Aries woman confused by Leo man

I will be brutally honest with you. This is a recipe for disaster. You are a MARRIED woman, with kids. You may have an attraction, but keep it professional. Just avoid him and stop contacting him. You know the answer to your own question. and WHY would you contact his gf? You don't know her and you have no right to do something like that, it's crossing boundaries. Also you criticizing her on her looks...I'm sorry but you have no right to do that either. He's a dude looking for some pussy on the side, and you are getting emotionally involved with this dumbass. Also, Leos love having their egos stroked, no matter what the source is, he just wanted attention, and probably wanted a therapist for his pathetic ass. The thing that you did wrong was...you mixed emotion with business, and you crossed the line with him already. He's not innocent either, but this is just pure foolishness. Instead of worrying about him, worry about your kids.

I think what you two have is beyond friendly and inappropriate. Maybe this is just a sign/warning for you to stay in your lane. You've been given another chance to control yourself lol. I may be overreacting but I don't fall for the ''we're just friends'' crap.

fck your daughter has cancer, and you're worrying about this fool? Are you serious? I'm usually polite to people, you know being Canadian and all, but what the fuck? Using your own child to manipulate the situation smdh. I think the issue is: you lack common sense. But common sense is not so common anymore..Voltaire was a wise man. If this is a troll thread, you did a good job. If it isn't, you just confirmed my belief that retards breed like rabbits.

Posted by biosynthesis
I will be brutally honest with you. This is a recipe for disaster. You are a MARRIED woman, with kids. You may have an attraction, but keep it professional. Just avoid him and stop contacting him. You know the answer to your own question. and WHY would you contact his gf? You don't know her and you have no right to do something like that, it's crossing boundaries. Also you criticizing her on her looks...I'm sorry but you have no right to do that either. He's a dude looking for some pussy on the side, and you are getting emotionally involved with this dumbass. Also, Leos love having their egos stroked, no matter what the source is, he just wanted attention, and probably wanted a therapist for his pathetic ass. The thing that you did wrong was...you mixed emotion with business, and you crossed the line with him already. He's not innocent either, but this is just pure foolishness. Instead of worrying about him, worry about your kids.

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
I'm embarrassed for you. He was venting to you about his personal situations and you crossed a line by reaching out to his gf.

Plus you're leaving out important details. This isn't all that happened.

Yup.

Posted by biosynthesis
I will be brutally honest with you. This is a recipe for disaster. You are a MARRIED woman, with kids. You may have an attraction, but keep it professional. Just avoid him and stop contacting him. You know the answer to your own question. and WHY would you contact his gf? You don't know her and you have no right to do something like that, it's crossing boundaries. Also you criticizing her on her looks...I'm sorry but you have no right to do that either. He's a dude looking for some pussy on the side, and you are getting emotionally involved with this dumbass. Also, Leos love having their egos stroked, no matter what the source is, he just wanted attention, and probably wanted a therapist for his pathetic ass. The thing that you did wrong was...you mixed emotion with business, and you crossed the line with him already. He's not innocent either, but this is just pure foolishness. Instead of worrying about him, worry about your kids.

+2

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
If I was out with some work buddies blowing off steam and one of the dudes called my man to see if I made it home...Id knock their ass out. Like seriously? Lol what gave you the audacity to do that? Because he wasn't answering your texts.

You know she only did that because she wanted to cause drama. She got angry.... It's sad...

Damn, she hid the OP.

Someone want to fill a girl in on what happened?

Please. 😄

Oh, wow, that's heavy. I agree with everyone here, just forget about him.

Thanks for the recap.

Shyt, since your being so free with money. Fuawk, i could use $ 800. I have paypal

Posted by Libralula
She's 28 married with a daughter who is ill
She met a guy at work 25 who is involved with a fat girlfriend who he is just with to use for financial reasons
They hang out a few times, she even gives him 800 for a plane ticket for a family emergency
They chat/im alot.

One day they went out together for drinks was it?
He vented to her about his issues, then he after he was not responding to her messages, so she decided to text His girlfriend to see if he made it home okay,
After that he didnt want to contact her anymore, he didn't give her a direct reason why i believe which is upsetting her still, she sent two last messages, one about how upset she was and the other to tell him that her daughter just did chemo in hopes to get him to talk to her, he never responded she wanted to know why was he acting this way/how to make it like before

In this case she caused him home problems is the answer to why he is not texting her back.

OP: He could always just call your husband and tell him about the plane ticket, the encounters, and the non work related partying...sounds terrible right, but that is what you wanted the girlfriend to know from you end. Add that dynamic to you with a sick child and all. Yea he isn't as much of an asshole if you look in the mirror and see that he got what he wanted with his story and doesn't care to get into the mess that is your situation. See the $ 800 as a gift and close the book on this situation.

His 'fat girlfriend' and life in general is not your issue, your child with cancer needing a mother is. What if you lost that child while you were out with this person or in some other situation that wasn't necessary? Even if your marriage is done have the decency to be there for that baby and separate from your spouse as cordially as possible. If you have no plans of ending your marriage get counseling so you two can mend whatever it is that is lacking.