@Cancerleo91
8 Years
Aries man: Naive to macho
Posted by Ophiuchus_SerpentariusSTUBBORN PIECES OF SHIT, shut them down in the same way they treat you, with ignorance, yell at them in the same anger..
If you can’t stand the heat.. then get out the kitchen
Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it
The woman said the same thing about frank sinatra: I dont know whether I should mother him or f uck him. He was an Aries.
Posted by Sag898Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it
With mine it isn't neccesarily when he doesn't get his way.. but if I speak to him in a way that isn't loving? Like if I criticize him I see a whole different side of him. Or when we did break it up it was because of me starting a conversation like "I don't think this is gonna work, me and you" like that phrase set him the fuck off... he doesn't like anything that threatens our relationship or hurts him and he does not like direct criticism I have to soften it a lot.
Posted by ParkourlerThe woman said the same thing about frank sinatra: I dont know whether I should mother him or f uck him. He was an Aries.
Um he was a sagittarius
Posted by ParkourlerThe woman said the same thing about frank sinatra: I dont know whether I should mother him or f uck him. He was an Aries.
Makes sense lol
Posted by Cancerleo91Posted by Sag898Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it
With mine it isn't neccesarily when he doesn't get his way.. but if I speak to him in a way that isn't loving? Like if I criticize him I see a whole different side of him. Or when we did break it up it was because of me starting a conversation like "I don't think this is gonna work, me and you" like that phrase set him the fuck off... he doesn't like anything that threatens our relationship or hurts him and he does not like direct criticism I have to soften it a lot.click to expand
Yep. Like pissed. I refuse to be anything but upfront though at this point with such things. You can either hang or not
Posted by SmidgePosted by Cancerleo91Posted by Sag898Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it
With mine it isn't neccesarily when he doesn't get his way.. but if I speak to him in a way that isn't loving? Like if I criticize him I see a whole different side of him. Or when we did break it up it was because of me starting a conversation like "I don't think this is gonna work, me and you" like that phrase set him the fuck off... he doesn't like anything that threatens our relationship or hurts him and he does not like direct criticism I have to soften it a lot.
How did you expect him to react to saying you don't wanna be with him anymore? like... oh yeah cool, no worries bye
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Well I wasn't trying to not be with him.. I was trying to talk to him but was super frustrated at that point that the conversation started very badly and I definitely learned from that mistake lol it was not a good experience and I will never be doing that again.
Posted by Cancerleo91Posted by SmidgePosted by Cancerleo91Posted by Sag898Aries men are harsh as hell when they don't get what they want. I was very taken back by it
With mine it isn't neccesarily when he doesn't get his way.. but if I speak to him in a way that isn't loving? Like if I criticize him I see a whole different side of him. Or when we did break it up it was because of me starting a conversation like "I don't think this is gonna work, me and you" like that phrase set him the fuck off... he doesn't like anything that threatens our relationship or hurts him and he does not like direct criticism I have to soften it a lot.
How did you expect him to react to saying you don't wanna be with him anymore? like... oh yeah cool, no worries bye
Well I wasn't trying to not be with him.. I was trying to talk to him but was super frustrated at that point that the conversation started very badly and I definitely learned from that mistake lol it was not a good experience and I will never be doing that again.
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I will also state that in the past this is how me and my ex communicated.. whenever I got frustrated doing conversations like this was the only way he would actually hear me and try to listen.. he was very abusive mentally and emotionally and I was constantly trying to leave the relationship.. but in this new relationship I didn't realize I had carried this baggage over.. until the argument happened and I almost lost him and that's when I realized I needed to fix this and not do that again.
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Something I’ve noticed that is fascinating about the Aries men I’ve been seeing is how they can go from seeming super boyish.. innocent.. naive to strong, sexy, etc. the switch is instant but obvious. Is anyone else aware of this? I go from feeling like super nurturing and needing to take care and protect him to feeling like submissive and feeling super taken care of. It’s pretty great, keeps things interesting.