@Cancerleo91
8 Years
Can an Aries man go without sex for long periods of time?
What's his mars?
Posted by TaurusFlower22
What's his mars?
Scorpio
Posted by TaurusFlower22
What's his mars?Scorpio click to expand
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Hmmm...
His lower libido could be health related.
Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues? Death of a loved one?
Have you told him you want him more? Maybe he does want you more often but doesn't know how to express that to you without coming off like a horny freak. Either lead him to your glory hole, or tell him to go there and don't come back til you're happy 😁 I think it's important to express if you want anything to change. If he is under great deals of stress, this could be a factor but it could also be a nice release for him if he can let himself go. Just talk to him. Tell him how much you want him. I'd get turned on if the person i was with did that and I'm a Scorpio mars 😈
Posted by LadyNeptune
His lower libido could be health related.Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues?
Lots of stress. Los job had to move and his sisters husband recently passed away so he’s helping his sister deal with everything and renovate her house.
Posted by LadyNeptune
His lower libido could be health related.Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues? Death of a loved one?
The reason he has been gone for the month is to help his sister deal with the death and fix her house while he also deals with the loss as he was close to the husband
Posted by LadyNeptune
His lower libido could be health related.Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues? Death of a loved one?
The reason he has been gone for the month is to help his sister deal with the death and fix her house while he also deals with the loss as he was close to the husband click to expand
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Wow ok yeah that’s a lot.
Maybe just let him know your there for him and he can depend on you.
I feel your pain. Sex is so vital to me. I need to be able to connect with my partner physically in order to keep that feeling of closeness, intimacy. Do you initiate at all?
Posted by LadyNeptune
His lower libido could be health related.Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues? Death of a loved one?
The reason he has been gone for the month is to help his sister deal with the death and fix her house while he also deals with the loss as he was close to the husband click to expand
Wow ok yeah that’s a lot.
Maybe just let him know your there for him and he can depend on you.I feel your pain. Sex is so vital to me. I need to be able to connect with my partner physically in order to keep that feeling of closeness, intimacy. Do you initiate at all? click to expand
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Well that’s the thing he is out of state.. has been for weeks so I’m just wondering if he would have to cheat. He doesn’t seem to fit typical Aries traits because since we’ve been together I’ve wanted to do it way more than him.. he has a high enough sex drive but it’s like once a day and I need it more than that but all this has happened since we first started dating 3 months ago so its been hard for me but I figured stress was why.. just wondering if he would need to cheat to release or if he is just ok going without for the next few weeks
Posted by Invisible
have you considered:1) sexual or intimacy trauma?
2) romantically preferring one thing, but sexually another (lacking sexual attraction?)
3) health related - stress, diabetes, addictions, drugs - legal or illegal, hormone levels, age
Any of these can lower a man's sex drive. If you think this is a deal breaker for you, you might consider moving on instead of trying to "fix" or "change" the man because there is about zero possibility of that happening. If you think you can live with it then just accept it without pressuring him, otherwise it could backfire on you.
I’d never want to change someone I accept him for who he is.. just curious on if as an Aries he’d be prone to cheat or if this situation could kill his sex drive while he’s apart from me in a different state.
Posted by LadyNeptune
His lower libido could be health related.Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues? Death of a loved one?
The reason he has been gone for the month is to help his sister deal with the death and fix her house while he also deals with the loss as he was close to the husband click to expand
Wow ok yeah that’s a lot.
Maybe just let him know your there for him and he can depend on you.I feel your pain. Sex is so vital to me. I need to be able to connect with my partner physically in order to keep that feeling of closeness, intimacy. Do you initiate at all? click to expand
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It’s super vital to me too lol and yeah he is gone out of state and in typical Aries manner he barely calls and when we talk he’s distracted talking about what he’s doing and I just don’t feel connected to him at all but I understand it would be difficult to feel connected in this situation just don’t want him to end up cheating if that would be normal
Anything can happen when the stars are aligned.
The only thing you can do is not worry and stay true to yourself.
Posted by rejuvenatedheart
In my experience, Aries men are very, vet loyal and generally stick to their guns. I've never met a single Aries of any gender who has cheated. They take loyalty very seriously.
i on the other hand know at least three lol
Posted by rejuvenatedheart
In my experience, Aries men are very, vet loyal and generally stick to their guns. I've never met a single Aries of any gender who has cheated. They take loyalty very seriously.i on the other hand know at least three lol click to expand
... Mm.
What were their Venus and Mars placements? Do you know, by any chance? click to expand
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i remember the one who was interested in dating / trying to hook up with me was a triple Aries.
Posted by LadyNeptune
His lower libido could be health related.Is he going though a stressful time at work? Any health issues? Death of a loved one?
I think this too..
mars in scorpio no sex— I want it like 5 times a day lol
But also if I need to control it I can. We are all about that control...sometimes 😄
I feel your pain as I've date man guys with sex issues and low libidos...
Honestly it doesn't really change. You usually have to either accept that or find someone who's as passionate as you.
I am friends with an Aries sun with a Scorpio moon. After his last relationship 5 years ago, he has not done sex with any girl.
Not even a night stand. I asked him if he ever tried to do it, but he said it just did not felt right for him. Even thou he was closed to doing a fling, he reconsidered the opportunity and just rejected the offer.
Posted by WeetzieBat
OP, I think you're gonna drive yourself crazy with this question. You can't prevent it if it's going to happen, so instead of trying to guess if it's going to, just assume it's not unless he says or does something suspicious. If you're suspicious before he even does anything, he'll resent that.
Yeah.. surprisingly that’s what I’ve been doing since I posted lol just gonna go with the flow. He’s gotten a little more clingy so I feel like he misses me. He told me his sisters son said choosing me was the best idea he’s had lol and today he told me he had a dream he was flying to get to me. He’s had flying dreams before but he recently had a more detailed one and in it he was trying to get to me. So sweet.. and he has been really receptive to the fact that I don’t call him much. I wish we’d talk more but I’m not reaching out all the time. I sometimes will call during my lunch break on some days but it’s never routine I just let him reach out to me if he has time and I just chose random times to reach out if I want to.. if he doesn’t answer I don’t try to reach him anymore until he calls me back. We have been talking like crazy about projects we want to start.. he’s into art and music so always sending me drawing ideas or lyrics or showing me a new dj mix he made and I’ve been staying busy with hobbies and trying to lose weight.. but I make sure to be there for him When he does call. It’s been really nice being with him. He comes home soon too so I’m really excited for that. Bought some new lingerie and gonna play coy to seduce him since he gets turned on faster that way? Rather than my Leo nature which makes me want to pounce as soon as I see him.
I’m curious as to what your sign is, cancer sun leo moon? I dont hear about cancer/Aries couples often.
Posted by haunt
I’m curious as to what your sign is, cancer sun leo moon? I dont hear about cancer/Aries couples often.
I’m a Leo sub July 23, but have cancer tendencies so at the center of the cusp. Rising is Aquarius, moon is Capricorn. Don’t know mars I need to look it up. Venus is Virgo.
He is Aries sun, Aries moon, Taurus rising, Venus in Pisces, and mars is Scorpio.
Posted by haunt
I’m curious as to what your sign is, cancer sun leo moon? I dont hear about cancer/Aries couples often.
It's fun but you kinda have to let them have their way and they can be really mean when angry.. you can piss them off and not know how or why. Also you have to chase them so most crabs can't deal.
As friends they are straight forward, honest and loyal tho.. every crab lady should have a aries friend.
Posted by Superman77
I’d say just try to relax and breathe.If he’s clingy, he’s missing you and that’s a really good sign that he’s being loyal. I wouldn’t get in a panic at this point.
He’s probably getting worked up over the same issue. He knows you have a sizable sex drive and he’s not there to do anything about it.
That makes sense.. yeah I’m just gonna relas and let it go lol and just wait for him to come home.
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I’m talking weeks to months? I’m with my guy and I feel like I have a higher sex drive than him as we aren’t doing it as much as I’d want to.. but then he had to go visit family for a month and I’m just wondering I heard Aries can’t go without sex that they have a huge sex drive.. im struggling without him but I’m loyal so can push thru it; but would he be able to? Or would he be trying to have sex with someone else? He has Taurus rising and Aries moon.