SagGalMe
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Aries men help pleaseeeee ... should I ever listen to what you guys say 🤦♀️
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
No. Just wait. Aries men like chasing too, so leave him alone and let him come to you.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Don't be like that.
We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...
Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.
I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.
*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.
After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by macmillerPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Kinda funny cuz Libra is way worse when it comes to the lying thing. lmao still true tho
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Like all signs. But personally for me lying is the worst of the worst. Its a very big no for me and my problem is rhat when i suspect lies i am triggered and nothing will stop me till i get to the bottom of it... and i always do.
All my Aries ex partners have been compulsive liars and their mind games bore me from being so obvious 😁
I still like Aries. Love/ hate. Ying/yang.
Red flags from Aries and turn and throw them the finger.
Posted by IamTheRamPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Don't be like that.
We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...
Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.
I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.
*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.
After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.click to expand
See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats ok
Posted by Wolfhalee
Okay ima put it out there this way Aries men are very high maintenance in a sense you don't want to over do or under do anything.
Also they like to be in control of the way their life is going to go so if you tell him you would like to meet with him he will pull away and come back when he feels like it. Everything on his terms but he needs to feel like you want him so when he does come back around he isn't rejected.
They will tell you exactly what you want to hear to get what they want like someone else said. Don't make yourself so available to him but also don't over do it where he thinks you're no longer interested.
They lie hella so be prepared to hear stories you would never think someone could come up with rather just flat out telling you the truth they lie so you won't be mad at them so they can still keep you around. They like having many options to sleep around with.
and can be very selfish, play hot & cold games. Can only keep that Prince charming mask on for so long before they turn colder & blander than frozen dinners... Then they'll be warm again to get what they want...
If you're ready for this I say stick around and wait but the only thing they're really good & fun for are casual sex mates. I think that's why they're so skilled in bed they're made just for a really great night from time to time
unfortunately ... because I really love Aries but everyone I've met seem to be the same....
oh one more thing if you call them out on the behavior it'll only push them further away, they want you to act blind to their bullshit and act like it never happens or somehow make everything that occurs your fault somehow the king of gaslighting
good luck
- signed Aries lover
You took the word right out of my mouth
Posted by SmidgePosted by EvatheDiva52
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Dammit Carol. Carol from the clubclick to expand
LOL; kinda sorta. She should not have slept with him so easily
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by IamTheRamPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Don't be like that.
We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...
Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.
I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.
*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.
After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.
See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats okclick to expand
Humm...i just closed my pm box...lol...i think i am going to Aries this one out lool sorry 🙂
And tbh you don't need to tell me anything, i saw the trip picture. Let's just leave it at that ^^
As for the compulsive liars and obvious mind games...i don't know about that...but wold you actualy believe it if i told you that *we* actualy really mean the things we say ?...
As i see it, and from my perspective...most of the time, the problem is *how* to keep all that flame up...lol i know, i know you think that is a bshit of an answer lool but it really is...at least that's what i feel about this.
You know what you should have done ?...Straight up give him the finger....now that's what a woman should do !! It makes my blood boil if i want her !! God, you have no idea...haha
That's how you treat an Aries...you fight fcking Fire with Fire. And that flame..just keeps going and going...we might be a bit fcked up in the head tbh...lolol
But then again you are a Libra...and even knowing all of that about Aries...you just can't resist it lol...Let me tell you something, when it comes to matters of the *heart*...your scales plain and simply.....suck haha xD
You do what you feel you want to do at that moment, even knowing all of that, and that's it. Very similar to the Aries passion, woldn't you agree ? ^^
We all are who we are and thank god for diversity 🙂
Posted by SagGalMe
Met online with this aries guy, he tried over 6 mths texting me then i finally met him....we get along unbelievably well .... and yea stupid me we had sex the first dated, amazing.
Anyway we did keep texting the week after the first night... said he only seeing me no other girls, keep telling me why I'm so perfect, said he couldn't believe i would see him, but somehow have yet go on a second date, then anyway I sent him this message yesterday morning - “I want to see you either tomorrow / this Thursday / Sunday, if you're interested in to keep seeing me  ”.... he read then no reply since then, already 26hours now, he usually replies right away to every message
So... this case, i shall move on right ?
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its the text you sent. it doesnt sound very confident. you give three days and you say if you're interested. you a good idea to put it in a flirting way. makes it fun. 'hey hot stuff i want to see you Thursday' something like that. make it fun. everyone says they like to chase, yes they do but they like to be chased to. you just need to learn how to do it in a playful way. aries love to build up to things and get the tension really high in a playful way. he is being straight with you just you lost that playful tone in that text.
Posted by IamTheRamPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by IamTheRamPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Don't be like that.
We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...
Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.
I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.
*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.
After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.
See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats ok
Humm...i just closed my pm box...lol...i think i am going to Aries this one out lool sorry 🙂
And tbh you don't need to tell me anything, i saw the trip picture. Let's just leave it at that ^^
As for the compulsive liars and obvious mind games...i don't know about that...but wold you actualy believe it if i told you that *we* actualy really mean the things we say ?...
As i see it, and from my perspective...most of the time, the problem is *how* to keep all that flame up...lol i know, i know you think that is a bshit of an answer lool but it really is...at least that's what i feel about this.
You know what you should have done ?...Straight up give him the finger....now that's what a woman should do !! It makes my blood boil if i want her !! God, you have no idea...haha
That's how you treat an Aries...you fight fcking Fire with Fire. And that flame..just keeps going and going...we might be a bit fcked up in the head tbh...lolol
But then again you are a Libra...and even knowing all of that about Aries...you just can't resist it lol...Let me tell you something, when it comes to matters of the *heart*...your scales plain and simply.....suck haha xD
You do what you feel you want to do at that moment, even knowing all of that, and that's it. Very similar to the Aries passion, woldn't you agree ? ^^
We all are who we are and thank god for diversity 🙂click to expand
really? giving you the finger is going to make you all hot and horny? 😆 i think her text just was not playful enough and lacked confidence. i know it been a long time but you usually have better tips then that. are you loosing you touch?
@DeadInside - lol...i was frightened when I first see your comment 🤣😂🤣😂 thank god ended up all are being very helpful and nice
@Wolfhalee & @WitchmitchAries - now I know what the hack I have done so wrong, yea, he probably like what you guys said, he tried 6mth to get me out to meet him, i should have been saying in a teasing fun way or just be patient to WAITTTT (which i really couldn't that moment, wanted to see him so badly 🤦♀️) Now I'm like removed my whatsapp profile pic, that he would think that i have removed him from my contact list, he would guessed that he asked about it on our 1st date why he didn'tsee my profile pic, abd I told him i didn't save his number, then he made me save it right in front of him... so since he's actually now still on my contract list, he could see my WhatsApp story updates, which he actually been watching it these 2 days!!!! I guess... this is kind of saying he's not over me yet, right ? Anyway, that's all i have done so far...and will definitely do nothing more than what you all suggested !!
@EvatheDiva52 - that Carol story, jeez.. i have learned some tricks by reading that story now.
@Wolfhalee & @WitchmitchAries - now I know what the hack I have done so wrong, yea, he probably like what you guys said, he tried 6mth to get me out to meet him, i should have been saying in a teasing fun way or just be patient to WAITTTT (which i really couldn't that moment, wanted to see him so badly 🤦♀️) Now I'm like removed my whatsapp profile pic, that he would think that i have removed him from my contact list, he would guessed that he asked about it on our 1st date why he didn'tsee my profile pic, abd I told him i didn't save his number, then he made me save it right in front of him... so since he's actually now still on my contract list, he could see my WhatsApp story updates, which he actually been watching it these 2 days!!!! I guess... this is kind of saying he's not over me yet, right ? Anyway, that's all i have done so far...and will definitely do nothing more than what you all suggested !!
@EvatheDiva52 - that Carol story, jeez.. i have learned some tricks by reading that story now.
Posted by SagGalMe
@DeadInside - lol...i was frightened when I first see your comment 🤣😂🤣😂 thank god ended up all are being very helpful and nice
@Wolfhalee & @WitchmitchAries - now I know what the hack I have done so wrong, yea, he probably like what you guys said, he tried 6mth to get me out to meet him, i should have been saying in a teasing fun way or just be patient to WAITTTT (which i really couldn't that moment, wanted to see him so badly 🤦♀️) Now I'm like removed my whatsapp profile pic, that he would think that i have removed him from my contact list, he would guessed that he asked about it on our 1st date why he didn'tsee my profile pic, abd I told him i didn't save his number, then he made me save it right in front of him... so since he's actually now still on my contract list, he could see my WhatsApp story updates, which he actually been watching it these 2 days!!!! I guess... this is kind of saying he's not over me yet, right ? Anyway, that's all i have done so far...and will definitely do nothing more than what you all suggested !!
@EvatheDiva52 - that Carol story, jeez.. i have learned some tricks by reading that story now.
i am dealing with my own aries guy. i feel for you. Big Hug.
Posted by SagGalMe
@DeadInside - lol...i was frightened when I first see your comment 🤣😂🤣😂 thank god ended up all are being very helpful and nice
@Wolfhalee & @WitchmitchAries - now I know what the hack I have done so wrong, yea, he probably like what you guys said, he tried 6mth to get me out to meet him, i should have been saying in a teasing fun way or just be patient to WAITTTT (which i really couldn't that moment, wanted to see him so badly 🤦♀️) Now I'm like removed my whatsapp profile pic, that he would think that i have removed him from my contact list, he would guessed that he asked about it on our 1st date why he didn'tsee my profile pic, abd I told him i didn't save his number, then he made me save it right in front of him... so since he's actually now still on my contract list, he could see my WhatsApp story updates, which he actually been watching it these 2 days!!!! I guess... this is kind of saying he's not over me yet, right ? Anyway, that's all i have done so far...and will definitely do nothing more than what you all suggested !!
@EvatheDiva52 - that Carol story, jeez.. i have learned some tricks by reading that story now.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
The aries i've been seeing says a lot of bullshit to me, always telling me how beautiful I am, he loves my hair ect ect but I can tell he just says that to all the women he's probably seeing. I directly asked him if he was seeing anyone else to see if he would tell me the truth and he was pretty avoidant so I told him I would keep my other options open. He then was like thats not what I said but didn't give any clarity so I just didn't bother replying. Its been about four days now and I haven't heard from him and I'm not going to txt him. I don't deal with liars after my Sag ex...
I also don't play second to other women...
I also don't play second to other women...
Posted by EvatheDiva52
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Has he been chasing you ever since you've been ignoring him??
Posted by tizianiPosted by DeadInside
i feel like the dxp team gonna bully u
It's mild nowadays.
I remember the days when all the OP had to say was "I had sex on the first date" and women would come in lining up to call her dumb and worthless.click to expand
Its fine if you choose to have sex on the first date, defo doesn't make you worthless but as long as you have no expectations after. A lot of men will loose interest after and thats a fact.
Posted by tizianiPosted by MissMPosted by tizianiPosted by DeadInside
i feel like the dxp team gonna bully u
It's mild nowadays.
I remember the days when all the OP had to say was "I had sex on the first date" and women would come in lining up to call her dumb and worthless.
Its fine if you choose to have sex on the first date, defo doesn't make you worthless but as long as you have no expectations after. A lot of men will loose interest after and thats a fact.
Then they likely never had any genuine interest to begin with, so nothing is lost.click to expand
Exactly, its hard to have a genuine interest in someone after one date though...
Posted by MissMPosted by EvatheDiva52
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Has he been chasing you ever since you've been ignoring him??click to expand
Nope, I have not gone to Wild West in over six months. He took me Friday night (first and only date I had w/him) to Midnight Rodeo. All my friends approved of him (he's 6'6").....I LOVE a tall drink of water! Anywhoo, my advisor informed me to go out again after I return from Washington, DC (TDY 18-21 Nov 18). I'm gonna paint the town red on 1 December!!!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by IamTheRamPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by IamTheRamPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Don't be like that.
We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...
Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.
I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.
*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.
After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.
See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats ok
Humm...i just closed my pm box...lol...i think i am going to Aries this one out lool sorry 🙂
And tbh you don't need to tell me anything, i saw the trip picture. Let's just leave it at that ^^
As for the compulsive liars and obvious mind games...i don't know about that...but wold you actualy believe it if i told you that *we* actualy really mean the things we say ?...
As i see it, and from my perspective...most of the time, the problem is *how* to keep all that flame up...lol i know, i know you think that is a bshit of an answer lool but it really is...at least that's what i feel about this.
You know what you should have done ?...Straight up give him the finger....now that's what a woman should do !! It makes my blood boil if i want her !! God, you have no idea...haha
That's how you treat an Aries...you fight fcking Fire with Fire. And that flame..just keeps going and going...we might be a bit fcked up in the head tbh...lolol
But then again you are a Libra...and even knowing all of that about Aries...you just can't resist it lol...Let me tell you something, when it comes to matters of the *heart*...your scales plain and simply.....suck haha xD
You do what you feel you want to do at that moment, even knowing all of that, and that's it. Very similar to the Aries passion, woldn't you agree ? ^^
We all are who we are and thank god for diversity 🙂click to expand
This makes sense.. my ram keeps coming back and when we talk its either passionate about a topic or borderline fighting our communication is always fire-y.. I blame my leo sun.. but we have tons of fun together.. I just noticed our "fire" keeps the spark alive even after almost 1 year together.
Posted by SmidgePosted by EvatheDiva52
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Dammit Carol. Carol from the clubclick to expand
How is she guilty of anything? 👀
Posted by Cancerleo91Posted by IamTheRamPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by IamTheRamPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Aries will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. Id move on now. They lie way too much for my liking
Don't be like that.
We all do *what we must* in order to *try to get* what we want, woldn't you agree with me ?...
Because when we want something, we can really go that far...and we are oposites...but oposites are only oposites because we share a similarity, otherwise, we wold be plain diferent.
I dunno if the Aries that got you *so mad* is the same that we once spoke of, but if it is the same guy........be reasonable.
*Hate* towards him won't get you anywhere Queen. We all make choices. At best, you should hate your choice...not him. That's how we get up and how we move again, by realising our *own mistakes*.
After all, being self centered does come with some good perks from now and then.
See my reply to macmiller and i will pm you if thats ok
Humm...i just closed my pm box...lol...i think i am going to Aries this one out lool sorry 🙂
And tbh you don't need to tell me anything, i saw the trip picture. Let's just leave it at that ^^
As for the compulsive liars and obvious mind games...i don't know about that...but wold you actualy believe it if i told you that *we* actualy really mean the things we say ?...
As i see it, and from my perspective...most of the time, the problem is *how* to keep all that flame up...lol i know, i know you think that is a bshit of an answer lool but it really is...at least that's what i feel about this.
You know what you should have done ?...Straight up give him the finger....now that's what a woman should do !! It makes my blood boil if i want her !! God, you have no idea...haha
That's how you treat an Aries...you fight fcking Fire with Fire. And that flame..just keeps going and going...we might be a bit fcked up in the head tbh...lolol
But then again you are a Libra...and even knowing all of that about Aries...you just can't resist it lol...Let me tell you something, when it comes to matters of the *heart*...your scales plain and simply.....suck haha xD
You do what you feel you want to do at that moment, even knowing all of that, and that's it. Very similar to the Aries passion, woldn't you agree ? ^^
We all are who we are and thank god for diversity 🙂
This makes sense.. my ram keeps coming back and when we talk its either passionate about a topic or borderline fighting our communication is always fire-y.. I blame my leo sun.. but we have tons of fun together.. I just noticed our "fire" keeps the spark alive even after almost 1 year together.click to expand
Yeah...communication is most def the biggest issue on a this combo 🙂
Kinda fucked up, isn't it ?! haha But it's not like you didn't read anywhere that this wold actualy be the biggest issue with this combo lol
And we can really say the meanest things to each other..lol like, veryyyyyyyyyy mean ^^ But does it matter in the end what we say ?... ^^
Like everything else, the discussions do have it's good parts ^^ Yet another oportunity to *conquer* her again...yet another oportunity to be *conquered*...so the flame keeps going on ^^
And before you know it, everyone else looks just....plain.......boring lol 🙂
I know this sounds way to poetic, but yeah...it's kinda like that, isn't it ? hehe ^^
So guys.... thanks been keeping up with my thread
And obviously he's really back after 2 weeks of disappearance... tho he's constantly checking out my WhatsApp status.
And he finally commented and at the end was the conversation, so anyway, I am not that really have to get him, but i would like to really figure out how to keep the aries interested, as i just always, literally always meet Aries guys😂🤣
Him：How's your night going
Me：Good 🙂
Him：Are you still out
Me：Yes
Him：Hahaha
Him：Hard-core
~15mins later~
Him：Where are you
Me：bar
Him：You want to come over
Me：No : )
Him：Awww
Him：😞
Him：Would have been good to see you
Me：If 2 weeks earlier : )
Him：Awww
Him：Let me make it upto you with a big cuddle
Me：I'm sure some pretty girls could do that instead😊
Him：Aww true but would it be as nice
😊 (in my head i was like what the fuck!!!!!!!!)
~15mins later~
Him：So will I See You soon
Me：If you keen to, we will have to see
Him：Fingers crossed
Me：Seems someone not very interested 😏😏
~~Next Day~~
Him：Defo interested
Him：Pics from last night (my wtsapp status) are stunning babe
Me：I know ; ) for my birthday week
Him：Awww
Him：What date are you?
Him：😘
Me：Very disappointed lol
Him：Date . . ?
What you guys think about my replies ? I seriously have no idea what to dooooo
And obviously he's really back after 2 weeks of disappearance... tho he's constantly checking out my WhatsApp status.
And he finally commented and at the end was the conversation, so anyway, I am not that really have to get him, but i would like to really figure out how to keep the aries interested, as i just always, literally always meet Aries guys😂🤣
Him：How's your night going
Me：Good 🙂
Him：Are you still out
Me：Yes
Him：Hahaha
Him：Hard-core
~15mins later~
Him：Where are you
Me：bar
Him：You want to come over
Me：No : )
Him：Awww
Him：😞
Him：Would have been good to see you
Me：If 2 weeks earlier : )
Him：Awww
Him：Let me make it upto you with a big cuddle
Me：I'm sure some pretty girls could do that instead😊
Him：Aww true but would it be as nice
😊 (in my head i was like what the fuck!!!!!!!!)
~15mins later~
Him：So will I See You soon
Me：If you keen to, we will have to see
Him：Fingers crossed
Me：Seems someone not very interested 😏😏
~~Next Day~~
Him：Defo interested
Him：Pics from last night (my wtsapp status) are stunning babe
Me：I know ; ) for my birthday week
Him：Awww
Him：What date are you?
Him：😘
Me：Very disappointed lol
Him：Date . . ?
What you guys think about my replies ? I seriously have no idea what to dooooo
Posted by EvatheDiva52Posted by SmidgePosted by EvatheDiva52
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Dammit Carol. Carol from the club
LOL; kinda sorta. She should not have slept with him so easily
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
I don’t understand moral of this bullshit story.
Where is the lesson in it? That Carol slept with him and he isnt with her and you haven’t slept with him and he is not with you?
And why if he isn’t with Carol you consider to be second to another woman? Is there logic in this...mess of your mind? 🤷♀️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvatheDiva52Posted by SmidgePosted by EvatheDiva52
An Aries man will come full force! (if he's interested). I ignored the crap out of one when I learned on my own he slept with a friend of mine (Carol) from the club about two years ago. They were dancing like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor for hours! Six months later I saw him at the club (no Carol); and he asked me to dance. I said, 'Yes". He mentioned, "You're friends with Carol, right?" I said, "Yes". We exchanged numbers (this time, it was my turn to be "Ginger"). We made plans for a date and I accepted; mind you, we talked for hours on the phone. Friday night we went out for dinner and then a "different" C&W club; all this time I was like, "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, why didn't he take me out to _____ club and why not ask me out Saturday night to take me to said club??". I brushed it off. After the club he took me back home. We kissed and I showed him to the door. He said, "What's going on?" I said, "I am saying good night to you. Call me when you get home" (never tell an Aries man what to do); he texted me instead.
The next night (Saturday) I stayed home, BUT my 6th sense told me he went out that Saturday night to the same club he met Carol. I went out next pay day and when I saw Carol hanging out w/my other friends and the Aries standing at the opposite side of club; they were ignoring one another. Aha! My 6th sense kicked in again (yeah, they slept together). Well, I went to the next pay day weekend to the same club and low and behold the Aries was there (no carol again). He kept eyeing me and I moved to the other side; he followed; I moved about three times until I said, "Fuck this! I am no one's sloppy seconds!" I left the club and went elsewhere. It's been over six months since I've patroned that club.
Morale of the story; yeah, Aries men have a little black book (carve notches on their bedposts, etc). If you ignore him AND he's interested, he will come to you.
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Dammit Carol. Carol from the club
LOL; kinda sorta. She should not have slept with him so easily
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I don’t understand moral of this bullshit story.
Where is the lesson in it? That Carol slept with him and he isnt with her and you haven’t slept with him and he is not with you?
And why if he isn’t with Carol you consider to be second to another woman? Is there logic in this...mess of your mind? 🤷♀️click to expand
Lol thats Eva with the Carol situation. Its a different person. But honestly by those msgs he's just looking to get laid. What time did he txt you? Must have been late, you shouldn't have replied till the next day
Posted by SagGalMe
Met online with this aries guy, he tried over 6 mths texting me then i finally met him....we get along unbelievably well .... and yea stupid me we had sex the first dated, amazing.
Anyway we did keep texting the week after the first night... said he only seeing me no other girls, keep telling me why I'm so perfect, said he couldn't believe i would see him, but somehow have yet go on a second date, then anyway I sent him this message yesterday morning - “I want to see you either tomorrow / this Thursday / Sunday, if you're interested in to keep seeing me  ”.... he read then no reply since then, already 26hours now, he usually replies right away to every message
So... this case, i shall move on right ?
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Hope I don’t answer this too late but why are you giving him 3 choice to pick from which feels manipulative. You could have just said I wanna see you.. problem solved.
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So... this case, i shall move on right ?
.