i dont get it

I am been dating an aries chick for a month ,with her one day we are together and we have a great time,we even kiss,the next day she isnt the same,she even tries to ignore me.

she sometimes comes over to my place, we watch a movie we kiss,we cuddle up and all that.then last wednesday we went out,i asked her if she wants to be with me and she said " i am not sure and i dont think i am ready for relationship,i think we should just be friends", after the "date" she called me and started asking questions like, if i was still with my old girlfriend.

ok i get it, she wants to take her time with the relationship,but then last friday she went out with someone else.

like i said when we are together,we have a good time and do every thing lovers do except sex,we somethimes have foreplays.

everyone is different regardless of having the same sun sign,but i need your help ladies cause i am really confussed and annoyed

i have been * so typo

hmm, what's your sign maitre?
how did you know she went on a date with someone else ?

maaaaaaaaaaaaan this post made me look so "naive" best advice is from all of you, you win 10 points 😛
, for JMB i have been the one doing the chasing,but that leds to a dead end,right

well i get it now,but really i dont hold on to things that well either,shes coming over today,i haven`t tried to contact her for 3 days,she called she wants to come over (aries are weird,lol) this time the foreplay goes allittle further, thanks ashley😉

zen i am a libra

well well well, out of the mouths of the fire babes eh...what more can I say?

I swear ArdentA, I want what you're smoking ! 😛

Maitre, not sure what the deal is---if you chase hard like Ashley says, she may be turned-off. I would recommend being yourself, if it's enough, she will sort it out, if it's not, you'll also know --- also just talk to her...Aries is quite direct like sagis (AshleySag - exhibit A)

I love Libra...if she says no, I'm available 😉

oi ! I need no encouragement getting close to girls... due to my dic-love. thank you very much !
that said, ardenta, where do you live ma dear ?

juan no you can't join us 😛
and where's my beer ?!

lol,
here is your problem man.....Forpaly! damn man i can bet all my chickens in the farm that you are trying to hard and are focuse on pleasing her with forplay....
i can tell you that by the time you are done with it she was bored half way into it,
damn man....if you formpaly with a areis girl thats in heat for 5 min thats 4 minutes to long,
like ash said it, grab her pin her down OWN IT!!!!! but dont be to overpowering they like to have control too, so start and let her take the lead for a bit, than switch, must i come over there and show you how its done?

whos coming with me? cant do it on my own lol

^ I am with you !

hey we like foreplay ! ok maybe after it is all over so afterplay is more aprop

Aries are really hard to get into bed lol. They will talk the talk and while they do that you'll so taken by them you'll do anything for them and than BOOOM they are like "Why are you looking at me in that way? I just want to be your friend!" SHUT DOWN! lol.

maybe the innocent/unexperienced ones, or if they dont look at you that way or if there is some kind of a moral roadblock, "usually" aries will stay away from his/her friends bf/gf or husbands or wifes but.......there is always exception to the rule
usually aries are so hot headed that its kind of hard to resist this passion lol

Oh yeah, I meant in a good way. They don't seem to give it out to anyone who they feel isn't a 100% It's like they are very protective over their bodies.

And not their hearts. It's really different from all the other signs.

"zen i am a libra"

Wow, how did I know that— LOL!!!!

finally , thank you,sorry i couldnt reply sooner i was busy,you can all guess 😛,we finally did it,first time after waiting this long is always the greatest especially with a fiery ARIES babe(oh man),she came by,i kept a movie but we werent really watching,i think she wanted to do it as much as i did cause she riped up my fav t-shirt, lol .

arianlatay her birthday is on 2 april,and by the way there is something about you aries girls,sag89 is right,she is seductive as hell,one of the things that kept me around her this long,but the bottom line is i liked her,great that it finally happened but after being with her even if it didnt work out i would have come after you zen 😉(aries love addict)

hey class-act-aries i understand that now,i dated girls that are really different from the aries,my last girl friend was a taurus, she was really great but nothing like this.


looks like my hot tread started something between you two @ ardent and zen

OMG! Maitre, that was so hot I think I came a lil ! 😕

You should get many fav shirts 😛

Arianlatay's right though, rammettes appreciate the Libra scale-balancing patience ! And you guys are so freaking romantic !

You can still come after me maitre honey, I promise not to touch... 😉

S89, makes some good points though 🙂
haha - sometimes I go out, meet some dude, chat for a long long time, then say 'see ya' and he says something like 'can I have your number?' and I'm usually like, 'erm, why?' --- that really messes with guys for some reason. lol...

I guess if they don't ask for my number, I'm even more curious maybe...i don't know

lol... luur u too arianla, but don't advocate the oops moment ! 🙂

juan too late 😛

So you hit that shit?

Aries women are the noncommital type me thinks > but they like to keep to double standards but can become jealous if you do the same keep it at a friendship level pal around and have sex also no problem with them.

haha - sometimes I go out, meet some dude, chat for a long long time, then say 'see ya' and he says something like 'can I have your number?' and I'm usually like, 'erm, why?' --- that really messes with guys for some reason. lol


haha when i dont want to give a dude my number i just say "umm no that's ok!"

haha ewe I do get there in the end, just dig a lil to test I guess 😉

robin robin robin, you can't play the same game - it is like someone knowing your hand at a poker game 🙂
noncommital cos don't like to think or live in the future... all about here and now I think

s89 I think he did ! might be right now too 😕

^^^ HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, sweet.

Ashleysagstar - you did that! That's exactly what my Aries does to everybody she dates. You think it's forever and the next day it's excuse me what's your name again. We are libra/aries combo and BOY WHAT A MUDAFCKN YEAR IT HAS BEEN!!!! I just start learning to have fun with it all.

haha im not like that , just ask my exes that i dumped, oh wait you cant, they dont exist lol hahaha,
ok maybe they do but they are porbably just waisting air somewhere lol

"OMG! Maitre, that was so hot I think I came a lil !"
it was my pleasure 😛


"You can still come after me maitre honey, I promise not to touch... "

dont be suprised when i come knocking one day 😉,aries cant have enough of you,
zen i try to be really romantic,and i think i am,never get any gratitude though,guess its a curse.

sag86 i hit it the first day and next day, 2 week and 1 month of waiting ,so hell yeah,she had to go to work,but she didnt*evil grim*
i am sure she wanted it too,i just need the confidence(actually i was just confussed) after asking you guys i was 100% sure i was going to do it,i guess i needed someone else to tell me,(it really helps)

"Just own it!",yap that works

like i said before i have been with other girls but this one is different,she really knows how to keep me on my toes,i just kept asking for more 😄

JOJOJO are you still with her,if you are ,how is it,the relationship,decribe it as good as you can please

don't ever stop being romantic though 😉 it is who you are...

No, Mait... we are not together. We are just friends and now that I am friends with her I have a better understanding of her. My Aries is 27 and not in any way ready to commit. And if an Aries says they are not ready, then that's exactly what they mean, YOU CAN'T CHANGE THEIR MINDS. The split was very hard for me, because like they say when an Aries like/love you, you KNOW IT!!! That's how I found DXP; I needed to find a way to get her back. Well.... come to find out that most Aries don't return to exes, and so far that's true in our case. We are friends now and we still have a little drama as if we are still dating but we keep it moving. Now that we are friends, she has told me that her jealousy about me was too much for her to handle. Even to this day when she sees me out, she make smart ass comments about who's in my face. She said no one gets to her or can make her so mad the way I do. I had to learn that her leaving me was not a personal attack, because she quickly starts dating someone else. But it's just her way of dealing with not getting depressed, she a women of actions not words. So there's was no conversation as to why she didn't want it, or what made her tic, just gone and moved on. I find that Aries women are very caring women but can be overly protective of their hearts, which causes them to back out when a touch of doubt is present. Not so much doubts on either party but fear as well, but you will never hear one admit it. I said one time on DXP that Aries women are cold but I didn't quite understand them. Aries women are the warmest blankets in life you will ever meet. They are hot but soft, I LOVE MY ARIES.... now that I understand her. She never meant any harm but had to turn away from her own pain inside.

We talk about everything now, she does hide things from me, but I think she tries to protect my feelings and our friendship. We cuss, we hang up, we ignore then we speak peacefully, we call, we meet up and have dinner and laugh. Friends we are, Lovers—? That remains to be seen but I know it will be when she's ready.

So.... never push...control a little... breathe....love but don't always say it, just show it.....and remember....IT'S ALL ABOUT HER. Because you will know it's all about YOU!!!!

My advice to you now is, it's over, she's gone but it's nothing personal. Keep living be strong and don't show that you are weak without her. Because that's a major turn off. Aries women to me are not picky women but keep

My crap got cut off so here's the rest lol....

My advice to you now is, it's over, she's gone but it's nothing personal. Keep living be strong and don't show that you are weak without her. Because that's a major turn off. Aries women to me are not picky women but keep your look fresh, they find beauty in everyone, just like the baby sign they are.

Like Arianlatay said don't take it seriously. You will get DIZZY!!! LOL 😉

haha OFA ! it's your mars in aries 😛

jojo, that was so beautiful *sniffs* reminds me of me with my libra friends - the guys actually. we talk about everything it is quite shocking however on the dating, it is quite different.
that would scare me - there's this weird closeness that makes me think I will lose all control with dating a libra.

arianla, it isn't really wishy washy, imo - I think it is more impatience to deal with the reality of relationships. there's a sense of losing independence with that depth of feeling. aries can love freely when they realise it is not a form of weakness to compromise in love - libra can do this with some patience too but libra may be too busy balancing scales or wondering if aries impatient ways can stick with them when the scales are unbalanced.

arianl, you're right though about both not taking things so seriously

haha ! no ovationing please, my taurus rising's easily embarrassed 😢 but is it not true latay ?

omg OFA, you're gonna kill him !

Bed—? I once use to say that Scorps was the best lovers, now I put Aries on top...literally LMAO.

ha, sounds hot ! leave him some hair please ... don't want a baldy now do we 😛
you should try ripping his shirt too ! ha...

well we are animals after all 😛

thanks jojojo

and thats exactly how i am taking it,i lv her alone,she can do whatever she wants(i mean it in a good way,shes free),i am really not the jelous type,like i already said twice, i was seriously confused but the way you put it @jojojo thats exactly her,

i will just layback enjoy the good and run away from the bad 🙂,

"Bed—? I once use to say that Scorps was the best lovers, now I put Aries on top...literally LMAO."

been with a scorp,and i second that aries are better