I have an aries gif with an aries social circle. Boy they really push me to my limits. They are aggressive and blunt. I have a hard time fighting back when they get confrontative. Now I am totally on a rampage each time, I am overreacting. I am about to burn bridges and totally savage everything.
Why do we have a hard time fighting back? I have a few theories:
Are we too sensitive for bluntness?
Do we hate Confrontation?
Maybe we are just not cut out for aggressiveness? I heard that we thrive in Mellow surrounding.
I want to be able to aggressively put my foot down without chaning my nature.
They like it that I finally snap back, which offends me even more, because that implies that they didnt respect me just the way I am. They only respect because me Istart behaving like them.
I calmly replied each attack and now that I get loud too they respect me.