Aries Women! I need advice.

This topic was created in the Aries forum by WeirdoVirgo on Sunday, August 25, 2013 and has 14 replies.

How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Virgo

To attract an Aries woman, show confidence, be genuine, and demonstrate your adventurous side. Aries women appreciate directness and enthusiasm. Let her see your interest through playful interactions and honest communication. Avoid being overly reserved and be ready to match her energetic and bold personality.

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@WeirdoVirgo
15 Years

Okay, I know Aries will be the one's to pursue if interested, so how should I show my interest, so she thinks to pursue me? And I already know she has her eye on me. All I need to do is somehow, well, show my interest?

I'm a Virgo.

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@AriesIntrovert16
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Talk to her.. Ask her simple questions about herself.. Single her out. Ask about her opinion on certain things. Don't do this all at once.. You'll chase her away. Subtleness is key.

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@celticlioness
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Aries like to win, that doesn't mean she wants to be the one who pursues you in order to win you, she has shown her interest so pursue her.

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@Aries2help
13 Years

Second decan aries female checking in... I don't know someone likes me unless they bluntly tell me... U could flirt, make eyes with me, but don't you think other guys do that already?? Most of my friends are male... thats common for me to experience. For me, you need to literally make me focus & listen in & tell me you like me, with a romantic gesture (I dunno... Some minuscule detail I mentioned that I'd be amazed you listened). We're all about ourselves... Show you listened to a tiny detail she mentioned about herself & tell her you like her... She'll see. I don't like to chase either... If someone doesn't show clear interest, I back off... Luckily my current partner kept up the chase, or we'd prob be history by now. Some aries don't like to pursue if we feel like we're gonna lose or be rejected, most of the time this isn't even the case, we're just impatient! Good luck xx

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@dofacc
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aries2help
Second decan aries female checking in... I don't know someone likes me unless they bluntly tell me... U could flirt, make eyes with me, but don't you think other guys do that already?? Most of my friends are male... thats common for me to experience. For me, you need to literally make me focus & listen in & tell me you like me, with a romantic gesture (I dunno... Some minuscule detail I mentioned that I'd be amazed you listened). We're all about ourselves... Show you listened to a tiny detail she mentioned about herself & tell her you like her... She'll see. I don't like to chase either... If someone doesn't show clear interest, I back off... Luckily my current partner kept up the chase, or we'd prob be history by now. Some aries don't like to pursue if we feel like we're gonna lose or be rejected, most of the time this isn't even the case, we're just impatient! Good luck xx

And speaking of "deet," how long was the chase before you allowed your hero his prize?

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@Aries2help
13 Years

Im impulsive, ill show you quick I'm interested. I get bored if its not reciprocated as I don't want to 'lose.' But if you drop those hints, even early on it will trigger something in her mind. Perhaps do that a few times & let her know 🙂 or if you think it's time now, then go for it! My guy was extremely lucky... I was about to give up, he was literally a few days from me walking away as I didn't think he was interested; when an aries convinces herself she isn't.,. You're too late. Her decision is final.

As you know all the details behind your scenario, you be the judge. We are impulsive tho... So don't take too long!

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@lotus11
18 Years

I'm an Aries but if you could find out her Mars/Venus placements it could also help you to understand how she relates to love, communication etc. Personally, I like to know if a guy is interested. If he is very aggressive in pursuing me it will turn me off. I like the dance of courtship, so give me the space to reciprocate, and sometimes let me chase you a little. Just a little not too much, my poor Aries heart might feel rejected if you are not flattered by my flirtations.

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@AudaciousAries
13 Years

I didn't read responses (I'm an Aries - no time for that.) but if she already has her eye on you, you don't need to do anything. Just sit back and be pursued... nothing really stops us from being persistent when we really want somebody.

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