I Can't Deal with The Zodiac Sign Cancer

I hate them fucks too. WE should break open a bottle of wine and exchange hate stories.

PS: Would you be kind enough to get the bottle of wine.

We'd need 2 bottles... I've got stories for days.

So what riled you so much in the recent past to cause this outburst?

*Gets a couple of bottles of wine (good french burgundy 2003) from the cellar*

I've had many relationships with both Cancer Men and Women and it has really taken a toll on me. Mind you, I was never the type to say I will not deal with a particular sign, but as it stands I am completely done with the Crab because 95% of them act like I stated above and I just refuse to waste anymore time on bullbutter!

Funny thing is people say, Aries are selfish (emotionally). Yet I have truly given 300% of myself to many people without needed anything in return. Come on! No one should live like that.... constantly giving to others and always feeling empty afterwards. There should be balance or else its just not worth it.

I think we can all agree without much argument that most Cancers are emotionally selfish. I think most of them will acknowledge it at some level.

@Marrakesha :*)) Oh really! didn't know Kevin Hart was a Cancer... That Dude Cracks me up as well, but I certainly couldn't live with him...after the 1st hour I'd be like "Kevin, Enough!" lol!

@CluelessCancer Your comment shows just how true my post is- Now I know it may be difficult, but I sincerely hope you find some company for all that misery you have. No one, not even you deserves to be alone and sad. Best Wishes....

Signed, The Aries Fire that cooked & served you on this Friday Afternoon LOL!!

@gdeemer

I am a Cancer and all of the things you are saying about others cancers are not ho Cancers are It's just he individual you are messing with. I give my all from the heart because my heart s pure. I'm caring, independent and ask no one for anything. I give and appreciate the thanks I get. I am very emotional and caring and it kills me to see someone hurt. The only thing I don't like about myself is that I don't run behind no one. If yudon't call I don't worry because I'm not calling either and that's because I prefer face to face contact. The other reason is cancers want to ee if you really love the and if you do you will show them by calling first. But you might think that this is wrong but if you show them without the complaining they will give you thier all because a Cancer is all about love home, and protecting the interest of them. I am sorry you meet someone of the Cancer ature but has only greed in them. Well that s not of Cancer, that's someone that just don't care about life.

@gdeemer

I just left a Leo for a Cancer and I am a Cancer and we get along great. The Leo thought he was a player and tried to use me up like you say the Cancer tried to use you all. But it's not the ZODIAC IT'S THE PERSON.

@CulelessCancer Keep Venting!! that's what this forum is all about. Hopefully your Friday night won't be ruined by someone else's opinion of your zodiac sign. ;/
However if you can't seem to calm down, here is some advice.... since you Crabs always need it-

1) Have a seat.
2) Take a deep breath.
3) Release the breath.
4) Repeat.

Trust me, this will help 🙂 Ciao and Good Luck to you...and I really mean that~

this is so funny....we have been talking about cancers alot

Posted by Alexias
@CluelessCancer Your comment shows just how true my post is- Now I know it may be difficult, but I sincerely hope you find some company for all that misery you have. No one, not even you deserves to be alone and sad. Best Wishes....

Signed, The Aries Fire that cooked & served you on this Friday Afternoon LOL!!

lmfao

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Alexias
@CluelessCancer Your comment shows just how true my post is- Now I know it may be difficult, but I sincerely hope you find some company for all that misery you have. No one, not even you deserves to be alone and sad. Best Wishes....

Signed, The Aries Fire that cooked & served you on this Friday Afternoon LOL!!

lmfao

How is this funny? Damn you must really be heart broken or something.

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dont worry about me....im still laughing btw.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Oh *snap* I realized I am actually posting on the Aries board, damn I thought we were in the Cancer board. I never visit Aries home. It's like visiting Planet of the Apes. So UN-Evolved.

My bad. Wipes shoes on thread and bounces.

peace.

no one cares

Posted by Marrakesha
LMAO @ CC: I'm a germ phobe and hygiene freak, so that isn't true in the least.

Do you feel better now, CC? And say it with your chest!! LOL

LOL!

Pin her muffin cap back blue...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Oh *snap* I realized I am actually posting on the Aries board, damn I thought we were in the Cancer board. I never visit Aries home. It's like visiting Planet of the Apes. So UN-Evolved.

My bad. Wipes shoes on thread and bounces.

peace.

You're full of sour crab meat!! You knew where you were, you're just realizing you have no wins over here, so like a hurt/loser Cancers always does you're retreating into your shell. Thanks for your commentary though... its been entertaining! I just hope you emotions and big ol' crabby claws allows you to let this all go and work on becoming the person you really want to be. Like I said before, Good Luck~

Posted by Marrakesha
LMAO @ CC: I'm a germ phobe and hygiene freak, so that isn't true in the least.

Do you feel better now, CC? And say it with your chest!! LOL

I'm still laughing! Imma hafta step outside.

Cc you sound like the cancer dude I know, yall bitch the same.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I just made your stupid boring stereotypical thread interesting. You should thank me.

The words Interesting and Cancer don't go together. The name of your sign alone is hideous- 'Cancer aka Crab' Yuck! nobody wants that-

What you have accomplished is proving yourself to be 'Whining and Annoying' and if you go to any other site you will see those words fit your particular zodiac sign much better...huh?

CluslessC, My dear, face it 'You're losing It!' and if you post anymore comments after this it just shows how insecure you are poor thing.

So let's see if you'll come crawling back.... I bet you will... thats that clingy aspects of your life style :*))

Posted by greengemini
CMON guys, thats mean. I think she's really taking all the insults to heart. Everybody's just playing around right?

LOL

@ greengemini I feel your compassion and I appreciate it, but honestly CC came out bussing shots and then tried to get all emotionally and play the victim. I know my post was quite vocal, but CC should have known Aries are is a Sign of War.... going against me/us is a challenge one will find hard to win-

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by greengemini
CMON guys, thats mean. I think she's really taking all the insults to heart. Everybody's just playing around right?

LOL

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Posted by Marrakesha
LOL....I don't know anyone who loves George Bush unless they're Republican 😛

LOL @ feb16aqua: It's not that bad really.

LOL @ CC: With the exception of Geminis, air signs don't understand anything about emotion anyway, so that doesn't really count. And you can't tell the OP to "be gone" when this her thread and the Aries board, but I love your spirit...LOL

well said-

Posted by feb16aqua
I love how no one cares about me 😢 lol. I know you guys have a soft spot for the little aqua who posts here too often, your "groupie" so to say. Blame the ram for the good ramming I got earlier today 😉

Wait! You Aquas... No one would mind being born in your circle... You's are Cool People

Every sign gets bashed. at least we had the decency to do it on our own board. she chose to get her feeling hurt. We should have to censor what we say and stop sharing her experiences, CC need to work on getting a thicker skin.

Posted by bkbella86
Every sign gets bashed. at least we had the decency to do it on our own board. she chose to get her feeling hurt. We should have to censor what we say and stop sharing her experiences, CC need to work on getting a thicker skin.

*we shouldn't have to

Posted by Ligeia

Posted by CluelessCancer
Oh *snap* I realized I am actually posting on the Aries board, damn I thought we were in the Cancer board. I never visit Aries home. It's like visiting Planet of the Apes. So UN-Evolved.

My bad. Wipes shoes on thread and bounces.

peace.

LOL! Don't take what this one ram says to heart.

This thread just screams projection from the empty

barrels of the zodiac. Just get your pincers out and

start shearing some sheep.

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Late, Slow & Too Emo

tiziani -

Aren't you motivated by a break up with an Aries?

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Ligeia

Posted by CluelessCancer
Oh *snap* I realized I am actually posting on the Aries board, damn I thought we were in the Cancer board. I never visit Aries home. It's like visiting Planet of the Apes. So UN-Evolved.

My bad. Wipes shoes on thread and bounces.

peace.

LOL! Don't take what this one ram says to heart.

This thread just screams projection from the empty

barrels of the zodiac. Just get your pincers out and

start shearing some sheep.

Haha exactly, from the opening line of the thread

"You think your problems & issues in life trump any & everything someone else is going through"

It was always clear this was going to be a "takes one to know one" scenario. Pot calling the kettle black.

Crabs are drawn to strong people... because they're so so sensitive. The Aries provides that strength and you know this, but we can agree to disagree-

Now of course Aries folks have difficult characteristics but this thread was inspired by the Soft Shells.

Hey,,, if you really know whats up with the Aries, then write a post and discuss... its good to get it out.

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Of all the places on this site that I would feel comfortable to express myself, it is the Aries board. I thought that was what it was created for.

I understand the Cluelesscancer was not aware of where she was - she just jumped on the topic.

Posted by Marrakesha
bkbella862/22/2013 7:30:38 PM Quote | IP

"Every sign gets bashed. at least we had the decency to do it on our own board. she chose to get her feeling hurt. We should have to censor what we say and stop sharing her experiences, CC need to work on getting a thicker skin."

Exactly! What sign doesn't get bashed on here, and why can't someone talk about another sign on their own board? I didn't realize it was against the "rules." LOL

More to the point, I think everyone is taking this whole thing too seriously and it's not even worth fighting over. And so what that some person with issues beyond anything what was said on some board came here to voice her two cents??

I think the shit tickles me, but honestly there are clearly a lot of people on these boards that have issues way beyond astrology.

Can the church say AMEN!!!

Posted by VenusAquarius
tiziani -

Aren't you motivated by a break up with an Aries?

Woop!

Posted by greengemini

Posted by Alexias

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by greengemini
CMON guys, thats mean. I think she's really taking all the insults to heart. Everybody's just playing around right?

LOL

@ greengemini I feel your compassion and I appreciate it, but honestly CC came out bussing shots and then tried to get all emotionally and play the victim. I know my post was quite vocal, but CC should have known Aries are is a Sign of War.... going against me/us is a challenge one will find hard to win-

@alexias

I do understand your aries description but what I dknt understand is your need to live up to them. When I read my astrology description I'm usually looking for any weakness I need to be aware of just ao I can focus on my strenghts and not have strong weakness's.

"Aries is a sign of war?" Cmon sweetie, I thjnk someone made you really upset today. And I'm sure you hve every right to feel the way you do. But, it doesn't make it ok to take it out on a complete steanger that hdad NOTHING to do with what made you upset in the first place...even if its on the internet. You ever hear the saying "a angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes?" I've been guilty of this myself in the past so i'm judging you.

Astrology isn't everything...we're still walking, breathkng human beings. We have a choice to act out our zodiac descriptions or learn from them in a way that'll better us in our everydy lives. I hope cc didn't take any of that to heart.

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What are you, the freakin' dxpnet Guru!? :*)

tiziani-

Are you a Libra?

tiziani-

Great compromise is needed with Libra.

Meshing of egos on opposing spectrums takes great sacrifice of ego - too difficult depending on how strong your Sun or ego is... and the destiny of the individuals involved. It is not all Aries' destiny to slide down that Aries - Libra spectrum; and it is not all Libras' destiny to slide up either (

Posted by tiziani

Posted by VenusAquarius
tiziani-

Are you a Libra?

Indeed. The light to Aries' darkness. Where would you guys be without us eh? You NEED us.

Have there ever been a long running Aries/Libra thread on this forum?

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Want perhaps... Never need.

tiziani -

There is an Aries here involved with a Libra. Perhaps you two can provide one another some understanding. That is if she wishes to respond.

You might start your thread, "Any Aries Involved with a Libra?" Or, something like that.

"Aries have a very strange paradox and internal conflict around them. They insist (in good nature) that every room they host should be fun, vibrant and upbeat. They ask that everyone accept each other and, in the sense of letting everyone express themselves in their own individual way, they are some of the most generous people you could hope to meet.

And yet this is offset by the fact they can't see 2 yards in front of their face. Become self-absorbed in their own strength of feeling and weight of emotions also makes them the most selfish people you could hope to meet.

The struggles of a young Aries I suppose. It takes time for anyone to resolve that kind of internal conflict."

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tiziani-

I sense that Aries was not as attentive to you as you would have wished - Libra - Relationships/ Aries - Self.

I sense that you are a shy Libra with a bold Aries. Bold Libra (extraverted) is probably better for Aries.

I do not sense good synastry which goes beyond just the Sun sign.

Posted by tiziani
On the contrary in some respects. She did make all the advances true, in that sense it was a gender-bender. I was the submissive one when it come to action. But in general she was a shy character, still is today to be honest. Whereas I am very direct in conversation.

Plus there's a complication you might not have thought of - which was that she's actually born on the Cusp of Rebirth. Aries/Pisces cusper.

Anyway I'm well aware that I had my failings in the relationship and I give her credit in that she kept her eye on the point of it, which was to be happy. That's what we're all in it for right? So trust me I don't blame her for anything anymore. She messages me today and I share back, try and be supportive of her life without giving her any impression that I want to break any boundaries.

She just came from a very insecure place where she felt she could smother me with attention and manipulate it into commitment in a very indirect way. I was a bit of a fool and didn't know what I wanted to do with my life back then. Everyone got hurt. She is so far the only person I could count as "the love of my life". I'll find an entertaining way to tell you the whole story one day if it ever interests anyone.

how do you know that her attention came from insecurity?

Posted by tiziani
On the contrary in some respects. She did make all the advances true, in that sense it was a gender-bender. I was the submissive one when it come to action. But in general she was a shy character, still is today to be honest. Whereas I am very direct in conversation.

Plus there's a complication you might not have thought of - which was that she's actually born on the Cusp of Rebirth. Aries/Pisces cusper.

Anyway I'm well aware that I had my failings in the relationship and I give her credit in that she kept her eye on the point of it, which was to be happy. That's what we're all in it for right? So trust me I don't blame her for anything anymore. She messages me today and I share back, try and be supportive of her life without giving her any impression that I want to break any boundaries.

She just came from a very insecure place where she felt she could smother me with attention and manipulate it into commitment in a very indirect way. I was a bit of a fool and didn't know what I wanted to do with my life back then. Everyone got hurt. She is so far the only person I could count as "the love of my life". I'll find an entertaining way to tell you the whole story one day if it ever interests anyone.

Libra, your duality is showing.

bkbella86,

People be throwing that word - "insecurity" around like crazy... Just like the "Karma" -

Posted by VenusAquarius
bkbella86,

People be throwing that word - "insecurity" around like crazy... Just like the "Karma" -

ikr!!

"She just came from a very insecure place where she felt she could smother me with attention and manipulate it into commitment in a very indirect way."

LIBRA?!?! ----->Seduction?

"If you've ever met one of those girls that can't spend time alone by themselves because they're too uncomfortable, that's what she was like. She recently put a lot of work into forcing herself to be alone and be all right with that. "

Libra, she's an extrovert. Like I was saying.

Libra, is she is shy than why can't you understand: "...she felt she could smother me with attention and manipulate it into commitment in a very indirect way."

How can she be "the love of your life" and you not appreciate this? This is ironic for a Libra to say.

Libra,

That's what I meant by seduction. She was seducing you and you call it manipulation.

I know how you were applying "love of my life."

It's ironic that Aries (self) is seducing a Libra (relationships) and a Libra sees it negatively—?

But, you did say, "I was a bit of a fool and didn't know what I wanted to do with my life back then."

Libra? If you didn't want to commit and the Aries was trying to seduce you, how is she selfish one?

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