Aries Woman Taurus Man

This topic was created in the Aries forum by AriesSweetness on Thursday, April 4, 2013 and has 4 replies.

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@Love366
14 YearsAries

Posted by AriesSweetness
My Taurus guy has me spinning. I'm usually in control of my feelings and pretty keen on how someone feels about me. This guy does enough to get me interested, and then disappears for a few days. Sneaks back into my life and leaves again. I try not to respond but I eventually give-up because he keeps texting and calling begging me to talk to him, he's so persistent. When we're together, I have so much fun, and feel really loved. I'm beginning to loose respect for him, because he may be playing head games. How do you handle a guy like this.

He likes attention, negative or positive.

When he acts dumb give him no attention...
When he acts right...give him lots of attention.

OR, leave him alone.

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@AriesSweetness
13 Years

Posted by sugaries
He disappears how? He ignores you or just doesn't initiate contact? Maybe he's just busy? Have you slept together? Is their any commitment here or are you just in the beginning stages of dating?

Thanks for that input sugaries! I'd never considered asking myself those questions. He mostly ignores me, because he's busy, and he stays away from commitment, at this point of our relationship, too early.
I think we have different relationship tempos, and his tempo would drive me crazy.

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@AriesSweetness
13 Years

Posted by Love366

Posted by AriesSweetness
My Taurus guy has me spinning. I'm usually in control of my feelings and pretty keen on how someone feels about me. This guy does enough to get me interested, and then disappears for a few days. Sneaks back into my life and leaves again. I try not to respond but I eventually give-up because he keeps texting and calling begging me to talk to him, he's so persistent. When we're together, I have so much fun, and feel really loved. I'm beginning to loose respect for him, because he may be playing head games. How do you handle a guy like this.

He likes attention, negative or positive.

When he acts dumb give him no attention...
When he acts right...give him lots of attention.

OR, leave him alone.

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Leaving him alone is what I'm going with! Too much energy deciding when to give him attention and when not!
Thanks

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@aire47
13 Years

I know how you feel. I am involved with a Taurus man. Though its nothing serious, he disappears for weeks. Even a month and comes back and acts like nothing. It irritates me because it makes me feel used. When we first began seeing each other, I thought we were serious and I would let him disappear just to give him space. Now I just feel like his booty call.