Aries woman needs help with Virgo man

Hello Aries my Virgo guy and I had a four month fling and he's back. We recently had a study date we had conversations, listened to music, and laughed. He offered me a drink and snacks and helped me stretch. During our conversations he sat close our legs touched would look in my eyes and I'll just turn away because he's incredibly handsome and his eyes mesmerize me not to mention he was teasing me causing me to blush. He helped me stretch my legs due to my outdoor activities my legs are always sore and to return the favor I have him a massage and he loved it. After that I felt I was getting close again and was making conversation so it wouldn't be awkward when I left.. He says I'm funny and I definitely was making him laugh and vice versa. We never bring up a relationship or anything like that ..not even during our four month fling which confuses me but at the same time being an Aries this is a challenge and I'm taking it all in learning and trying to find out how I'm going to get him to ask me out. When I was packing my bags he came close to me and picked me up and we had sex but this time he pleaded me and done things to me he's never done before. I know when we weren't talking he was talking to other girls however I was talking to other guys now that he's back in my life as adults I want to clarify where we stand but I fear rejection from him because opposites attract and I have my eyes set on him

Sounds potentially messy.