Scorpio/Scropio

I met him today at work, I drew his blood for a screening we were doing....I was looking over his paper work and notice that his b-day is 11/2 I looked up and said mines is 11/9 and he smile and said a scropio? we both smiled. He said he has 2 girls that are scropios and they have stung him a few times already I smiled.

Well in 10 min I found out that he was married and know divorced...dated a few scropios one was a little to intense, mentally, he said that they are just friends know. (Need to ask more about the friendship)

Well after that he was finish being screened he walked up to me I took his paper work and he said "do I come back here to see you for the results or do I call you for the resutls or do you call me" I looked at him dead in his eyes and I knew exactly what he was talking about. So I said you will get your results in the mail in 2 weeks, and he said ok...as he was leaving out the door we made eye contact again and I held my hand up to my ear and said I will call you and he smiled and walked away.

Well I looked on his form and called him from work and said "Hi is this ______ from ______ I drew your blood today and I am just calling to see if you wanted me to call you on a personal note or what. Then I said well if it is on a personal note please call me and left him my number. (my job is done, the ball is in his court)

He is the most sexiest man I have every seen.....touches of gray nice smile, nice size hands, and feet, dresses very well, so distingquish looking I just love men with graying hair.....

Ok so the question is, well he told me that one of the reasons his wife left him was because his lack of communication. I told him that I think the Scropio men are worst then the women and he some what agreed. Ok so this is what I need from my scrop guys and girls and those that are dealing with a scorpio man.

Give me insight. I have not dated a scrop guy in a while because I refuse to afriad we might kill each other and I told him that today also and he just laughed and said why? So I said because we both want power and someone has to comprimise and neither one of us is willing to comprise and he smile again.

Could this be fun? Would I be going to Jail soon for Murder? LMAO......

Observing how two criminals behave with each other would be interesting, indeed.

:: vanishes ::

Well my hunch was right. He left me 2 messages saying that he did wanted me to make a personal phone call to him. He said that I was down to earth and real and that he has not met someone like me in a long time, he asked was I from DC,hhahahahahah I said yea and that was surprising to him also.

fumingli_scrop

"What I figured at the time was that he was too much like me and somehow that irritated me." That's what scares me the most. But I am going to see where he is coming from. I did say I would never date a scropio, he is 11 years my senior mybe they are different when they are older. (Never Say Never)

Roxi
"i love your job.........taking blood from people, LOL!! perfect scorpio job!!
your scorpio man has the same birthdate as me. i bet he's absolutely wonderful isnt he, lol!!"

Thanks Roxi, I think you are a beautiful person and I admire your strength. I don't know how wonderful he is but he is looking for a real down to earth women, and that be me.

Yea I have being drawing blood for about 4 years know certified phlebotomist, about to start school for my nursing degree. (Oncolgy Nurse)

archer,


wow I felt the spider pain. hahahahahahah

Not the sound track of Kill Bill,hahahahah

MMMMMM Girl!!!! Let the games begin!!!!!

You were just waiting for my reply weren't you? Well those that know me know I am hot for the scrops! They are so much fun. It's a challenge to always read between their lines. But because I'm a scorp we always get each other. Just remember, if you want a man that will jump when you say and to call you every day at noon look else where. If you want passion you just found it.

P.S. They rarely open up! Just get them drunk and they will confess everything.

Well I would love to sit here and say its all wonderful....It is..but like every other relationship it has its ups and downs..The communication can be pretty bad at times..you can sometimes simply forget to call each other..or don't need each other..you will have doubts, then you'll be fine again. One minute you'll love him, the next you'll hate him...Never really had any power struggles with mine..He had a libra moon and rising and let me take charge..He didn't really care about the power thing...quite easy going..

Being in charge is only interfering when you have something to prove to one another..otherwise just be yourselves..i.e. nobody needs to be in control..I don't know how best to explain that..You don't always need to get the last word..you can just walk away..let it be..shrug it off..this approach will work better...if both of you are extremely sensitive..it might not work..

Sex is just amazing..they have all the right techniques and tools for the job..theres one thing just ramming away, then theres ramming away with technique..Scorpio men are the latter..you won't have any problems in that department..

Scorpio men need to be recognised as the authority at times so just let them..Men just need to be made to feel like men...Nothing wrong with that..We (scorpio women) know that we kick ass so knowing should be assurance enough..don't need to fight to prove that..

Peace out

JP,
Gotta luv you darling.....I live for your comments....

Get him drunk...well last night he asked me what do I drink he said he drinks and party and go out. we both have frequent the same spot.

Thanks for Plan A.....


Roxi what am I gonna do with you...hahahahaha

"*a strictly non-lesbian observation you understand" Me to but...........

"would LOVE to live your life for just one day scorpionlady....men just drop outta the sky for you don't they—" I don't know why....I just minding my own business.....

Hey Roxi I am going to send you a private message...need a little insight.

MM

"Sex is just amazing..they have all the right techniques and tools for the job..theres one thing just ramming away, then theres ramming away with technique..Scorpio men are the latter..you won't have any problems in that department.."

Well that only works if the size is suffient enough.

"Scorpio men need to be recognised as the authority at times so just let them..Men just need to be made to feel like men...Nothing wrong with that..We (scorpio women) know that we kick ass so knowing should be assurance enough..don't need to fight to prove that.."

Thanks MM I need to read that. I am fine as long as the man don't demand anything from me in a harsh tone...

What even sex?

I kinda find that a turn on....

😛

Sex is different....they can talk nasty and harsh and spank my azz....I am talking about just makeing conversation and stuff. You feel me

Yeah I do...and believe you me, I never had a problem with him speaking to me like that...I can tell you that the bond is extremely strong as you are totally in tune with each other...My man and I were so crazy about each other..we'd do the maddest things..and remember we were each others first love..we were quite young as well...we split up (due to external pressures) but re-united 10 years later..(recently)..we are two different people now...Although he still confides in me about EVERYTHING..I will always care for him..but I am not in love with him...they are very honest, only if you never give them a reason to betray you..if you do, then the games begin..They are overwhelming and sooo very lovely...did you know he still has the first letter I wrote to him 10 years ago...he kept it all this time..talk about sentimental..when he showed it me....I was overwhelmed for the first time in my life..you know why..because a) he kept it that long b) to read back on my life 10 years ago...what I was like as an innocent young girl growing up...It truly did take me down memory lane..how much one changes over the years...surreal

I simply adore all my male and female Scorpio friends...I hold them very close to my heart because nobody understands you like a fellow Scorp does..

That is so sweet MM, you and him will always a have something to share .

So don't give any reason to betray? I can respect that cuz I would not want someone to give me reason either.

For some reason all the scropios that I know I tend to shy away and not get to close I don't know why that is. I work with a scropio but she is in one office I am in another I do go and chat with her every know and then....she knows me so well she just laughs and say don't mess with us scorpios and she is like 20years my senior....

Well considering I was not looking and I am not in any rush....I will just see what happens....me calling is not going to happen if he wants to talk to me he has to call me.
I told him enough about me that if he chooses to not call I am ok....and I told him that before we said I good byes so again the ball is in his court.

I have come to the conclusion that I get on better with October male Scorpions..they are far more easier going..November guys...some are ok..most are hmmm..

MM
"I have come to the conclusion that I get on better with October male Scorpions..they are far more easier going..November guys...some are ok..most are hmmm.."

Elaborate on the "most are hmmmm"

Well I don't know..I guess they are more serious...and at times can be a little more controlling...But please don't quote me on it..I haven't come across many November ones...they just seem a little more introverted..

LOL!...Are you married to him or dating him Sagigoat?

lol...bloody cappies and Scorpios...the starting process is sooooooo drawn out...I wish the pair of them would hurry up about it...theres some serious love making to do....

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"very introverted and maybe too controlling ... nothing he does not want to reveal would ever come out even when he is drunk while you are pointing a gun at him ...."

That is so me...I am such a introvert.....and so is he.....we both are ok with being by ourselves we both like to read, rest, watch, tv, etc.....I do think if anything we will hvae to communication of current events incommon.

"pre dating
it may not get to dating ever if he wouldn't even tell me his birth year
he had no problem to tell me 'not go' at the end of our gathering though..."

LMAO that's funny

he likes you sagigoat...he might be shy

I bet he was thinking "bitch" in an endearing way...but also smiling inside that you didn't listen to him!

We're sick like that

If a guy did that I would have let him go also.....

When I watched the Taurus walk out my door I thought...damn should I give him a hug and let him know that I am still willing to be friends...I did nothing not even look at him, I think it had a lot to do with being rejected if I did do that and he push me away, or if he hug me back I would have to stay his friend...the finally decision was that I did not want to have anything to do with him so I let him go, and yet he still calls me every couple of days just to say hi.

I am attracting a lot of Leo's lately....what be going on?

I need to go mail that Aqua and Scorpio dudes...

::hardwork being in demand::

Oh no you are not you are giving me insight on scorpios...I find it interesting....\

Hey you can get all the insight you need also...I am no stingy...I enjoy sharing the wealth.

I don't do hugs...

I should have been an FBI Agent.....I just have to find info about a person it gives me the upper hand. And because there are so many playas out here I just don't want to be played anymore but I also don't want to be misunderstood eithr.

sag

why are you tripping on typos? nahahahahahahahah

Scorpionlady...do you actually go out there and find out all this info on people?

I find it actually comes to me....through keen observation and within a very small amount of time..

SL, good thread, I was wondering the same since I have never been involved with a Scorp guy. My godfather is one and I adore him as a godfather, however I don't know if he was a good mate to my godmother or not (Scorps period, spoil their kids).

This one Scorp guy who is interested and I clash just by talking. He can be intense and as we are only friends, he is really attracted to me and he seems to be a nice person, funny and makes me laugh, but I so sense the power thing and I am so not used to that. Mostly being involved with easy going Librans, who IMO there is no need to be powerful with things just went along as they should for the most part.

Other than the power struggles, the scorp man does seem to forget quite a bit and one day they will be so intense and into you, wonder why you haven't called in awhile - yet they forget they have fingers that can dial a phone as well.

Yeah, the power thing is something. Scorp men dress well, most drive nice cars and keep a nice home. Smart, somewhat arrogant and somewhat self involved. Funny and can be somewhat emotional.

"Scorpionlady...do you actually go out there and find out all this info on people?"

Oh no not like internet search and shit...Noooooo....I find info about them like what I am doing I am search for signs, motions, lies, deceit anything that can make me more aware of there intentions and actions....in other words very suspisious and cautious.....

"I need to go mail that Aqua and Scorpio dudes...

::hardwork being in demand::"

lmao HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....gotta love a scropios life....so freaking damanding

Yes we are that by nature...my Cappy friend got soooooooooooooo annoyed with me one day that he let it all out...said "I have known you two years..if you can call it that..you may seem straight forward but your not..I don't know jack shit about you..and you know all there is to know about me"....so I am like "what do i know about you exactly...I don't know anything...your just as straight as I am to you"....works every time...

😛

He actually was the only person who kinda new how I felt..he always tapped into that really well...

Roxi
"i feel very sorry for any man that comes under scorplady's microscope!!"

Damn......

Well he called yesterday and I called him back I did not leave a message so I got a vm message from him saying that if I don't leave a message it's like I never called. I never called him back. Why should I leave a vm he has caller ID he knew I called.

So I have to leave messages just for him to call me back? Is he serious?

Sometimes its best not to think too much into "If I leave a voicemai, will I look desperate and as if I am chasing too hard"...just go with it..if you want to leave a voicemail do, if you geniunly don't feel like speaking to him, don't...

Please don't get into this whole "he saw my caller id and therefore should've called me back type thing"....seriously let that shit go out of your mind....It isn't going to work like that with any man let alone a Scorpio...

Just my two cents...I am soooooooooo sick to death of all stupid drama when it comes to relationships!..You are not going to look any less of a woman if you just pick up that phone..

The art is not to be unapproachable..not to be sooo demanding that men actually can't be arsed to deal with you full stop...

Ok....I am stepping off my soapbox now...

You have good points MM and I respect them. I am not going to trip off of it although I think that he is trying to control the phone situation so if I feel like leaving a message I will if not I won't.

Yeah cool hun...you just have to do what you feel comfortable with..

I've just ordered some food...I am hungry 😢

Also trying to book a long weekend vacation but not sure where to go..Rome is too expensive as is Paris and Barcelona...the only place quite reasonable with lots of beaches is Malta - Spain..Hmmm...

EG

"Anyway, Scorpiolady....I don't understand why but my intuition feels very wary about this one. And this is even a long-distance vibe."

You want to go into detail? I have not said anything to feel cautious about. I am naturally cautious...

One thing that is scary about our friendship is that we found out that we both like the same things and have a lot in common especially the way we do things in our homes. We both talked about it and we both feel that it is scary but I would say in a good kinda way.

He returns all my calls...he calls me just to say goodnight he wants to make sure that he has the things in is home to entertain me with before he invites me over. I can't help but respect the man.

If it is anything I wary about is the Sex.......

it could be off the chain.....

Well I can't help it.....We did talk about one day and he said to let him worry about it. And I say that is the least of my worries....and we both laugh, that could be dangerious in a good way.....*taking deep breaths"

He calls me darling and baby already....but like I said he is 11 years my senior...so I would expect him to be more layed back and stable and I like that. I find older men are more tolerant.

"That was why it was like pulling teeth for him to tell me his birth year!!!"

Really, so you don't know what year he was born? How long have yall been together.

When I told M. Scrop is was 45 he was like you look good, and he looks good for his age.

I just hope he has a lot of stamina

"I know now as of last Friday .

We are pre dating (told him I want friendship until further notice) for 2+ months."

Well don't wait until it's to late.

i think it goes under "true love"....

EG

You are so psyhic.....LOL

So is that why you are wary about me dating him.....well yes he is more mellow out and I am thinking that if I am around him he would want me to be a lady in public and a sex goddess in the bedroom..and those two I can to with my eyes close....it is not like he is not used to dating scorpios he said he dated 2 in his past...well lets see if I am a differnt breed of scropio to him.

He did say my honesty was a bit much but he appreciates it.

Did I tell Taurus guy called me last night wanted to come and spend the night and I told him no and he said that he really did love me, he wanted to come and cuddle and kiss on my neck so I said oh you just want to have sex...he said no he said I miss you and I really did love you and I said come again. I told him I am not in the mood and I don't want to see or talk to anyone. He said ok so sad and I said bye.....I don't care for him he had his chance he blew....

Roxi

"like the idea of pre-dating......like premature prenuptuals!!" Roxi you are so funny...
I think I will pass on the pre-dating, cut out the middle man

what ever you want to call it I don't need the middle man just the man

Pre-dating...sounds like aquas dating.

ACTUALLY! actual dating would be the 'middle man'.

M

Please tell us more about Aquas. How cool and wierd and awesome they are. We all want to know.

Ok, in due time SS. I like to leave things to the imagination though....you know, aqua style 🙂

Fine then. Tell us more about the Merc in Pisces instead, please.

"Don't give him any ammunition to use against your family, friends etc"?

Ammunition?

I personally don't seek past information about a man his relationship etc, I am more into how he is right know, his past is just that his past it really means nothing to me.

Know if he wants to share it I will listen, but to use it again him later, It really depends on the information being said. I also believe that what ever I want to know about him he will eventually tell me or I will find out just by listening to him.

I would not take the info I get and used it against his family, friends, etc. I would used the useful information on him only if push to use said action.