how stubborn are aries males?

i have a friend who was being extremely pushy about getting together but it had to be centred around his schedule. when i said no to what was convenient for him, he refused to compromise on another time. now he's pissed at me and won't talk to me. wth?

Hmm, if you let anyone, they'll push you around, sign or no sign...

Aries is stubborn for ego sake but they change their minds with more experience or when people just stand their ground - they're not fixed if they're distracted from ego...

Just send him a piccie of a baby pacifier 😉

we are not stubborn at all, and I will fight you to the death to prove you wrong lol

thanks! it just seems so weird to me. he wanted to meet before he goes away for a month to europe. he's leaving tomorrow. i told him we could go for lunch or dinner when he gets back and he got angry and said he was soured on meeting up afterwards because no one could possibly be as busy as i am and he wanted to meet up before he left. he was not available when i was. anyway, on saturday he insisted i had to drop everything and meet for lunch. he called and spent half an hour telling me he was waiting, he made plans etc... i told him i did not like feeling like i am being pushed. when i said i was available saturday evening, he said he was busy and now he is pissed.

we are only friends by the way.

i sent him an e-mail this morning wishing him safe travels and a great trip. doubt i'll hear back from him. it just seems so childish to me. perhaps a pacifier would be an ideal going away gift zen.....if only he would find the humour in it.

lol @ c-a-a! i will bite you

yeah he does sound childish, he will get over it
just remember when he gets back and be the first one to contact him, and ask to him to launch or something, he will be so happy all will be forgotten
i can see why he got upset, he is going on a overseas trip and you wouldnt run to him to give him your goodbyes and fiarwells, lol
awwww poor baby lamb....
tell him to grow some stones hehe

tamara
please go ahead bite away....i might like it lol

i don't know exactly when he will be back.....easy enough to find out though i guess. if i'm the first one to contact him, he'll hope i'm chasing after him (which i am not). plus i don't feel like i did anything to warrant his anger. damn leo pride.....

he emailed back thanking me for the nice wishes. probably best to leave it at that? yes?

careful what you wish for c-a-a. jk! i don't bite.

yah u might be right about him thinking that u chasing him lol cause you leos would never chase, hehe you expect things to fall in your lap lol
but anyhow, just show him that you are glad that he is back when he deos return and he will forget all of it
yeah i would just leave it be like it is, no big deal

oh? you dont bite? ehm, sigh of disappointment......and i was getting my hopes up lol well at least will you scratch my back a little ?

leos don't chase - they pounce! 😛

really, the aries wants much more than friends and i don't him to imagine mixed signals in any way.

k, if you're a good lamb who won't fight me to the death i'll scratch your back.

true FA.....

i don't know. i just want us to be friends again.

haha! i was purring.....

love your avatar!

but he may have had something special planned that he didn't want to tell you about

Now that you mention it - possibly. I do that a lot - love surprising people but don't like it pulled on me 🙂

well he waited all day yesterday then started e-mailing me around 4 pm about random shit. so i emailed him back and ended up asking what time his flight is. apparently his flight is now on sunday (not today like he said).

he made such a huge point about leaving today and questioning whether i realized he needed to see me before today (before he left for a whole month).

what a baby!

mmmmmm baby

sounds pretty petty, tams.

i'd tell him to get back to me when he gets over it, which he will. sooner than later, i'm certain.

i told him it was lame and he said he wanted to have lunch or dinner with me alone and he knew leo would be here this weekend.

as i said earlier, we are only friends. the leo is my bf and the aries has a gf.

i hope he wounldn't do that.....his gf is a sweetheart.

So the Aries dude wants to meet with you 'alone' before the Leo dude returns. Ummph... I think he likes you. lol.

after i commented about his "change" in itinerary (and i use the word change very loosely) he did not respond to me. i sent him another "have a great trip and sorry for the misunderstanding" message last night and he didn't even respond to that.

looks like i have been disowned as a friend.....

thanks FA. you're right. he has to own his own anger and issues. though i will miss talking to him.

Sounds like alot of fiery elements involved here I will say though if your bf is a leo aswell that would be quite an interesting combo or as like I to refer to them Mr and Ms I can't velieve you've never heard of me before Lol said with tongue in cheek of course

of course TheFireWithin 🙂

well he returned this morning and emailed me. called me later to tell me he missed me.....awww little lamb.

stubborn is not a word i would use to describe an aries man. they know what they want and they arn't easily discouraged but i'd say they are quite flexable. ruthless in attaining their ends though