Go look at the scorpio bored

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Why would anyone care?

Do you believe that the Ram has such little dignity that they would defend thier character when the flaw isn't their own, rather, a viewpoint of another about them?

Why would you start threads with the intent of creating opposition, while putting yourself on a pedalstool to gain ego-strokes on another board about the contrary topic started by you?

Is the intent of this thread to pitt people against each other?



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I understand everyone must have predicaments/stories of their own..but please quit with the negativity already and let this scorpio enjoy her ram for the time being....

I could sit here and bitch about the scorpio I was with, or the leo I was with...but despite all the crappy moments (yes yes everyone gets them in relationships) I don't look back in anger or hatred....I've loved them all in their unique ways...

Rams aren't easy to deal with but hell neither am I in big doses...

Now carry on with whatever...

😛

Over and out...
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Interesting statement RoxyLady-

"whereas i've been using a microscope for a very long time."

I personally find this world we live in to be very fascinating including the people with their thought processess. I see you observe through a microscope - are you perhaps looking for "bad" qualities or "good" qualities? What we focus on, we bring to life. We have the choice as to what we want to find in any person whether it be the good or bad but why look for the bad? I believe that if we constantly see the good in a person, they will become that. I understand that we each have qualities that someone may not like however, through love/healing those may change.

This is the Aries optimistic attitude...so to MM - keep seeing the good in your Aries man and he will be more than happy to be that person for you. 😉

Hey Roxy...throw away that darn microscope and just live in the moment trusting your instincts....be free!😉

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* to rephrase - i had enough of that man's behaviour in my face for so long to enable me to give a very good perspective of what they are really like.

Understandable ... but HE is not your HE unless I am mistaken. Even then, what works for some doesn't work for others. Your dissatisfaction for your ex is colouring what is really going on and effecting MM adversly. Not all love affairs are meant to last a life time, but allow someone their happiness.
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Thanks Freebird...

I am extremely critical as well..but to this day, he has not yet given me a reason to question his loyality, trust or care that he's shown..until I find a very good reason, I refuse to be that person...I am not going to sit here and sing his praises either..because it is a long distance thing and I don't know what he's like day to day..but have spent some time with him..And if I remember correctly, I did say to him I don't see this going anywhere and he insisted we should still keep at it and try...

Little_Sparrow - No I am not dating her ex husband..LMAO..aww bless..so cute..She's been with an aries for a very long time and unfortunately not having a great time of it...I am with another Aries that I met back in February..He lived in New York (me in UK) and now he's gone with the military (Georgia)..Training before he becomes a translator or whatever he chooses to do..

I was just saying to Roxi, not to tar all the aries with the same brush...I completely understand they aren't easy to get along with as they expect too much at times..I've had one argument with him where he accused me of not giving him enough attention etc..but seriously my one..has not to this day given me any reason to doubt him...he's kept to all his words thus far...and even with him going out to the army, wasn't like a total surprise..he had told me beforehand and i knew what i was getting myself into...and since he's been out there in Training..he's been soooooooooooo consistent with his contact. Phonecalls, letters, pictures, emails....Now I doubt that would be the behaviour of someone who didn't care...

I am aware that I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship hun (Roxi) and I apologise if I come across condescending or judgemental, but I don't understand why after such a long time he's still around....You have to be affirmative in your decision to tell him to f**k right out of your life for good...you can't keep dilly dallying with these decisions...he always manages to find a way in somehow....how would he if the path was totally blocked? I know there are kids involved and I guess I don't understand it cos I've never had to deal with a situation like that...Once its over, its well and truly over..and if anyone so much as goes near that territory again, I would get the authorities involved if I have to...god help me..I hope never have to face such a human being or situation..I would rather die than to make myself a fool. To the extent of still
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sniffing around the person who despises me with bitter venom!..

I just can't deal with negativity. It really depresses me. I have those days too but I would rather shut myself in a dark room and throw away the key then to unleash it on anyone...It soooo consuming and draining...And I always end up hurting the ones I love the most...

So lets just all take the chill pill and be happy...even though its pissing down outside...(rain) 🙂

Anyways....onto happier vibes...I am just drooling over his pictures which he fedexed over yesterday in his soldiers attire....oh my!

::fans self::

Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh..

::bites knuckle::

😛

Ok, time to respond to his letter...
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Without getting into too much detail about my sister..she's a cancer..she has a son with her ex husband...they were having so many arguments etc and he was there to witness it all but he was very young..you don't actually realise how much it affects the kids even if they are aware of the person at fault.

She divorced him and although never stopped contact with the father initially, was never happy about it. Eventually she laid down the law and he wasn't ever to be seen again. Touchwood..the kid has turned out ok for the time being. He's the only one as well..bless the little darling Aqua..

I am in no position to judge a parent as I don't have any kids of my own (at the rate I am going, thats highly unlikely too..lol), however I do believe that if one parent is causing nothing but aggro and upset in the children's lives you have every right to put your foot down and stop that. You are looking out for the welfare of the children.

I'll stop preaching now...