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I told my Aries bf of 3 months that I love him last night..and he said "do you mean that"?! Whaaaaaat?
MananaMay 22, 2018 6:57am
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  • I told my Aries bf of 3 months that I love him last night..and he said "do you mean that"?! Whaaaaaat? I was surprised and kinda offended Sad
  • AriesJo
    Aries Sun, Aries Moon, Capricorn Rising
    Not great, but it’s ok. Aries don’t open up that easily, they still have to be a man about things. At the end of the day, actions speak louder than words, that’s where it really counts.
  • AriesJo
    Aries Sun, Aries Moon, Capricorn Rising
    At least he didn’t say “I love spending time with you” lol
  • besarlalluvia
    fishy caught on a hook
    girl. 3 months. are u the aries here??
  • I won't say it again..it took real guts for me to say it at all. He shows it, in all kinds of ways...I was just expressing it verbally.
  • Yeah that's not good. My Aries asked me did I love him and I said yes and he said he loved me too and this was after 1 month. If he really loved you, he would have certainly said it back for sure and the fact that it's been 3 months and he hasn't said it is also a red flag.

    Aries don't drag their feet with anyone or anything they want or is serious about and he just basically let you know where you stand with him. So if you're wanting a serious relationship, I would move on before he finds someone he wants to commit too and dump you as he's made it clear he doesn't feel that way about you.
  • AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
    Male, England. ♉️ Sun & Asc, ♋️ Moon
    What did you say next? Was he being chickeny when he said it or is he just looking for reassurance?
  • xoxflute
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    Posted by Manana
    I told my Aries bf of 3 months that I love him last night..and he said "do you mean that"?! Whaaaaaat? I was surprised and kinda offended

    I think you may have just surprised him.....
  • He said it was that nobody had ever told him that and meant it..he's only ever been treated like crap. But now he's the one that says it all the time smile He's might be more insecure than he let's on.
  • AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
    Male, England. ♉️ Sun & Asc, ♋️ Moon
    Posted by Manana
    He said it was that nobody had ever told him that and meant it..he's only ever been treated like crap. But now he's the one that says it all the time He's might be more insecure than he let's on.


    So you’re all cool now? That’s good news 😊
  • LadyNeptune
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    Posted by Manana
    I told my Aries bf of 3 months that I love him last night..and he said "do you mean that"?! Whaaaaaat? I was surprised and kinda offended


    Yeah I agree with him. 90 days is crazy fast to be saying “I love you”.

    Like, really? How do you know?? You don’t even know me that well. Are your standards really that low. Just fall in love with anyone...

    That’s what I’d be thinking. I have earth Venus and mars tho so I don’t trust things that move fast.
  • I know myself, that's how I know.

    I think we're cool, I put it out there because I wanted to. I hate these lads mag advices "3/6/100 months is too soon" and "wait for a guy to say it first". All bullbutter, I felt it so I said it!
  • Teena
    #TakingPleasureSeriously
    female
    Lol! That's kinda what I did recently too.
    Him- "I love you"
    Me - "erm are you sure?"
    And we went on n on about it for a lil more while. I wasn't looking for reassurance. It's more like all kinds of mixed feelings and I only want to make sure if he actually is certain about what he feels before I feel/say something about it.
    And I don't think three months is too soon. Sometimes it can only take days and only you know and can define what you feel. Goodluck!
  • I would NEVER have said it if I didn't mean it. I'm the most unemotional person ever! But this guy is the one for me smile
  • Teena
    #TakingPleasureSeriously
    female
    Posted by Manana
    I would NEVER have said it if I didn't mean it. I'm the most unemotional person ever! But this guy is the one for me


    Sounds great. Haffun ❤️ smile
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