanging out with other athletes and that’s when we started arguing and eventually we stopped speaking.

Months later he did reach out to me and years later he did apologize for what he did. We became good friends after that and still to this day he tells me and everyone else he’s going to marry me. I don’t take it serious though lol

This was a goood 5/6 years ago and tbh afterwards I was hung up and had the same questions as you do now. It’s very cliche to say but try not to overthink it(I am a Taurus woman as well so I know it’s hard) if it’s meant to be trust that it will happen at the right time.

P.s- I am currently dating an Aries man, if he hurts me he does apologize to me sincerely and even bought me flowers at work to show how bad he messed up. So they can apologize(I have an Aries Venus so I know how to play the game)

wow, that's the first time someone has ever had ALMOST the same situation as me. I'm working on the not overthinking part to be honest 😄 and I hope whatever is meant to happen, happens.

I think I need to learn to let go of him as well if this doesn't work out and I also think he still needs more time discovering himself and his life because I take relationships as a serious commitment while him on the other hand made a lot of comments about being free, wild, the life of the party. He does love to tease me a lot when he goes out with friends(group of boys and girls), loves to see my jealousy thermometer rise up when he mentions others girls.

But for the time being, I'm just going to wait till we have a heart to heart conversation face to face and see what happens from there 🙂